The New Man

Are you meant to do something else professionally? And how does nice guy syndrome show up at work? In this coaching call, I talk with an overwhelmed entrepreneur who's wondering if she should consider another business. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/overwhelming-workload What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F is now a movie. Mark and I discuss making the film, what makes him feel insecure, and what Will Smith taught him about fame. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/01/mark-manson-movie What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to deal with money fears. Are you sick of your 9-5 day job? Is money a mysterious force that seems to always have power over you? In this coaching call, I work with a woman who is tired of feeling dragged around by her finances. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/how-to-deal-with-money-fears What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Phil Stutz (the subject of Jonah Hill’s Netflix documentary, "Stutz") and Barry Michels discuss building energy, overcoming your worst habits, and the danger of your fantasy future. @TheToolsBook #philstutz #barrymichels https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/phil-stutz-barry-michels-coming-alive-interview What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome. In this call: The client uses anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. Also, moving from people pleasing to creating the wholeness and relationship he truly wants. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/nice-guy-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Phil Stutz and Barry Michels — The Tools Interview Do you ever get negative thoughts that you just can't seem to shake? Do you get all fired up to make a change but then eventually end up quitting? And are you hoping that one day you'll have all this crap figured out and you won't have to worry it anymore? In this encore episode, Phil Stutz and Barry Michels are here to discuss The (legendary) Tools. Phil Stutz was recently the subject of Jonah Hill’s Netflix documentary entitled, Stutz. I’ve been fortunate enough to work directly with Phil, and this is a great time to revisit some interviews with him and Barry Michels. In this interview: * A tool to beat procrastination * How to let go of a grudge * What to do if you've lost your temper * How to stop freezing up in social situations * Making peace with the parts you want to hide from the world Also: * How to get out of the worry and negative thinking spiral * What to do when you quit and feel like crap * The hidden expectation that is driving us nuts * How to stop being a personal development jackass * The two demons that kill your motivation * When thinking screws things up And: * A story about a guy who "had it all" and then hit the wall * How did he bounce back? Click here for The Tools: 5 Tools to Help You Find Courage, Creativity, and Willpower--and Inspire You to Live Life in Forward Motion by Phil Stutz and Barry Michels. About Phil Stutz and Barry Michels Phil Stutz and Barry Michels are the authors of Coming Alive: 4 Tools to Defeat Your Inner Enemy, Ignite Creative Expression, and Unleash Your Soul's Potential and The Tools: 5 Tools to Help You Find Courage, Creativity, and Willpower—and Inspire You to Live Life in Forward Motion, a New York Times bestseller. Referred to as “the most sought-after shrinks in Hollywood” by Lawrence O’Donnell and “an open secret in Hollywood” by the New Yorker, Barry and Phil’s client list boasts top writers, actors, producers, CEOs, and other creatives. In their books and public events, they share the same Tools they use behind closed doors with their clients. Phil Stutz graduated from City College in New York and received his MD from New York University. He worked as a prison psychiatrist on Rikers Island and then in private practice in New York before moving his practice to Los Angeles in 1982. Barry Michels has a BA from Harvard, a law degree from University of California, Berkeley, and an MSW from the University of Southern California. He has been in private practice as a psychotherapist since 1986. The two are the authors of the New York Times bestselling books, The Tools and Coming Alive.

Are You Afraid You May Be Stuck in the Wrong Career? In this coaching call, a former golf pro now has money and stability. But something’s missing. We connect the dots between playing it safe, risk, and doing what makes him feel truly alive. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/stuck-in-wrong-career What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Is your drive to be productive burning you out? Does the idea of relaxing create anxiety or guilt? In this coaching call, I help a man explore what drives his deep need to be productive. Also: how we use work to escape emotions. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/11/burned-out What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

In this encore episode, Jeff Salzman from The Daily Evolver podcast stops by to discuss integral theory. Ken Wilber’s integral theory has had a huge impact on my life, and today Jeff and I are going to explore how it can help us navigate our conflicted world. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/integral-theory-jeff-salzman What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

In this encore episode, The Mastery of Self author and transformative teacher Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. is here to talk about power, why successful guys still live in scarcity, and what you can do about that guy on Facebook who keeps pissing you off. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/don-miguel-ruiz-jr What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

Chip Conley on Pressure, Anxiety, and Doing What You Love https://amzn.to/3CqXtbG When you feel anxiety, don't you wish you had a tool to make it go away? Do you believe your calling in life has to pay the bills? And what's the easiest way to improve your life without having to earn more money or change your relationship status? In this encore episode, Emotional Equations author Chip Conley discusses some logical ways to deal with the most confusing part of your life — emotions. In this interview: * The danger of numbing or ignoring your emotions* Dealing with anxiety* Quick tips to work with confusing emotions* Taking the pressure off* Your Calling vs The Workaholic* When Chip's heart stopped on stage Click here for Emotional Equations by Chip Conley. About Chip Conley Rebel hospitality entrepreneur and New York Times bestselling author, Chip Conley disrupted his favorite industry… three times. At age 26 he founded Joie de Vivre Hospitality (JdV), transforming an inner-city motel into the second largest boutique hotel brand in America. He sold JdV after running it as CEO for 24 years, and soon the young founders of Airbnb asked him to help transform their promising start-up into the world’s leading hospitality brand. Chip served as Airbnb’s Head of Global Hospitality and Strategy for four years and remains the company’s Strategic Advisor for Hospitality and Leadership. Chip is the founder of the Modern Elder Academy (MEA), where a new roadmap for midlife is offered at a beautiful oceanfront campus in Baja California Sur, Mexico, and forthcoming campuses in Santa Fe, NM. His five books have made him a leading authority at the intersection of psychology and business. Chip was awarded “Most Innovative CEO” by the San Francisco Business Times, is the recipient of hospitality’s highest honor, the Pioneer Award, and holds a BA and MBA from Stanford University. Click here for Emotional Equations by Chip Conley.

