The Legendary Marriage Podcast

Summary: If you’ve ever considered going into business with your spouse, then you’ll want to listen to this episode! Tom and Ariana are college sweethearts who are partners in not just 1, but THREE businesses, and they’re on the show this week to share some of the lessons they’ve learned along the way. About Tom & Ariana Sylvester: Tom is a serial entrepreneur, husband, father and sometime Call of Duty player. Ariana is the Reality Checker, Wife, Mother and Chai Lover. College Sweethearts and now Business partners, this husband & wife team are owners to 3 very different businesses. While running their real estate business, wine & liquor store, and online coaching & training for entrepreneurs, they’ve also raised two energetic youngsters. Together, their big picture goal is to help other entrepreneurs achieve fulfillment both in business & in life, by teaching them the important lessons they have learned on their journey. Where you can find Tom and Ariana online: Website Facebook Community Facebook Page Instagram   In This Episode:  • What do you really want your marriage to look like? • Everyone has some sort of “unfair advantage.” • Celebrate how far you’ve come. • If you don’t have the difficult conversations and get on the same page, you will drift apart. • Be a student of your spouse.   Resources: Tom and Ariana have an exclusive offer for Legendary Marriage listeners. Get their “Top 3 Tips to Integrate Your Life & Business” You can get your FREE copy here: https://tomandariana.com/integrate The Challenge: Try a weekly marriage meeting with 2 simple questions: What went well this week? What didn’t? Listen Now:

Summary: A woman’s heart is a mysterious and beautiful thing. Karin Harper dives into that mystery in this rich, honest interview as she shares about how important caring for your heart really is, and how it impacts all of your relationships. About Karin Harper: Karin Harper is a transformational leader, pastor and a passionate Christ-follower who’s a lover of people, beauty & adventure. She lived overseas for 10 years helping people investigate if there’s a God & how He can be real in their lives. She is committed to community and for over 7 years now has worked in 2 different churches helping people connect with other & go deep in their faith. She loves to help people declutter their homes & their hearts so they can create the space that makes their heart come alive. She also helps women discover their truest identity and their passions through leading the Destiny Project. She can often be found traveling, exploring in nature or chilling in her camping hammock. Where you can find Karin online: Website Twitter Instagram   In This Episode:  • Fill up your heart, so that you can give more to others.. • The Destiny Project • If you’re afraid of an emotional affair, check yourself. • A man can not heal something you’re not willing to deal with on your own. • The importance of celebrating and mourning together.   The Challenge: Bless your spouse by calling forth their strength, beauty, and brilliance. Simply take their hand ans say something like: “I love how you are _______.” Listen Now:

Summary: What are the biggest mistakes women and couples make in their marriage?  Listen in on part 2 of our interview with Leadership Coach Michael Warden as he continues to unpack the ways that we sabotage our relationships. About Michael Warden: I’m the founder and president of the Ascent Coaching Group, Inc, and have been coaching full time over 12 years now. I am fully trained and certified as a co-active coach through the Coaches Training Institute, as well as in Relationship Intelligence and Systems Work through The Center for Right Relationship. I’m also a PCC (Professional Certified Coach) with the International Coach Federation, which is the principle governing body of professional coaches around the world.   Where you can find Michael online: Website Twitter Instagram   In This Episode:  • When a woman’s roles become her identity. • Family becomes stronger with a wife & mother steeped in her true identity. • Couples giving up their heart. • Use the Relationship Wheel to gain back your heart. • Dream together again – wondering, what’s possible? • The Braveheart Intensive • The Destiny Project   The Challenge: Have a “Marriage Summit” conversation, using the 6 sections of the Relationship Wheel. Rate your satisfaction in each section 1-10 (10 being completely satisfied) Then discuss. Finally – ask the question “What’s possible?” Links / Resources: Michael has made available ADVANCE ACCESS to his new video series: Awaken the Hero Within. This is a seriously fantastic resource for men to take advantage of. Just CLICK HERE to get your copy now. Listen Now:

Summary: What’s the biggest mistake men make in their marriage?  Listen in as Leadership Coach Michael Warden unpacks the one thing men do, that sabotages marriage every time. About Michael Warden: I’m the founder and president of the Ascent Coaching Group, Inc, and have been coaching full time over 12 years now. I am fully trained and certified as a co-active coach through the Coaches Training Institute, as well as in Relationship Intelligence and Systems Work through The Center for Right Relationship. I’m also a PCC (Professional Certified Coach) with the International Coach Federation, which is the principle governing body of professional coaches around the world.   Where you can find Michael online: Website Twitter Instagram   In This Episode:  • Husbands – keep it wild! • The domestication of married men. • Holding a beach ball under water. • Women in support of wildness. • The trouble with playing small. • The Braveheart Intensive   The Challenge: Have a conversation together about the wildness you really desire, and how to embrace it in healthy ways. Links / Resources: Michael has made available ADVANCE ACCESS to his new video series: Awaken the Hero Within. This is a seriously fantastic resource for men to take advantage of. Just CLICK HERE to get your copy now. Listen Now:

Summary: On the edge of a divorce, Clarissa and her husband found the courage to fight for Oneness, and transform their marriage by taking responsibility for how they have hurt each other. Defying all odds, Clarissa and Evan have worked hard to restore their marriage and change the story of their family forever. About Clarissa Mance: I’m Clarissa Mance, Transformation Coach for moms who feel lost in motherhood and are ready to rediscover the woman she’s designed to be. I’m the wife to Evan (7 years in July!) and mama to 3 little ones (Nathaniel – 6, Nora – 3, Natalie – 1). I was born and raised in the PNW and am thrilled to now be raising my babes here. I’m a lover of Jesus, cultivator of self-love habits, red wine fanatic and daily high heel wearer. You can connect with Clarissa here:  On Instagram Fiercely Feminine FaceBook Group Clarissa’s FaceBook Page   In This Episode:  • The importance of believing the best in your spouse. • What to do if you’re contemplating divorce. • Find the best way to fix issues in your marriage. • What’s exhausting about standing your ground. • Trying to control your spouse, never works out well.   The Challenge: Open your journal, and reflect on what you need to work on in order to become a better version of yourself, and a better spouse, then come join the conversation in our FREE community on Facebook. Links / Resources: You long to have adventures with your family, but even a simple day hike can turn into a whiny, “hangry” mess. Our Family Adventure Guide will turn your next family outing into a fun filled day of memories. Get your copy HERE. Listen Now:

Summary: In this jam packed Father’s Day interview, ministry leader Nate Echelberger share’s the 3 A’s of becoming an intentional father: Affirmation, Adjustment, Asking (great questions), and a few great ideas for making a big impact in your parenting. About Nate Echelberger: Nate Echelberger, otherwise known as The Flying Salmon, is husband to Sarah for 14 years, father of 4 incredible kids, and, pastor to everyone that’s hungry for it. Nate has been a forerunner in men’s ministry for more than a decade, and has a storied career in the marketplace as well.   In This Episode:  • The importance of your family as your “basecamp.” • Establishing family values and priorities, (and holding to them). • Avoiding hallow compliments and just building ego / self esteem. • Why Nate and Sarah have their boys sharing a bedroom (hint – it’s about intentionality) • The Perfect Adjustment process. • Fighting for “great questions”. • Staying on the “same team” with your spouse.   The Challenge: Try the “perfect adjustment” that Nate talked about in this episode, then come join the conversation in our FREE community on Facebook. Links / Resources: You long to have adventures with your family, but even a simple day hike can turn into a whiny, “hangry” mess. Our Family Adventure Guide will turn your next family outing into a fun filled day of memories. Get your copy HERE. Listen Now:

Summary: What does it mean to to trust God in your marriage? Listen in on this rich conversation as Anna Johnson shares some of her story, and drops a few amazing bombs of insight. We’ve known Anna and her husband Ryan for almost 10 years now, and they are an incredible couple with a great story, and a steadfast faith. We just know you’ll love her as much as we already do. About Anna Johnson: My purpose and mission in life is to live in the freedom Jesus has given me so that others feel that invitation and step into for their own. I am passionate about empowering others to know the love of God and live the life they were created to live whether that is splashing love on someone the checkout line or pouring life, hope and confidence into my clients and consultants in my beauty, health and wellness business through Arbonne. My husband and I have been married 10 years this year and we have two incredible kiddos, Ellie and Josiah! In This Episode:  • It takes real courage to trust God when your marriage is struggling. • God is working in your spouse too • The beauty of letting go of trying to control everything • Stop trying to change your spouse • Doing your own work   The Challenge: Reflect and identify an area in your marriage where you need to let go of control and trust God. Then, come join the conversation in our FREE community on Facebook. Links / Resources: Anna Johnson’s Arbonne site Listen Now:

Summary: In the 27th, and final episode of season 1 of the show, Danielle and Justin recount their most recent family trip. Great vacation don’t have to be expensive, long or complicated, so long as you create time together to have fun, and relax. It’s been a fantastic first season for the Legendary Marriage Podcast, and we are deeply excited about what we have in store for season 2- including most great interviews with amazing couples who are living the adventure of a Legendary Marriage. In This Episode:  • My 5 year old isn’t allowed to have a “flirty laugh” • The Magic of Great Wolf Lodge • Traveling in the “sucker hole” • Hanging at Magnolia Market • Tales from the Tar pit • Celebration and Looking Forward   The Challenge:  Plan a fun, affordable family vacation. Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage Academy  Listen Now:

Summary: Would your marriage survive or thrive in a foreign land? How would your spouse react if you got a job offer 10,000 miles from home? What if it were a “dream job?” Would you say “yes” or “no” to the adventure? Do you think it would build intimacy or create division? We talk through a real life situation that felt like a horrifying real life game of chicken. In This Episode:  • “Trust me honey” • We are NOT moving to Saudi Arabia • A Horrifying Game of Chicken • Are you willing to take Jesus out of your Resume? • Making decisions from a perspective of fear, or adventure? • Do I have a stalker?   The Challenge:  Play a game of “would you rather” together. Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage Academy  Listen Now:  

Summary: From gym anxiety, to NCAA Cinderella storys, Danielle and Justin lay down some serious laughs about traversing a “mountain” on Spring Break and embracing the challenge of the unknown adventure. In This Episode:  • When the value of adventure takes two different turns • The joy of stacking rocks • For the love of Wasp and Hornet Killer • Loving the simple moments on a small, quaint, town square • Spring break on the Jerry Springer Show   The Challenge:  Have a chat about an adventure you’d like to do together. Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage Academy  Listen Now:

Summary: From vows against glitter to Abraham Lincoln’s Blog, to Bon Jovi’s St. Patrick’s Day blowout, Danielle and Justin lay down some serious laughs and 10 Marriage Resolutions for St. Patrick’s Day in this special episode. In This Episode:  • The brilliance of 1/2 office – 1/2 playroom • Brainwashing kids to love the outdoors • 8th grade – aka Freshman Year • Legendary Marriage NCAA Bracket • Watching too much TV gets a bad rap   The Challenge:  Join the Legendary Marriage NCAA Bracket together Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage NCAA Bracket Listen Now:

Summary: In a direct follow up of episode 22, we welcome Nathaniel and Taylor Hilpert to the show for a deeper dive into the complexity of building a healthy dialogue about sex in marriage. If you’ve found yourself getting complacent, or discouraged, Taylor and Nathaniel offer hope as they share their story. In This Episode:  • Who do you talk to about sex? • The power of having a structured conversation • The intimidation of initiation • Creating an intimacy lifestyle • The powerplay of saying “no” • Is “yes” an obligation?   The Challenge:  Have a sex conversation with your spouse, and get curious about what’s behind their (and your) desires. Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage Academy  Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Kevin Leman Listen Now:

Summary: Sex is an important part of building intimacy and connection in a healthy marriage, but all too often our awkwardness and insecurities get the better of us. Having healthy conversations about sex, is a powerful way of building intimacy and connection. In This Episode:  • The sofa on the front porch • The “bait and switch” sex conversation • Awkward sex conversations • The effects of infertility on physical intimacy • Shouldn’t we know this by now? • The 4 criteria for talking about your sexual desires • The sex alliance. • Go deeper in L.M.A.   The Challenge:  Have a sex conversation with your spouse, and get curious about what’s behind their (and your) desires. Links / Resources: Legendary Marriage Academy  Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Kevin Leman Listen Now:

Summary: We’re all trying to build intimacy and connection in our marriages, and getting to know each other through personality assessments is a fantastic way to see the brilliance and beauty in each other. Danielle and Justin explore the Myers-Briggs assessment together, and it’s a light hearted, and encouraging conversation. In This Episode:  • When Justin is away, Danielle eats fried chicken • Putting people in boxes • Come Hell or high water… • Loving the simple things • We have Glory and a Shadow • Danielle fights the microphone, and loses • Speaking the Truth in love   The Challenge:  Go to the 16 Personalites website, and take the free assessment, then share the results together. Links / Resources: 16 Personalities  Legendary Marriage Academy  Listen Now:

Summary: Confession: We’re not perfect! In fact, we are falling REALLY short on some of our 2017 goals. Listen in as we talk about our marriage, health, finances, and the rest of our goals for 2017. In This Episode:  • Danielle thinks skipping rocks is HOT! • The magic of sitting by the creek • The BEST (kids) Bible EVER • We are becoming hippies • Passive – aggressive requests for acknowledgement • Supportive banana hammocks • Spanks are a LIE • Next week: Personalities and compatibilities   The Challenge:  Have a check-in conversation with your spouse about your 2017 goals. Links / Resources: The Jesus Storybook Bible Legendary Marriage Academy  Listen Now: