Bar Talk With Jay

Take a moment to yourself and think about something. What ties you to the person who has given you the best bedroom experience? Be honest was it the love of your life, the crazy one that you couldn’t let go, a chance encounter, or the one you are with now. If it’s not the one you are with, then why not? Was there ever a downside whether with that person or going forward? Did it mess up your expectations and cause some strife? There are truly some highs and lows when it comes to those super passionate sessions sending sensations to all five senses. We will explore all these threads and more. Thanks for listening! - BTWJ

Take a moment to yourself and think about something. What ties you to the person who has given you the best bedroom experience? Be honest was it the love of your life, the crazy one that you couldn’t let go, a chance encounter, or the one you are with now. If it’s not the one you are with, then why not? Was there ever a downside whether with that person or going forward? Did it mess up your expectations and cause some strife? There are truly some highs and lows when it comes to those super passionate sessions sending sensations to all five senses. We will explore all these threads and more. Thanks for listening! - BTWJ

When your special someone mentions to you about something about their work spouse how does that make you feel? Is it a family friend that’s around all the time or is it a person that you hardly know that is in constant contact and it’s always “about work”? For any person, single or attached, a work spouse relationship can develop in different ways, with the Utopian scenario is very endearing friendship. The most useful versions would be a strategic alliance or a chemistry-based alliance. In most situations, both parties are knowingly keeping this relationship limited to a professional manner but each person actually cares. Now when there is any level of physical attraction, it is suggested to have honesty but….you know. So where do you set your boundaries with workplace-only companionship? Could you handle your significant other having someone really looking out for them in a caring way? Is it a must for you to meet the key co-workers or is it we keep our distance? Thanks for listening and watching!

When your special someone mentions to you about something about their work spouse how does that make you feel? Is it a family friend that’s around all the time or is it a person that you hardly know that is in constant contact and it’s always “about work”? For any person, single or attached, a work spouse relationship can develop in different ways, with the Utopian scenario is very endearing friendship. The most useful versions would be a strategic alliance or a chemistry-based alliance. In most situations, both parties are knowingly keeping this relationship limited to a professional manner but each person actually cares. Now when there is any level of physical attraction, it is suggested to have honesty but….you know. So where do you set your boundaries with workplace-only companionship? Could you handle your significant other having someone really looking out for them in a caring way? Is it a must for you to meet the key co-workers or is it we keep our distance? Thanks for listening and watching!

Your scariets dates

Your scariets dates

Everyone has a cheating story but what is best way to deal with situation? Stay and work it out or leave?

Everyone has a cheating story but what is best way to deal with situation? Stay and work it out or leave?

In 2019, haters have evolved. They have different methods of coming at you. They use different channels such as Facebook and Twitter and a multitude of methods to get under your skin. Everyone has haters of some kind. Some may be less obvious than others, ranging from anonymous commentators to your trusted inner circle. Some people may see those who oppose them as haters but may only have passionate fans who want the best. How can you tell the difference? Before you can deal with haters, if they are, you must recognize the different types of haters that can exist and their motives. Once you know what you're dealing with, then it’s time to use the proper technique of dealing with them. The most common way is just to work above their existence. This may seem harder when some of your biggest haters are people close to you and could even be family. It may even seem tougher when are actively sabotaging your efforts. You are not looking to carry yourself above someone like your better but in the sense that you can refrain from using thought processes that don’t keep your spirit in line. Ultimately you are trying not let your haters control, you, your actions, or thoughts. Once they have influence, they have control. Be wary of them all.Thanks for Listening!

In 2019, haters have evolved. They have different methods of coming at you. They use different channels such as Facebook and Twitter and a multitude of methods to get under your skin. Everyone has haters of some kind. Some may be less obvious than others, ranging from anonymous commentators to your trusted inner circle. Some people may see those who oppose them as haters but may only have passionate fans who want the best. How can you tell the difference? Before you can deal with haters, if they are, you must recognize the different types of haters that can exist and their motives. Once you know what you're dealing with, then it’s time to use the proper technique of dealing with them. The most common way is just to work above their existence. This may seem harder when some of your biggest haters are people close to you and could even be family. It may even seem tougher when are actively sabotaging your efforts. You are not looking to carry yourself above someone like your better but in the sense that you can refrain from using thought processes that don’t keep your spirit in line. Ultimately you are trying not let your haters control, you, your actions, or thoughts. Once they have influence, they have control. Be wary of them all.Thanks for Listening!

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street. There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges. While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow by way of your criteria being too complicated or hard to obtain.

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street. There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges. While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow by way of your criteria being too complicated or hard to obtain.

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street. There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges. While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself. The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street. There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges. While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow

Topic of the week: Have you been in love with another person while in your current relationship? Would you compromise happiness for the success of a relationship?As always we have weekly check-ins with Jamal and good ‘Dr. Rev.’ JefferyThere are many ways to look at how cheating can be done but the part that usually goes deeper is of the emotional kind. This is when feelings can really start to get involved and love can manifest. The first question that comes up is what are the circumstances that allow this to happen in the first place? You may find yourself lacking certain things in your current situation that you may get in abundance in another. If you are that person you really have to consider is it really love and is something you should take action on? There are many situations where the success of a relationship are based on the union more than love. Some great times may not be worth letting go of what you have overall. On the other hand could you be passing on true happiness?