ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show | Sex. Love. Commitment.

Do you have an attitude of service in your marriage? You can make a difference in your marriage, in your life, in the world. By choosing to serve, without expectation or requirement of a return, you free yourself to fully enjoy intimacy. You choose to become a giver instead of a taker. When both spouses have this […]

We crave physical touch both non-sexual and sexual. Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse? Are you open to what your spouse might suggest? This week we challenge you to share your desires and make a commitment to deepen the intimacy in your marriage Intimacy Ignited – The book that launched 60 […]

In California we drive. We drive a lot to tell you the truth so this week on our drive home from Easter with the DiLorenzo family we decided to make use of our drive time. Join Alisa and I as we talk about the family dynamics during a holiday get together. What is it like when […]

Can 7 days really make a difference in your marriage?  We are placing bets that it can. Decide that for one week your spouse is going to be your number one priority and see what happens. Celebrate as you rediscover the communication in your marriage. Why? Because you have to be working through the annoyances […]

“Never leave your partner, especially in a fire.” We are a little behind the times but better late than never. This is an amazing movie that will dramatically impact you wherever you are in your marriage. At so many points throughout the movie we found ourselves moved by how true to life this was, how […]

We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she was staying. It was by chance that […]

010 – Can You Admit When You Are Wrong?

Can you admit when you are wrong? Or are you quick to jump on the defensive when your spouse brings up an issue? Listen in as we share our less than perfect week. I (Alisa) was moody and irritable, quick to dismiss anything that Tony had to say. Listen to the he said/she said of […]

You’ve heard everyone talk about it…but are you doing it?  Date night that is.  Low budget or over the top, spending time with your spouse is critical to the life of your marriage. Listen as  we talk about some of our most recent date nights and what you can do to make date night a […]

008 – Eyes Wide Open

Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse?  How do you react when he/she suggests trying something new.  In this podcast Tony and Alisa talk about one of Tony’s ideas and how it played out in the bedroom. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663

Are you aware of the destructive force that pornography can have in your marriage? 28,358 individuals are viewing porn every second Internet porn generated $2.84 billion in 2006 70% of porn is viewed between the 9-5 eight-hour workday (LJ INdex, September 2007) Pornography not only distorts your perception of your spouse, but it also creates […]

The Power of Prayer…change is possible, are you willing to ask for what you want and wait for it to happen? In our microwave society we want what we want RIGHT NOW! The reality is this: we can’t change our spouse or their actions no matter how much we want to do so. The power […]

It’s the ultimate marriage chicken and egg scenario…Are you satisfied with less frequent mind blowing sex? OR Does more frequent sex lead to better sex because you learn how to better please your spouse? We weigh in on these options and discuss what has happened in our marriage. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit […]

005 – Sex: Quantity vs Quality