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Back from vacation and we are ready to start a new school year.  This time of year is a great time to reflect as a couple on what you have done over the past year as well as a great time to look forward to where you are heading. In this weeks show we take […]

It had been a rough day.  Tony lost his temper, grabbed Alex’s arm and scared Abby.  And on top of that we got into it ourselves.  What do you when it seems like the world is crashing down around you? We made the decision to have a “conference” with our kids and talk through this […]

Are stressful situations good for your marriage?  This week Tony and Alisa were hit with an unexpected case of lice (times 3). Tony and Alisa had to make decisions on how they were going to treat each other and how they were going to serve one another. There wasn’t much time to think, but the […]

Husbands, it’s time to stand up! Take a hard look at yourself in the mirror. Are you taking a stand in your marriage and becoming the man your wife desires? Or are you pulling the “I don’t like it card”? It’s time that you start taking the lead on date nights, helping around the house, […]

One of these days we are no longer going to walk this earth. We’ll be in heaven with our Father enjoying the good life. Those left behind though will live on with the teachings we showed them.  It is while we are here on earth that we can leave a legacy, a marriage legacy that […]

Is it just about sex? Is a question we get asked often. Is that the secret to our extraordinary marriage? You just have a lot of sex and then the marriage gets better? NO! It’s not just about SEX. It’s about growing in all 6 forms of intimacies in your marriage. It’s realizing when you […]

Marriages ebb and flow over days, months, and years. This week Tony & Alisa discuss what to do when taking the lead is not happening during their Intimacy Lifestyle. It was time to bring this up and work through the why’s this is happening. It’s time to sit down with your spouse and take stock […]

079 – Taking Stock

In marriage there come times when our words wound the one we love the most. Many times we don’t realize the lasting effects these words have on our spouse, but in many cases they do. Days, months, and even years later the messages are being played over and over like a broken record. It’s difficult […]

Are you paying attention to the warning signs in your marriage? This past weekend we attended the Church at Rancho Bernardo’s annual marriage retreat. This is the third year that we’ve attended and each year we learn something new about our marriage. One of the first questions that was asked of the group was: What […]

077 – Check Engine

Nobody likes to talk about death and the impact it can have on our marriage. The reality is that we are all going to die one day. The question to ask yourselves since this will inevitable happen is, Are your affairs in order both spiritually and personally? In this episode we talk through the death […]

It’s been a week where it feels like all we have heard about are marriages in trouble, conversations with friends who are making life-changing decisions, emails from listeners about to call it quits.  Separation and divorce have been something we’ve been hearing a lot about lately. While this is not a topic that is easy to talk […]

There are times in our marriages when we just don’t have the energy or stamina to go on. Between family obligations, kids, work, outside actives, and the like we have nothing left. It’s during these times that we need continue on with God as our guide. Two emails came in this week that prompted us […]

Over the years there have been times in our marriage when we completed a task or challenge and looked each other in the eyes and knew we did something special. This past week was one of those times. The thing is that you can have a We Did IT! moment and it doesn’t have to […]