ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show | Sex. Love. Commitment.

Many of us don’t like confrontation. To avoid a confrontation we’ll us different strategies. One of the most damaging is by saying one thing to our spouses with the full intention of doing something else. Instead of being honest with our spouse, we sabotage our marriage with these deceptions.  This behavior requires us to expend […]

This week’s podcast comes from our son and little league baseball. We’re sure that many of you can relate to kids and their athletic endevours. Early in the season, his first season playing baseball, things were not going so well. He wanted to quit just like many of us want to do at times in […]

Summer is here and it’s time to add some adventure into your physical intimacy. This is a lighthearted look at many different places that you can have sex. Get out of your “comfort zone” and have some fun this summer. What places have you or would you like to make love? Share with us below. […]

120 – Oh The Places You’ll Go

This weeks podcast is about finding your way back to intimacy after struggling for years with infertility. We share ideas that we have learned from friends of ours who have found intimacy in their marriage after years of struggling with infertility. When we started this episode our main goal is to give a voice to […]

Great expectations…All of us have them. The way we want things done, the way we want those in our life to do what we want and yet, it doesn’t always turn out the way we want. What do we do then? Sometimes we lash out, sometimes we shut down, but really there has got to […]

Who is at the center of your marriage? Have you thought about that. Really taken the time to sit down with your spouse and discuss who is at the center of your marriage. As we prepare for the 3rd annual 7 Days of Sex Challenge we are looking back at when we fully committed to letting […]

You have a choice everyday to either have Mad, Passionate, Extraordinary Love or Mediocrity love.  No where is it said or written that you have to “settle” for anything in your marriage.  Just because you’ve been married for (insert years married here) years doesn’t mean that you can’t be crazy in love. Go have Mad, Passionate, […]

Over this last week we have heard from many couples that are struggling with emotional affairs, separation or even divorce.  It’s been frustrating for us to hear the lines spouses are saying during these times such as: You don’t make me happy anymore. I don’t think I have ever loved you. This other person is […]

Our house saga is finally coming to a close as we wrap up the short sale. Over the last 4 months we’ve had the opportunity to really think about those things that serve as a distraction to our marriage. Are you so wrapped up in work or with your friends that you forget to spend […]

114 – The Simple Life

We’ve all done it, somebody walks across your path and you look. Then maybe you take another one or two looks. Unfortunately, most of the time our spouse catches us looking. This leads to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity in our marriage. We’ve been there! So what do you do? It’s time to have those […]

Love is an overused word in our society.  We love ice cream and we love our spouses, but how did God really desire for us to love our spouses?  There are three different types of love used in the bible: raya, ahava and dod. When we think of these as flames burning in our marriages […]

One of you wants sex all the time, one of you not so much-what’s wrong with this picture? Nothing! You are just like the rest of us, dealing with differing levels of desire within your marriage. What’s a couple to do? Spend some time today learning about high desire and low desire and it’s impact […]

It hurts when someone violates our trust, especially when that someone is the person that we are married to.  Building trust is not easy and it’s not automatic either. Building trust requires both a husband and a wife to be willing to draw the line in the sand, the line that says, “I chose this […]