From the Center with Debra & Dr. Rob: Success for Women | Purpose | Spirituality | Relationships

What if finding the right person would lead you to more wealth? Do you want an equal partner who inspires your dreams and a relationship that can foster growth and expansion of your full self-expression? Do you want to align your purpose with a higher relationship? EPISODE 24: HOW THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP CAN MAKE YOU RICH In this episode, we explain how you can create the ultimate “power couple” relationship to grow together, play together and get wealthy together. Understand why it is important to find the right match so you can fully reach your dreams and be happy and fulfilled. If you’d like to get a free love assessment coaching session to help you identify where you are unconsciously stopping yourself from having the ultimate relationship, click here or visit LoveAttractionTest.com Want to interact with us on Facebook? Join our Creative Love Community here  

Have you wondered if you keep attracting men or women who dismiss you and think you may have a pattern of meeting narcissistic people? Maybe you have read the “signs you are with a narcissist” from random dating advice blog and convinced yourself THAT is why your last relationship didn’t work out. EPISODE 23: ARE YOU DATING A NARCISSIST? In this episode, learn how the term “narcissist” is overused and wildly misunderstood. Learn about the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder according to the DSM V and the difference in extremes between personality trait and a clinical disorder. According to Jungian Psychology, there is much more to us than the persona and how the people we meet reflect a part of our shadow. If you have experienced relationships with someone you label as narcissistic, learn how that reflects your shadow and how to change the type of people that you get involved with. If you want to find out more about your love attraction patterns, click here to download our Love Attraction Assessment and get a free coaching call with our staff coach. Visit our Facebook Group and tell us what you think of this show and interact with other listeners!

Have you tried dating online without success? Do you find it emotionally-challenging to put yourself out there and fear rejection? In this episode, we talk about the psychology of online dating. If you are tired of dating tips and want to take a deep dive into your psyche to discover how to shift your results to find love, this is the show for you – Episode 22: The Psychology of Online Dating. We discuss the expectations that you bring to online dating and the energy you have when you are interacting with the website or app and how they affect your results. Learn ways to shift your mindset and understand yourself so you aren’t falling back into the same old patterns. There is a deeper psychology based on Carl Jung’s work and the concept of projection that can explain why you are not finding the right one. Understand how your ego is choosing your dates without your conscious knowledge and how to wake up and make conscious choices for true love. Want more? Take our Love Assessment Test by clicking here and, for a limited time, get a free coaching session to reveal your attraction pattern! Interact with us and other podcast listeners!  Join us on our Podcast Community Facebook Group – Creative Love Community  

Do you hold back on taking risks because you are afraid to make mistakes or that things won’t work out? Have you wanted to start a project but feel fear that it won’t work out. In this episode, we speak about the “Imposter Syndrome” and the research on how people don’t feel like they fit in with the successful people around them. They rate their self-identity by their past experience and never feel like they are enough. If you are single, think about this topic related to your dating life, not only in business. Episode 21: Facing the Fear of Failure Take the test to see if you have the imposter syndrome and how to face the fear of failure so you can have more success in your life. See how the EGO is really the imposter in your life and how to transcend the ego so you can move beyond a fear of failure and transform your life. Are you playing to win or playing not to lose? Want more? Get free downloads here at DebiandRob.com Interact with us on our podcast fan Facebook Group – Creative Love Community – tell us what you think about this episode and topics you want us to cover

Do you feel stuck in creating love and success? Maybe you hit a wall or had a few setbacks and have doubts and fears about getting what you want. In this episode, we are going to review the essentials in life to have flow, happiness and be aligned with our higher purpose. Based on research of Seligman (who started the Positive Psychology movement), we discuss PERMA model. In order to have well-being in our life, we need five things: * Positive Emotions * Engagement * Relationships * Meaning * Accomplishment Ep 20 – Power of Flow and Key to Happiness Learn how you can become more optimistic when going toward your goals, build healthier and closer relationships with others, and find yourself connected with what you are doing in heart and soul. How to get into the flow so you can feel happier and have the love and life you want. We discuss the health benefits of being happy and having meaningful relationships. The key is well-being. We can accomplish things in life and gain material success or get into a committed relationship, but are they making us feel better or is the experience causing stress and unhappiness. We review a list of questions for you to answer to see if you are in the flow. Find out more by visiting our website and get more free gifts and participate in one of our LIVE webinars. Join our Creative Love Community on Facebook.

Are you looking for problems to solve in your life and blaming yourself when things don’t go your way? In personal development, you can often get caught up in the fixing mentality and lost in healing yourself. Listen to this episode to learn how to face adversity in your dating and relationships (and life in general) in a more creative way. If you feel exhausted from self-help, this is a great conversation on how to approach creating your life in a new way that feels good. Understand how the ego is always looking for problems and takes everything personally when “bad things happen to good people.” Get in touch with the divine force within to see obstacles and the way to create more in our life. Want more? Join us at DebiandRob.com for more free content and updates on our live events and programs. Also, join us online for Facebook Group – Creative Love Gurus and join the conversation online!

