The New Man

https://amzn.to/3Lk7VTt Junpo Denis Kelly Interview A Heart Blown Open Do you believe that if you make enough money, have enough sex, do enough drugs, meditate enough, whatever -- that you'll be able to escape the frustration of living? Is your striving and seeking making you miserable? And what is more satisfying than tons of sex and mind crushing drugs? In this encore episode, the late Zen Master Junpo Denis Kelly discusses his life and his attempts to outrun suffering, anger and the law. In this interview: * Why it's okay to be angry* A little boy covered in urine experiencing samadhi* Spiritual benefits of LSD* Keith Martin Smith and A Heart Blown Open* Ken Wilber's role in the book* Escaping life and the law* Striving/seeking vs letting go* Lots and lots of meditation Click here for Keith Martin Smith's book A Heart Blown Open. About Junpo Denis Kelly https://hollowboneszen.org/founder-junpo-roshi https://hollowboneszen.org/founder-junpo-roshi The late Junpo Denis Kelly, received his Zen Masters recognition in 1992. He was Vice Abbot and head monk as well as resident yoga teacher at Dai Bosatsu Zendo Kong Ji in the Catskill Mountains in New York state from 1987 through 1993. His Inka Zen lineage was in the Rinzai tradition, through Eido Shimano Roshi of the The Zen Studies Society. His yoga lineage was that of BKS Iyengar and Patabi Jois. Junpo had been practicing, studying and teaching Zen and Yoga for over twenty-five years at the time of his passing in 2021. Click here for Keith Martin Smith's book A Heart Blown Open

Afraid to take risks? Afraid to admit you’re afraid? Greg Long nearly drowned surfing Cortes Bank and went Christmas shopping the next day. Recovering mentally and emotionally was a much more challenging ordeal. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/05/greg-long-big-wave-drowning-cortes-bank

How to Beat Mental Resistance https://youtu.be/ZSEcOkT5-Pg If your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path? How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence? And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days? In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters. In this video: * Tripp’s wannabe rock star days * Why mental resistance shows up * The 3 commitments that keep us stuck * The cost of letting resistance win * 5 steps to get back on track Click here for Tripp Lanier’s book This Book Will Make You Dangerous: The Irreverent Guide For Men Who Refuse to Settle. Meet Tripp Lanier Tripp Lanier is a professional coach, author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous, and host of The New Man Podcast: Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp which — for over a decade — has been downloaded millions of times. Since 2005, he has spent thousands of hours coaching people all around the world to get out of the rat race, become an authority in their field, and make a great living doing the work they were put on this earth to do. Over the years he’s designed several businesses to support a simple lifestyle focused on freedom, ease, meaning, and fun. Click here to learn more about Tripp Lanier’s coaching and book.

What if our ego is not the enemy? What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind? And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes? In this video, we explore the flawed belief that “killing the ego” is the pathway to inner peace. We’ll also explore a very accessible way to build inner alliances instead. Click here for my interview with Dr. Richard Schwartz about IFS (Internal Family Systems, No Bad Parts). https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy

Professional racing driver, David Perel shares his startup founder mindset, developing a new business during Covid, and living his dream to race at Le Mans. How his startup went into high gear when sim racing exploded while the world shut down. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/startup-founder-mindset-david-perel

Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why losses can sting so bad - Reinventing ourselves - Another way to approach competition https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/competitor-mindset-kelly-slater

Do some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill - One of my disgusting pranks https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/magical-mindset

Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this audio: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always laziness https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity

Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations - 3 steps to shift into a more powerful mindset https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/outgrow-your-life

Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates? Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought? And what puts the brakes on your sex life? Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life. We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life

My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big Do fears of going broke keep you playing small? Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss how fear holds us back from what we truly want, why self leadership matters, and the difference between coaching and therapy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs

Do you fear your ambition? What's the opposite of imposter syndrome? Optimize/Heroic founder, Brian Johnson discusses ambition, assessing risk, and leading from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny). https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition

Sebastian Junger ("Freedom", "Tribe", "The Perfect Storm") discusses the benefits of danger, why we need to be willing to die for our group, and what he saw right before he died. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/sebastian-junger-freedom

What if avoiding conflict was the thing killing your relationship and sex life? Are you being fake with your partner because you’re afraid to tell the truth? And is it possible to end a relationship with peace of mind? Relationship School founder Jayson Gaddis returns to discuss his new book Getting to Zero. Today he and I explore how conflict — especially avoiding conflict — is killing the relationships, trust, and sexual experiences we’re trying to protect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/jayson-gaddis-getting-to-zero You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Richard Schwartz ("No Bad Parts") IFS founder discusses inner critics, our addiction to achievement, and why we don’t need to strive for an awakened life. #internalfamilysystems https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com