ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show | Sex. Love. Commitment.

We had two “We Did IT!” this week! And an awesome number of listener emails that we talk through as they deal with family boundaries, make up sex, and your encouraging words. Secrets can destroy your marriage.  This week Tony & Alisa share how to talk about these secrets and how they have been able […]

Are you taking the steps necessary to maintain the intimacy in your marriage during this crazy time of year?  This is a time when we can find ourselves so busy with all that “needs to be done” that we neglect the relationships that matter the most.  One way to improve the intimacy in your marriage […]

Thanksgiving is just a few days away and this is a fantastic time to reflect back on all of your blessings both large and small.  Sometimes in the midst of everyday life we lose sight of how much we have received. We challenge you during the next month to take the time to write down […]

048 – Count Your Blessings

We are almost to 2011 and it’s a great time to be thinking about your goals for next year.  So often we focus on our individual goals but it’s time to sit down and work through the goals the two of you have for your marriage.  Listen in as we talk through the Lukas Coaching […]

So often in our marriages we are playing this invisible game where we keep track of everything our spouse does, comparing it to what we are doing to see who is the winner and who is the loser.  You are in a marriage NOT a game.  There cannot be a winner and a loser if […]

So often in our marriages we fail to take responsibility for our actions.  Have you ever not apologized?  Just swept the issue “under the rug”?  Waited for everything to blow over?  STOP IT! It’s does not matter if you get the words right, what matters is that you say them.  Start taking responsibility for your […]

044 – On the Road Again

Can the two of you maintain your intimacy while one is away and the other is at home?  You both want to make sure that intimacy stays a priority in your marriage, but how do you make that happen when there is so much to do! Grab your drink of choice, sit back, and enjoy […]

Have you stopped to think about what your spouse and family really want from you? Do you know that most of them would be willing to have less “stuff” if it meant more of you?  Part of making your marriage extraordinary is investing in the relationships that matter most.  This week we challenge you to really […]

Are you just talking about change or are you ready to step up to the plate and make things happen in your marriage? It’s time to stop trying and start doing! Whether it’s getting in shape or trying a new position make things happen today.  It’s easy to talk about what you are going to […]

Have you taken the time to think about how you view your marriage? Every relationship has highs and lows but the difference is all in your mindset. Do you choose to look at the future wondering what is around the corner or do you dread every day. This journey called marriage should be the most exciting adventure…what are […]

Are you focusing more on your kids than on your spouse?  It’s time to teach yourselves and the kids that they are not the center of the universe. It is so easy to get wrapped up in what the kids need that we lose sight of what our marriage needs and our spouse needs. When […]

Week 6 –  Stripped Down 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Small Group Podcast This week we wrap up our small group podcast on Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage. Over the past 6 weeks we dove into the other 11 Keys and this week is no different.  So, […]

Week 5 –  Stripped Down 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Small Group Podcast It’s time to take some action this week, starting with your bedroom.  Your bedroom needs to be a sanctuary, a place where the two of you can get away from it all.  Clean out the clutter, the electronics and […]