Episode 18: Women Disrupting the Workplace and Relationships Women are evolving and becoming leaders in the business world. What does it mean about the changing gender roles? How does this affect your ability to attract a healthy relationship? Can women be extremely successful and still be attractive to men? This is an especially timely topic with the latest harassment allegations by prominent media personalities such as Roger Ailes, Harvey Weinstein, congressmen and other high-ranking people in government. Can women and men work together and play together like adults? Join us for the lively conversation about women coming to power and how just might be the ones who change the world. From a Jungian perspective, how can women be more influential and affluent in their communities by doing the inner work? Want more? Visit us on our website at DebiandRob.com

EPISODE 17: BEING SPIRITUAL IN A MATERIAL WORLD Do you have a great morning meditation and then feel all that bliss is lost when you are thrust into the material world? This podcast today is for you If you ever wondered how to be spiritual in the regular, typical life. When you go to work and interact with the rest of the people in the world, you may tend to fall into old patterns. We discuss how we wear masks to help us relate to others but that mask is not an authentic part of who we really are. We forget that other part of us – our spiritual center – when we believe we are the mask. Explore if you are in a shadow career and not doing what your soul wants you to express in the world. Learn how you can connect more to your spiritual self through your everyday life so you can feel more grounded and less anxiety as you go through your day. Watch this presentation on VIDEO on Youtube here https://youtu.be/X9fQFdLVXe4 Want more? Visit us a DebiandRob.com and get some free classes to help you with love, success and living your purpose  

Are you looking for someone who is a spiritual partner but having a hard time finding someone with the same beliefs as you? Many women complain at our events about the lack of men attending who do personal development. Do you constantly meet men that are not on your “spiritual level” and wish you could find someone you can learn from instead of being the teacher all the time? If you want to have a complete relationship, listen to this episode where we discuss the difference between social compatibility and spiritual compatibility. Discover how you can attract your soulmate relationship or make your current relationship more soulful and connected on a deeper level. Want to learn more? Get free download How to Rewire Your Mind for Love at our website – DebiandRob.com

Have you fallen off the love train? You are not getting any response online or getting the wrong responses from men or women who are just not the right type for you. Maybe you are finding attractive people and feel hopeful only to be disappointed when they ghost you or mention they just aren’t ready to commit? Why is this happening and how can you get on the love train for a lasting commitment? In this episode, we talk about the power of coaching and how whether you do it in a group or one-on-one can help you get your love life back on track. Learn about the different types of dating and relationships coaches and what solution is right for you. Want more? Sign up for our free webinar, How to Rewire Your Heart and Mind for Love

As a woman, have you been told you need to reclaim your feminine or, as a man, step into your masculine, and wonder what that really means? We are going to introduce you to a different take on common self-help advice by discussing Carl Jung’s concept of the Anima and Animus. We are going way deeper than the superficial social aspects of feminine and masculine and taking you into the depths of the psyche and how you can harness your own Anima (his muse) or Animus (her spirit) to balance out your complete self to find a more balanced relationship. Want more? Get our free gift, How to Rewire Your Heart and Mind for Love

Did you dream about your ex last night or did you experience a wedding celebration? Do you know what it means when you dream of being in a dirty bathroom, show up naked at work or feel like you are drowning in water? These are all common dreams that have a deeper meaning for you and your personal development. Your dreams have a hidden message from your unconscious mind showing you exactly what is stopping you from having the love you want. Your dreams can also be a source of inspiration, creativity, and intuition as a powerful guide to your relationship life. Dreams are also a way to connect to your inner wisdom, experience the true nature and higher consciousness. What a journey you are about to embark on when you learn to interpret your dreams. This information is based on Jungian Dreamwork and eastern wisdom. Visit DebiandDrRob.com and sign up for a free webinar on How to Rewire Your Heart for Love!

Feeling stuck? Having a hard time getting out of a dating or relationship rut? If you have been hitting a wall in your personal and spiritual development and wonder what is going on inside of you? In this episode, we review the five stages of change so you can identify where you are at and how you can move beyond your limitations. Get some basic tools on how to make real, lasting changes in your life. Stages are:  Pre-Contemplation, Contemplation, Preparation, Action, Maintenance Listen to this episode if you feel you are repeating the same pattern in relationships, not getting people to call you back after a date, not seeing any potential partners online, keep meeting the wrong person, or even just feeling bad about yourself and wishing you could change to be more confident in love. Want more? Visit DebiandDrRob.com to get a free webinar How to Rewire Your Heart for Love to understand the neuroscience of romantic relationships.

In this episode, we talk about why you have the best intentions for finding a great relationship, but most times get the opposite result. How do you hold your mind to attract a great love that lasts? Learn about the eastern wisdom of The Upanishads that explains your Deepest Driving Desire. Why your actions and intentions are NOT the keys to finding the love you want but getting to the unconscious (deepest) desire to change your love destiny. “You are your deepest driving desire. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.” Learn how your intentions and actions are not responsible for your results in life. Understand the unconscious drivers in relationships and creating the life you want. Get free webinar How to Rewire Your Heart for Love at Debi and Dr. Rob’s official website here.

Are you looking for love purely for survival and avoid being alone or are you seeking a higher love? In this episode, we discuss Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and how people approach relationships from lower needs and desires to cultivating a more evolved, conscious relationship. The three levels of self-actualization are: * Biological Needs * Social Needs * Need for Self-Actualization We discuss how each person has the potential to become their true self and find a love who matches your highest ideal. Enjoy the show! If you would like to find out more, visit us at DebiandRob.com and get a free webinar “How to Rewire Your Heart for Love”