Date Smarter, Not Harder!

It's become WAY too easy today for men to gratify themselves with women sexually with no commitment. Women are so aggressive, so desperate that they've been known to stuff their number into a guy's pocket. Women need to get back to the basics! If you are a single woman and find yourself tempted to deny your true desires for commitment and marriage, tempted to get sexual too soon, tempted to rush into relationships, or tempted to choose high-risk relationships with inappropriate guys or bad boys), this show is for you! Author of the book "Temptations of the Single Girl - The 10 Dating Traps You Must Avoid" Nina Atwood is our guest.

Women are frustrated with men! Men feel they are not being respected even though they are being sensitive nice guys. Women want a guy that cares, but that is still a decisive, responsible leader. What does it mean to be a man today? Can men inspire confidence and be the Knight in Shining Armor a woman wants? Or is it that women's expectations of men are based on fairy tale fantasies and totally unrealistic? Elliott Katz, author of "Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants" and Brenda Della Casa author of "Cinderella Was a Liar - The Real Reason You Can't Find or Keep a Prince!" are our guests for this interesting discussion on modern gender roles, expectations, and relationship conflicts.

Your thoughts on interracial dating will be discussed tonight! Black men with White women is common, but where does that leave Black women? Do White women really treat Black men better? How do Black women really feel about interracial dating and marriage between Black men and women of other races? Dr. Shane K. Perrault guests. Let's talk about interracial dating and interracial marriage in Black and White! Read: Interracial Dating Relationships - Black Women With White Men

Why do single men think that marrying them should be the goal of every woman in the world? Do single women still feel the need to behave in ways that meet the standards and expectations of men? Charles Orlando, author of The Problem with Women... is Men: The Evolution of a Man's Man to a Man of Higher Consciousness, Redbook Magazine love expert and Oprah guest Tina B. Tessina, LMFT, PhD, and Wendy Braitman, a confirmed bachelorette will guest!

Dr. Lige Dailey, Jr. is a San Francisco Bay Area marriage, family and child counselor, and author of several books about love. In this broadcast we'll examine his theories on the 14 types of love. We'll also take a hard look at our assumptions about love, and the issues which make it so difficult for men and women to love each other. Visit Dr. Dailey's site at Your Love Style

What is the secret to why some guys have women falling all over them and chasing them down to have sex, and other guys sit at home alone and horny night after night with the PlayStation controller? Even married men aren't getting lovin' with the regularity they'd like. Newsflash dudes! If you aren't getting laid regularly, the problem is with YOU.

Women complain that men are not interested in committed relationships anymore. But men want love, just as women do! Then why are there so many single men and women looking for a love that remains elusive and out of reach? Have you really gotten out there and tried, or are you waiting around at home for Mr./Ms. Right to come knocking on your door like the UPS man? What is it about you that may put others off - can you honestly say? These and many more issues discussed tonight, including the Friends With Benefits relationship and how it may prevent you from finding true love. Attracted to bad boys, players and thugs? Read Why Women Are Attracted to Bad Boys, Players and Thugs for more information on this subject.

Show will be a panel discussion with men, covering a variety of ages, races, lifestyle choices, and marital status. I'll be asking some hard questions about relationships, interracial dating, sex, marriage, playerism, what modern men are looking for in a mate, and lots more. Our panel includes BlobTalkRadio host Alexander Roderick, and author Lord Williams, along with Rod Williams, author of "Our Black Fathers - Brave Bold & Beautiful!" Join us as we discuss the differences between men and women and their expectations in romantic relationships.

Some people like their partners to be jealous, and go out of their way to evoke a jealous reaction. Some people cause severe damage to their relationships with undue, dysfunctional jealousy that causes a great deal of stress. Do you feel a sense of ownership and anger at perceived threats to your relationship, or do you try to hide your feelings of insecurity and jealousy? Join me as we discuss the personal and emotional impact of jealousy and how it may be killing your current relationship or preventing you from finding the love you seek. Read the article What Motivates a Woman to Snoop for more information on this subject.

Discussion of the influence of skin color and hair texture on romantic choices amongst African Americans. Why do Black folks continue to promote the caste system of the slave master, which provided preferential treatment to mulattos and quadroons? Why are Black women dying their hair blonde, using bleaching agents on their skin, wearing relaxers and blue and green contact lenses? Let's talk honestly about how skin color, hair texture and racial features impact selection criteria of African Americans, how you feel about yourself, and your perceived value as a romantic partner.

Essence best-selling author Michael J. Lockwood stops by to discuss his book "Women Have All The Power - Too Bad They Don't Know It!" This father of 3 daughters and and I will discuss top issues like why many career women can't keep a man, the tricks men use to steer women into bed and away from the altar, the importance of a strong male role model in a girl's life, and the importance of leaving something for marriage. An eye-opening discussion for many, many women. Join us!

Women are most often the targets of abusers, obsessive suitors, and violent exes, which results in harassment, rape, and sometimes death. Can women learn to recognize the potential obsessive and save herself? Kristina Powell will discuss ways to spot people who may have control issues or other negative personality traits. Detective Mike Proctor is a world renown stalking expert who has appeared on CNN, Court TV and 20/20. Candace Watson knows first hand the dangers of dating abusive men, and chronicles her story in the book "Ice." This is a timely and informative broadcast for both adults and teens! More details on AskHeartBeat.Com.

Author Pearl Jr. is here to discuss her new book "Black Women Need Love Too" and the conspiracy in the U.S. to keep Black women alone and lonely. Bleak statistics on the marital rate amongst African American women portray this fact. There are thousands of beautiful, accomplished Black women, yet they remain single and often dateless. why are Black women so often portrayed as no more than brash gold diggers, booty shaking hoochies, and "baby daddy" welfare queens, and most recently, the face of HIV/AIDS? Really, who or what is behind the denigration of Black women in the media, minds of society and the hearts of Black men? A very controversial topic!

Women in the U.S. often put more thought into catching a man, getting a ring out of him, and their wedding than they do the actual marital union! Examine yourself ladies so you can choose better partners and have the relationship and marriage you dream of. Do not point the finger of blame at him because it's NOT HIS FAULT! A successful relationship starts with YOU.

Rachael Zavala, author of "Dating rEvolution: How to Date Like a Man and Get Away With It!" shares her wit and wisdom with listeners. Get the nitty gritty on the modern dating scene - sex on the first date, friends with benefits, calling men, and more. Join us!