Bar Talk With Jay

When you noticed your relationship isn't where you want out to be? Is the fire not there? How do you deal? Do you encourage a change or do you move on? You tell us

When you noticed your relationship isn't where you want out to be? Is the fire not there? How do you deal? Do you encourage a change or do you move on? You tell us

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families have people that come along with a variety of characters and some of them could really use our help while others may look to take advantage of your kindness. It’s always more than meets the eye in most situations and you don’t know until your close. Thanks for listening!

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families have people that come along with a variety of characters and some of them could really use our help while others may look to take advantage of your kindness. It’s always more than meets the eye in most situations and you don’t know until your close. Thanks for listening!

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subconsciously? That’s a wide look. What about the individual? We talk about women having “daddy issues” but it some men have the same issues because they seem to lack examples when it comes to love and being a father. So who really has the “daddy issues”? As men start to look at their own mistakes we start to build better men and if we can start reaching out we can starter to building stronger as a whole. Thanks for listening!

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subconsciously? That’s a wide look. What about the individual? We talk about women having “daddy issues” but it some men have the same issues because they seem to lack examples when it comes to love and being a father. So who really has the “daddy issues”? As men start to look at their own mistakes we start to build better men and if we can start reaching out we can starter to building stronger as a whole. Thanks for listening!

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318)Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun and enjoy life. Whatever your preference, age usually plays a factor in our bias of expected behavior and what compromises we are willing to make because of those behaviors. The larger age discrepancies seem to draw the most ire from others. When you look at the situations where people frown upon or may assume dysfunction based on known ages of the parties.(i.e. Tiger King). Whichever way you fall on the side of age preference whether it be older or younger, you understand for the most part what the fundamental differences are. The thing people see to struggle with is when the age difference causes a difference in lifestyle choices. This friction is much more apparent after cohabitation. After a mistake or two an individual builds a profile based on their life and easily avoids the wrong type of individuals in a given age group.

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318)Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun and enjoy life. Whatever your preference, age usually plays a factor in our bias of expected behavior and what compromises we are willing to make because of those behaviors. The larger age discrepancies seem to draw the most ire from others. When you look at the situations where people frown upon or may assume dysfunction based on known ages of the parties.(i.e. Tiger King). Whichever way you fall on the side of age preference whether it be older or younger, you understand for the most part what the fundamental differences are. The thing people see to struggle with is when the age difference causes a difference in lifestyle choices. This friction is much more apparent after cohabitation. After a mistake or two an individual builds a profile based on their life and easily avoids the wrong type of individuals in a given age group.

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable situations and can even go as far as ending a relationship all togetherHave you gotten accused of treating your new boo like your ex? Do you have wounds that cause you to get labeled unreasonable? Maybe the shoe is on the other foot. You may be dealing with someone you are really into but they keep me showing things that they are not over from the past. Whichever roll you may play, you can agree that for the most part, baggage in this form is unhealthy and should be left at the door. Thanks for listening!

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable situations and can even go as far as ending a relationship all togetherHave you gotten accused of treating your new boo like your ex? Do you have wounds that cause you to get labeled unreasonable? Maybe the shoe is on the other foot. You may be dealing with someone you are really into but they keep me showing things that they are not over from the past. Whichever roll you may play, you can agree that for the most part, baggage in this form is unhealthy and should be left at the door. Thanks for listening!

In the last few months you and your significant other may have been spending a lot more time together. In some cases maybe too much. Nonetheless you may have hit a crossroad where the intimacy may have gone dull. The real challenge may lie in the willingness to up the ante on where are the outer edges a partner’s intimacy is. So the question usually comes up and sounds like “Are you comfortable with that?” or Have you ever done…”. This could create a beautiful new beginning or could ultimately be the end of everything. People have different levels of where they are willing to go. The key is hopefully finding someone who wants to go to the same place. So...how far do you go?

In the last few months you and your significant other may have been spending a lot more time together. In some cases maybe too much. Nonetheless you may have hit a crossroad where the intimacy may have gone dull. The real challenge may lie in the willingness to up the ante on where are the outer edges a partner’s intimacy is. So the question usually comes up and sounds like “Are you comfortable with that?” or Have you ever done…”. This could create a beautiful new beginning or could ultimately be the end of everything. People have different levels of where they are willing to go. The key is hopefully finding someone who wants to go to the same place. So...how far do you go?

This week on the podcast we go a little more personal. We usually keep it to you and your significant other but today let us focus on the individual. With the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the unknown had shaped the way we have lived our everyday lives. It’s to the point that the uncertainty is messing with people’s heads and it’s affecting our thinking and may not even know it. Some are aware and are dealing with like nothing wrong meanwhile most of us are coping and making sure we are staying safe. Thanks for listening!