THE WAY FAM

Sometimes the beliefs you hold, end up holding you back. “I’m not good enough, I can’t, I don’t have enough time, I’m not as good as _____, I would if I had more money, this is how I am, I can’t change, if my circumstances were different I could”... etc. These beliefs cause us to think with a scarcity mentality which in turn causes depression, comparison, settling, complacency, dependence, fear... etc. Understanding scarcity mentality is a good first step in change. Even though we’re just average people, we have the ability to live extraordinary lives if we change the way we think and don’t allow ourselves to become victims of our thought patterns or life circumstances. Recommendations: Your Best Year Ever Book  Facebook Group Lifescore Assessment  Book Giveaway  We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at 1(805) 242-6559 Follow us on Instagram! Like us on Facebook!   If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Do you know when you are trying to get someones attention and they just aren’t getting it? Maybe their social skills are off, maybe they’re tired, maybe your gesture or question wasn’t direct enough or maybe they’re distracted. Whatever the case, it’s kinda frustrating and can lead to not only miscommunication- but also missed communication. This week we talk about bids for attention, text/subtext, and the ability to read between the lines.  Recommendations: Gottman Institute New Facebook Group Start investing with Acorns today! Get $5 when you use our invite link We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at 1(805) 242-6559 Follow us on Instagram! Like us on Facebook!   If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Everyone is selfish to a degree, some have more selfish motives than others but… Is wanting to have kids selfish? A listener brought up a great question that we discuss in this episode along with a couple voicemails and even a listener submitted joke! You guys are the best! Recommendations: Acorns app: https://acorns.com/invite/D4N3NL Drop app: https://b.ewd.io/code?c=nyzb3 Instacart app: https://inst.cr/t/KobqXvx3A Greatest showman Instagram.com/Busytoddler Instagram.com/Mindfulcounseling We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on facebook.com/thewayfam  If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

095: Finding A Mentor & Making Friends It’s 10:10PM on a Sunday night, everyone else is in bed because I guess the time change hit us harder than expected. I’m sipping coffee and bourbon (mixed obvi). Daylight savings time is sweet because we get more time to catch the sunset but it also messes up our nap and wake up time schedules for the kiddos. Hanna is sleeping so this week its just me and I’m kind of stuck or “in the pit” as Hanna likes to say. This is a short episode on the value of finding a mentor and good friends. We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on Facebook!:  If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us : on Tumblror email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Using friends and making social media, wait, scratch that reverse it. The Babcocks are back with us again, its crazy to think its been two years since they first joined us. We talk about their recent trip and social media obvs. We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Why do you feel unappreciated? We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on Facebook!:  If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us : Tumblror email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Are you a free spirit or a nerd? What’s important and what’s urgent and how do you differently between the two? If something isn’t urgent it seldom gets done, even if it’s important. By scheduling out our time we have the ability to make prevent something important from becoming urgent. Do you want to be fighting fires all the time or preventing fires from happening? It all depends on how you schedule your time and what you make a priority based on how you spend your time. We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on Facebook!:  If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us: Tumblr or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

This week we talk about emotions, how we deal with them, both unhealthy and healthy ways, aaaaaaand Han has the weirdest laugh of her life. This topic is one we REALLY want your input on, so please - send a message or an email, leave a voice mail, comment on Insta! We wanna know your thoughts on this one! Han’s Recommendations Unroll.me Instagram.com/wldernessa Buffalo Cauliflower: https://pin.it/cjolqf3tvm3fhj We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

We answer some questions, we talk about our wedding and Ireland, and a little bit more about personality tests! Han’s recommendations: Philz Coffee First Aid Kit new album : https://open.spotify.com/album/5l2Ts5Hd4BN2O28rZksznR?si=bR_6SHfsS7avDGuKhRiyHQ instagram.com/MorganHarperNichols Zach’s recommendations: Udemy.com Mophie Powerstation USB-C https://store.apple.com/xc/product/HLHW2ZM/A Diet Coke flavors We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