Jaimal Yogis The Fear Project - Training the Brain to Overcome Fear Are some guys just born fearless? Does fear keep you stuck or help you live a more passionate life? And are you going for what you want or just trying to prove you're not weak? Neuroscience, meditation, PTSD, pickup artists, ultra swimmers, big wave surfers, MMA fighters -- in this encore episode, Fear Project author Jaimal Yogis shares how all of this can help you train your brain to overcome fear. In this interview: * How fear gives you a powerful choice* How bad experiences can be transformed* Is all fear bad?* When is fear lying to you?* How to build motivation and passion Plus: * Surfing huge waves* Why guys will risk their lives to avoid looking weak* PTSD and meditation* Getting rejected by women* How to train your courage muscle Click here for The Fear Project: What Our Most Primal Emotion Taught Me About Survival, Success, Surfing . . . and Love by Jaimal Yogis. About Jaimal Yogis Jaimal Yogis is an award-winning writer, outdoorsman, and frequent teacher. He is the author of the memoir Saltwater Buddha, which has been made into a feature documentary film, and The Fear Project: What Our Most Primal Emotion Taught Me About Survival, Success, Surfing, and Love. A graduate of Columbia Journalism School, he has written for ESPN: The Magazine, the Washington Post, the Chicago Tribune, San Francisco magazine, Surfer’s Journal, and many other publications. He lives in San Francisco with his wife, Amy, and their three sons. Click here for The Fear Project: What Our Most Primal Emotion Taught Me About Survival, Success, Surfing . . . and Love by Jaimal Yogis.

Are you and your partner lit up about the same things or are you growing apart? How do you get fired up to make a big relationship commitment? And when is it time to pull the plug on your relationship? My wife, Alyson Lanier, is a relationship and intimacy coach with over 20 years of experience. Our previous interview has been downloaded more times than any other episode of The New Man. In this encore episode she’s gonna tell us how she helps those couples who are sick of struggling but aren’t clear about how to move forward. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/10/end-your-relationship You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

What happens after you make all of your dreams come true? What if hope is just another form of evil? And are we making life harder than it needs to be? Mark Manson sold millions of copies of his last book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and he’s back with a new one called Everything is F*cked. In this encore episode, we talk about slaughtering our sacred cows, why hope makes us fight one another, and why success tends to make us weak. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/09/mark-manson-interview-2 You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. http://dangerousbookstore.com

How to Have Difficult Conversations - A Gay Man Comes Out to His Sons Are you avoiding an uncomfortable conversation with someone? Are you scared that something awful will happen if you’re honest with them? And could it be possible that life might get better after you have this scary discussion? In this encore episode, Mark Silverman talks about having difficult conversations — Here’s what he’s learned after pulling back the curtain and telling his wife, co-workers, and sons he was gay. In this interview: * Battling alcohol and drug addiction* Being openly gay and then deciding he was not gay* From homeless to living the American Dream* Getting married and starting a family* Getting a divorce Plus: * Coming out as a gay man* Feeling terrified to tell his sons he was gay* Finding his calling and switching careers after being very successful financially* Redefining what it means to do challenging or risky things Click here for Only 10s 2.0: Confront Your To-Do List and Transform Your Life by Mark Silverman. About Mark Silverman Mark Silverman is no stranger to overcoming adversity and mastering his own overwhelm. When he was 27, he was homeless, 135lbs, and living in his truck. 10 years later he, he was a millionaire. Mark is on a mission to take the lessons learned along the way, paired with his business acumen, to help others define and achieve their own successes. Mark came to coaching after a successful career in technology, where he generated over $90,000,000 for fast-growing startups by bringing together executives, technical leaders and stakeholders to close complex multimillion-dollar sales. He brings his leadership experience, together with his coach and facilitation training, to his clients helping them achieve sustainable success in all areas of their business and lives. He is the author of the Bestselling Only 10s 2.0 – Confront Your To- Do List, Transform Your Life which has sold over 75,000 copies to date. Mark helps CEOs, Senior Leadership, and Fast Rising High Achievers leverage their resources and team for greater impact. He is also the host of the “Mastering Overwhelm – How To Thrive in Business, Relationship and Life” podcast and working on his third book. Click here for Only 10s 2.0: Confront Your To-Do List and Transform Your Life by Mark Silverman.