Sex With Dr. Jess

In this week’s quickie episode, Jess shares practical strategies for having hotter sex this weekend and as your summer vacation approaches. From the 50/50 rule to packed surprises, these specific suggestions should lead you into the long weekend ready for passion, intimacy, and steamy sex. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. 

In this week's podcast, Jess is joined by her friend and fellow sexologist, Megan Stubbs. Megan speaks candidly about her masturbation habits and laughs about getting "caught" by her friend before a coffee date. They both share tips for more fulfilling self- pleasure sessions (e.g. Conscious masturbation) and We-Vibe gives listeners a chance to win two of Theo new products: the Verge & the Pivot. Holding degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology, Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She often hosts seminars, appears on television, speaks on radio and writes for many online and print publications. She believes that sex should be fun and uses her lighthearted, intelligent, and humorous delivery to make it happen. Follow Megan on… Facebook  Instagram Twitter

This week, Jess welcomes Kenneth Play. Kenneth Play is a former fitness professional, sex educator and one of the founders of Hacienda Villa - a sex house in NYC. You’re probably thinking ‘what goes on in a sex house?’ You’ll have to listen to find out! As mentioned in this episode, we must share one of Kenneth's hacks! Featuring Dr. Zhana, check out what tips the pair have when your date cancels last minute! (function(d, s, id) { var js, fjs = d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; if (d.getElementById(id)) return; js = d.createElement(s); js.id = id; js.src = "//connect.facebook.net/en_US/sdk.js#xfbml=1&version=v2.9&appId=585746744967355"; fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js, fjs); }(document, 'script', 'facebook-jssdk')); How to deal with last minute date cancellation

Stellar sex educator Luna Matatas joins Jess to talk about the taboo topic of pee play. Even if pee isn’t your cup of tea, you’ll learn some important lessons that you can apply to your sex life tonight. Luna Matatas is a burlesque artist, sexuality educator and crafting goddess. She invites you to adore the art of burlesque through her shows and workshops. Luna celebrates femininity, sex-positivity and all things that glitter. Jess became an instant fan and we're sure you will too! Follow Luna on… Twitter Instagram Facebook

This week Jess hosts her husband, Brandon Ware, for a tell-all on being married to a sexologist. He shares his thoughts on nude beaches, sex toys, public sex and more. Sit back and listen as Jess and Brandon walk you through their sexual journey. Brandon Ware is a founding partner with The WareInToronto Group and is the top sales representative with Private Service Realty. He is passionate about his business and his warm personality, in-depth market knowledge and solid negotiation skills set him apart from others in the field. Follow Brandon Ware on... Twitter Instagram Facebook See below for this episode's transcription... Dr. Jess: Hi there! This is Jess O'Reilly I am Sex with Dr. Jess, your friendly neighborhood sexologist and shouldn't every neighborhood have a sexologist? I don't know, maybe my neighbors would beg to differ. I am here as always to help you cultivate sexual compatibility so that you can a happier, more meaningful, more loving relationship and of course compatibility is something that requires work. It is not about destiny and it's not about finding the right partner. It is about training your partner and treating yourself, to meet your partner's needs. It's that simple! Now today, I'm a little bit nervous and a little bit excited, because I have with me Mister hahah no Mister Sex with Dr. Jess. Brandon: The man behind the woman. Dr. Jess: The man behind the woman but really the man who stands beside me, and props me up. Brandon: You want to be careful with where I’m standing. Dr. Jess: Yeah. My husband, Brandon Ware, my life partner, the love of my life is with us. Brandon say hi. Brandon: Hey everybody, how you doing? Dr. Jess: He’s doing… Brandon: I’m expecting a response. Dr. Jess: He’s doing the Barry White voice… Brandon: It’s White Barry. Are you doing there? Dr. Jess: Hahah. Definitely Barry White. Hahaha. We are going to talk about our life, because one of the top questions I receive after, ‘hey is it normal that I like to put this up my butt?’ and the answer is yes. Brandon: Hahah. Dr. Jess: One of the top questions I received is, ‘what did your husband think about what you do?’ So babe let's start there, we're going to be talking about how working in the field of human sexuality impacts our relationship and our sex life. I don’t think we’re going to get too graphic. Brandon: Nope. Dr. Jess: But ultimately your life changes when something that is so pleasurable and also so tied your identity becomes your life's work. So we'll start with: Brandon and what do you think of my job? Brandon: I think it's amazing. The positives definitely outweigh the negatives. Where do I even begin? There are so many things that we've been introduced to, exposed to, as a result of your job. Dr. Jess: That’s good and bad? Brandon: Um yeah it’s a bit of both. Dr. Jess: Exposed sounds umm… Brandon: Exposed isn’t the right word, maybe introduced to is the better terminology. I mean, let’s talk about Desire Resorts. That clothing-optional resort down on the Mayan Riviera. Dr. Jess: Yeah so I talk about Desire a lot. It’s not just because I work with them, honestly it's because it was life changing for me. And I’ve talked about how it made the way I’ve felt about my body, but I also know Brandon's told me that, and I don’t think he’s told me in so many words because the first time we went there we were in our mid-twenties so it’s 11-12 years ago. Hahah Brandon is getting close to 40. Brandon: Ya the countdown is on! Dr. Jess: It’s okay you look younger and act younger. Too young.

Dr. Jess hosts Sheri and Yvonne from Welcomed Consensus to discuss a few tools and techniques to achieve the perfect full body orgasm! Sheri is a founding member of the Welcomed Consensus. Through her research she discovered the effect of telling the truth about her desire and how essential communication is to having gratifying relationships and orgasm. Yvonne's writing focuses on pleasurable menopause giving new perspectives and a gratifying outlook on midlife. Her goals of spreading the fun, having her own orgasm expand and training a man to produce better orgasm in her body inspired her to become an instructor. Learn more about the ladies here. Follow Welcomed Consensus on... Twitter  Instagram  Facebook

It’s supposed to be the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, the holidays mean more responsibility, more stress and more friction. In this week’s podcast, Dr. Oren Amitay joins host Jessica O'Reilly to share specific tips to reduce relationship strife and promote a happy, harmonious and HOT holiday season. Be warned — Dr. Jess may or may not sing her heart out in this episode… This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. 

Are you and your S.O. on the same page when it comes to sexual needs? Tune in to this episode of "Sex With Dr. Jess" with Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O'Reilly for tips and tricks on how to communicate your sexual needs to your partner. Jessica interviews Jessica Maxwell, PhD Candidate, University of Toronto and debunks the myths of sexual chemistry. Jessica Maxwell is a PhD Candidate at the University of Toronto studying the social psychology of romantic relationships & sexuality. Follow Jessica Maxwell on Twitter. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.     

In this episode of "Sex With Dr. Jess," Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O'Reilly talks about divorce: what are the signs, how do couples fight for their marriage, and what happens when a marriage fails. Are you and your spouse sexually compatible? Tune in to hear some tips on how to be compatible in the long run! This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. 

For many couples, the biggest buzzkill involves spending too much time together! In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O'Reilly recounts what it was like to start traveling for work and missing her husband. Being able to balance your time with your lover is an important part of a relationship; dates with your friends, personal time, and traveling for work are important not just for you, but your relationship.

Let's talk about cheaters. Whether motivated by narcissism, commitment issues, or insecurity, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O'Reilly discusses the reasons why people cheat. Can you still be a good person after you've cheated?

Are you curious about the life and experiences of a sugar baby? In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O'Reilly interviews Brooke. Brooke speaks candidly about her relationship with her sugar daddy, comparing it to “traditional” relationships. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. 

Sexism contributes to fewer, poorer orgasms! If you want bigger, better, more frequent orgasms, you need to let go of your sexist beliefs and take matters into your own hands first. In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, with Sexologist and Relationship Expert Jessica O’Reilly addresses everyone - men and women alike - and challenges them to look at how sexism is taking a toll on their sexual relationship all in the name of the Big Ohhh!

In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Dr. Jessica O'Reilly discusses the recently unearthed recording of Donald Trump in which he brags about "[grabbing] them by the pussy." She shares some the daily messages she receives from her "fans" and discusses the problem with sending unsolicited sexually explicit messages. She also provides actionable tips for chatting & hooking up online. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. 

In this episode of Sex With Dr. Jess, Sexologist and Relationship Expert Dr. Jessica O'Reilly speaks about sexual compatibility and its importance to developing a healthy, happy relationship both in and out of the bedroom. She talks candidly about her exes and shares tips on improving your relationship and analyzing your compatibility.