DISC, Myers Briggs, 5 Love Languages, Introvert/Extrovert, Enneagram, Gems, etc… There’s a million different types, why should you bother and how should you use the results? Recommendations: Reading People: http://a.co/3qr6lPj The Road Back To You: http://a.co/0Xp7KH0 Sleeping at Last: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sleeping-at-last-podcast/id1270570754?mt=2 We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

What makes you anxious ? What can you do to avoid that? What can you do if you can’t avoid it? Recommendations: Risen Motherhood Podcast: risenmotherhood.com/podcast/ Read Scripture App: readscripture.org Permission To Screw Up: http://a.co/1vk5wNd Anxious For Nothing: http://a.co/dn34KWS Starbucks/Skittles Sweet Heat Detox Bath We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

The average American is faced with 35,000 decisions a day. What do you you base your decisions on? What things are you DECISIVE about and what things are you INDECISIVE about? Do you have a hard time making decisions? Do you spend a lot of time thinking about what to wear or what to eat or what to post?? Do you procrastinate making big decisions because you can’t come to a conclusion?? Then LOOK NO FURTHER, this podcast episode is for you! easiest decision ever We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on: facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Good goals should be specific, measurable, attainable, relevant( be yours) and time-bound. Set goals early, write them down and display them publicly. Only 3% of Americans do this, most Americans fail at their New Years resolutions by January 15. Here’s some categories, define what your areas are, then list them in order of value. 1. Spiritual: 2. Family: 3. Mental (intellectual): 4. Emotional: 5. Physical: 6. Social: 7. Environmental: 8. Financial: 9. Career: Share your goals and objectives, be specific with who you’re sharing- make sure they keep you accountable. Don’t bother sharing them with people who don’t value the things you value. Everything worth it in life is uphill. Habit building contributes to goal success. We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on: facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Hey, we're back for a quick episode, well okay, its not SUPER quick but we were reflecting on thanksgiving, black Friday, small business Saturday, cyber Monday and giving Tuesday and wanted to share a little. We recorded this on the last day of November. And we will get back to the podcast soon, but in the meantime keep all of us southern and central coast California people in your prayers cause there's a BUNCH of fires. Recommendations: Little Knot Shoppe: etsy.com/shop/thelittleknotshoppe Pinehurst Home: etsy.com/shop/PinehurstHome Rivye Prints: etsy.com/shop/rivyeprints Rumpl: rumpl.com Saddleback Leather: saddlebackleather.com Hello Hadley Girl: hadleygirl.com/collections/autumn-winter-17 Pyne & Smith: pyneandsmith.com/ Sandgrens Clogs: sandgrensclogs.com/ Pink House Organics: shoppinkhouse.com/ Lane Paper Works: lanepaperworks.com/ Made by Mary: shop.madebymary.com/ Sawyer and Halle: instagram.com/sawyerandhalle Wildwood Knits: etsy.com/shop/wildwoodknits Lillypost Books: instagram.com/lillypostbox We would love to hear from you!!! Leave us a voicemail at: 1(805) 242-6559 Instagram: @thewayfampodcast Like us on:  facebook.com/thewayfam If you have questions or suggestions or jokes or ideas, ask us at: thewayfam.tumblr.com or email us at thewayfampodcast@gmail.com we love ya!! xoxo

Adam the founder of Have Fun Do Good (www.havefundogood.co) joins us and we chat about patience and stepping out of your comfort zone. Recommendations: Have Fun Do Good: instagram.com/havefundogood Shoe Dog: http://a.co/g7nDHIh DON’T DRINK COCONUT WATER BECAUSE IT TASTES LIKE WARM PEE! Oat Mama: www.oatmama.com M4 Is My Favorite Preset: instagram.com/m4ismyfavoritepreset Think harder, be smarter, don’t be a farter. Save up for a trip, or save for Christmas with Acorns! Get $5 when you use our invite code: https://acorns.com/invite/D4N3NL