New Life Live! with Steve Arterburn

Topics: Grief, Forgiveness, Parenting, Marriage, Friendship, Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How do I forgive myself for an affair while trying to cope with my husband’s cancer?  Why would my 16yo adopted daughter think I don’t like her?  I have feelings for a young man into drugs; is it possible to just be friends?  Why would my husband hate and ignore our 34yo amazing son?  We just caught our 18yo daughter in a lie; she is sexually active with her boyfriend.  Suggested Resources: Healing Is A Choice How We Love Our Kids Walking Into Walls Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Marriage, Parent Issues, Depression, Weight Loss, Affairs, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Is it odd for my husband to have long talks on the phone with his mother?  Thank you New Life! How can I help my depressed friend who is overweight?  I am a minister who crashed and burned. My wife left 4 years ago.  What shall I do since my wife is so secretive about texts and where she goes?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is A Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Dating, Sexual Addiction, Confrontation, Witchcraft, Bullying, Marriage, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: Why do I feel so drained when I talk with my date?  My husband is a sex addict; how do we move on in our marriage?  How do I confront a ministry friend before he sets himself up to get hurt again?  I am separated and my husband is into witchcraft; I am afraid for our family.  What should I say to my high school youth group about bullying?  At 65yrs old, should I consider remarrying?  Suggested Resources: Is This The One Every Man’s Battle How To Have That Difficult Conversation Secrets Women Keep Forgiving the Unforgivable Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Addictions, Boundaries, Intimacy, Counseling, Anger, Jealousy, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: Can someone get addicted to Jesus?  Is it OK not to invite certain family members to the upcoming wedding?  Should I tell my husband there is no chemistry when we kiss?  What are your views on nouthetic counseling?  How can I resolve my anger with my ex-husband?  My insecurity and jealousy are ruining the relationship with my live-in girlfriend.  Suggested Resources: Walking Into Walls How We Love Forgiving the Unforgivable Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Abortion, Forgiveness, Vacillator, Avoider, Fear, Anxiety, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Comment: I funded an abortion years ago and I felt like dirt.  What do you do when someone won’t forgive you?  I am a vacillator married to an avoider; how can I break the cycle?  I paid for an abortion; did God punish me?  How can I stop being fearful to share my feelings in my small group?  What is the best way to treat my anxiety? See a psychiatrist?  Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice How We Love Our Kids How We Love Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich Topics: Marriage, Trust, Parenting, Sexual Addiction, Pornography, Intimacy, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How can I get my wife to feel safe, valued, and trust me?  Does God want us to have more kids?  Interview with network therapist: The difference in Marriage Weekends.  My husband had pornography issues. How do we develop intimacy?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Just Us Healing Is A Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Counseling, Dating, Connection, Parenting, Separation, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: I found a wonderful counselor through New Life!  How do I end a dating relationship that I know will not prosper?  Why am I having a problem connecting to women?  My daughter’s 18yo friend suspects her mom is having an affair; how can I counsel her? Thank you for the advice on your show!  Does it sound right that a counselor said to discipline an 8yo by pulling her hair?  Married 2yrs, I am wavering whether to stay married after separating for 9mos.  Suggested Resources: Secrets Women Keep Book of Life Recovery How We Love Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Counseling, Boundaries, Marriage, Divorce, Emotional Abuse, Alcoholism, Self Worth, Parenting, Medication, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham Caller Questions: Do you think I should share my counseling sessions with my wife?  After 40 years of marriage, I feel like divorcing because of emotional and physical abuse.  Is AA a good avenue for a recovering alcoholic?  Why can’t I say “No”?  Would medication be beneficial to my 9yo son with ADHD?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Healing Is A Choice Book of Life Recovery Boundaries How We Love Our Kids Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Marriage, Weight Loss, Adult Children, Sexual Abuse, Emotional Abuse, Affairs, Forgiveness, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: Is there a good way to tell my wife that she is overweight?  How do I help my 32yo son who was molested and now is disrespectful to me?  How can I be supportive to my daughter-in-law who talks badly of my son?  I cheated on my wife 10yrs ago, but now I find out that she cheated on me.  As an incest survivor, how do I deal with PTSD and what prayers would be helpful?  Suggested Resources: Walking Into Walls How We Love Healing Is A Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Topics: Connection, Sexual Addiction, Parenting, Marriage, Affairs, Trust, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How can I connect with people?  Am I to blame for my husband’s sexual addiction?  My husband is a new man since Every Man’s Battle!  Now, how can we help my 14yo son?  We have been married and divorced several times. How can we establish trust?  Suggested Resources: It's Time To Connect CD Every Young Man’s Battle Walking Into Walls Just Us Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Anger, Christian Walk, Alcoholics, Parenting, Counseling, Addictions, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: After divorce, how do I keep my anger from affecting my kids?  My sister walked away from the Lord; how do not judge or enable her?  How can I help my friend get help for his drinking?  My wife wants me to talk to her 14yo son about texting obscene photos of himself.  Our family is in counseling; how do we get the walls to come down?  With the Lord’s help, my addiction was healed through Gambler’s Anonymous!  Suggested Resources: Life Recovery Bible Every Young Man’s Battle Forgiving Our Parents Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Adult Children, Sexual Integrity, Counseling, Pornography, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: My 21yo son is demanding money for his car accidents; do we have to give in?  Attending Every Man’s Battle was an amazing experience!  My friend thinks I need the Bible instead of counseling; what is my argument?  Comment: The first caller needs to consult with her husband about their son.  I caught my husband looking at porn; what happens now?  Comment: It’s been my experience that those in counseling are not born again.  Suggested Resources: Secrets Women Keep Boundaries in Marriage Healing Is a Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Marriage, Sexual Addiction, Co-dependent, Self Worth, Affair, Intimacy, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: After 31 years of marriage, shall I tell my adult children about my husband’s sexual addiction?  Can co-dependent behavior be so strong that it seems right?  Why don’t I feel loved by God?  I think my husband is having an affair. How can I find healing?  How can I feel sexual with my husband when I don’t feel any passion?  Suggested Resources: Forgiving the Unforgivable Healing Is A Choice Secrets Women Keep Just Us Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Separation, Death, Grief, Marriage, Divorce, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My separated wife feels threatened when I talk to old girlfriends; how do we reconcile? It bothers me that I don’t know where my dad went when he died.  My husband was into porn; how do I let him go after being divorced 5 years?  Should I leave my husband who refused to have sex shortly after we were married?  I don’t know if I should give my husband space for his mid-life crisis. He left us.  Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Boundaries in Marriage Changes That Heal Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.**********************************

Topics: Avoider, Controller, Divorce, Marriage, Medication, Substance Abuse, Parenting, Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham Caller Questions: Comment: God created doctors and their ability to use science for healing.  How does an avoider live with a controlling wife?  My wife wants a divorce, but does God want me to divorce?  Why do Christian therapists give other Christians drugs?  How do I tell my 15yo son that smoking pot is wrong?  Suggested Resources: Book of Life Recovery How We Love How We Love Our Kids Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.