New Life Live! with Steve Arterburn

Topics: Marriage, Dating, Parent Issues, Verbal Abuse, Depression, Menopause Hosts: Dr. Jill Hubbard with Larry Sonnenburg Caller Questions: I am looking for help for my marriage; how do I get my wife to do the same?  How can I date without crossing over into sex?  I live with my mom; what should I do when she is verbally abusive to me?  Is being in pre-menopause connected to my depression returning?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Is This The One Healing Is a Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affair, Marriage, Boundaries, Parent Issues, Vacillator Hosts: Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich, with Larry Sonnenburg Caller Questions: Is it possible to fall back in love after my husband had an affair?  We have worked on our marriage. When do I call it quits?  What boundaries do I place for my stepmom who hates my mom?  I am destroying my marriage. How do I stop being a vacillator?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Just Us Safe People You Are What You Think Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affairs, Passive/aggressive, Marriage, Dating, Intimacy Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How can I show my wife I love her after I had an affair with her friend?  My husband is passive/aggressive and I don’t know how to disconnect from him.  Is it wrong that my girlfriend can’t accept me having female friends?  I am reading Every Man’s Battle; do I have a problem if I want more sex than my wife?  Suggested Resources: Worthy of Her Trust Walking Into Walls How We Love Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Aging Parent, Depression, Sexual Integrity, Parenting, Personality Disorder,Christian Walk Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: Is my concern for my aging mom affecting the effectiveness of my anti-depression medication?  How do I move on and have hope after being with a prostitute last night?  My niece who lives with us is disrupting our family with her reactive disruptive disorder.  Why are my personal devotions so sporadic?  Suggested Resources: Boundaries Boundaries with Teens Life Recovery Bible Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Pornography, Parenting, Hoarding, Medication Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: My husband is downloading porn to his iPad; how can I confront him?  What else can we do for our defiant 12yo daughter?  Should I let go of my marriage now that my wife is living with another guy?  How did my friend become such a severe hoarder that no one knew she had died in her home?  I need relief from my paranoia schizophrenia, but my husband and pastor say no drugs.  Suggested Resources: Every Heart Restored How We Love Our Kids Walking Into Walls Healing Is a Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affairs, Depression, Adult Children, Drug Addiction, Parenting, Confrontation Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Marilyn Meberg Caller Questions: How can I forgive my husband for his infidelity?  My husband and I keep trying to have children; how do I stop feeling depressed?  How do I love and stop worrying about my 33yo addict son?  My pregnant ex-fiancée wants to put up our child for adoption; what should I do?  Is the conflict I’m having with a coworker a power struggle?  Suggested Resources: Every Heart Restored Hope and Help for the Addicted Healing Is a Choice How To Have That Difficult Conversation CD Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Narcissist, Marriage, Divorce, Affairs, Forgiveness, Dating Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Guest Host Dr. Gary Chapman Caller Questions: Should I divorce my narcissist husband who accuses me of an affair?  Please help me figure out our love languages.  My wife had an affair; How do I get over the bitterness?  Are we doing all we can do to be ready when we marry?  Suggested Resources: The 5 Love Languages Forgiving the Unforgivable Healing Is A Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affairs, Difficult Conversations, Alcoholics, Pornography, Drug Abuse, Weight Loss, Parenting, Counseling Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: I took your advice and confessed an old affair to my wife; what happens now?  What is the best treatment for my alcoholic husband who started viewing porn?  My husband is buying marijuana from my son; how can I respect him?  Is there a good way to tell my 16yo son to lose 30 lbs? Shall I work as a Christian Counselor or Christian Coach?  Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice Every Heart Restored Lose It For Life Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Connection, Homosexuality, Dating, Drug Abuse Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host June Hunt Caller Questions: How can I re-establish relationship with my Jehovah’s Witness sister?  Do you have any help for a girl in her 20’s who came out of a gay lifestyle?  My girlfriend freaked out after we got engaged; is she going to get through this?  What is the line between enabling and helping my drug addict husband?  Suggested Resources: Toxic Faith (out of stock) Biblical Counseling Keys on Jehovah’s Witnesses (June Hunt) Life Recovery Bible Is This The One Biblical Counseling Keys on Premarital Counseling (June Hunt) Book of Life Recovery  Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Alcoholics, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Emotional Abuse, Pornography, Lying, Divorce Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: I have been clean and sober since my New Life Weekend in 2010. Thank you!  My 14yo daughter is sexually active. Shall I encourage her to take birth control pills?  Is my husband’s emotional abuse really abuse or just a sin like he says it is?  Shall I leave my husband who is not repentant from his life of porn and lies?  Suggested Resources: The Book of Life Recovery Walking Into Walls Every Heart Restored Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Dating, Abuse, Marijuana, Affairs, Avoider, Grief, Difficult Conversations Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: My parents abused me; is this why I am dating a prisoner?  Dad doesn’t want to get counseling for his marijuana addiction; what can I do?  My wife had an affair and got pregnant; how do we tell the family we want to raise the child?  Is there a way to get my emotionally unavailable husband to open up?  My sister wants to bring her affair to Easter, but I’m still grieving her divorce.  Suggested Resources: Is This The One Healing Is a Choice Life Recovery Bible Now What Do I Do Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Dating, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Weight Loss Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: How do I know if a guy who asks me out is from God or my desires?  My 21yo daughter wants a sex-change surgery; how should I respond?  Interview with Tina, presenter at Women in the Battle.  My two teens are rebelling; can you offer words of wisdom?  I had success with Lose It for Life; what caused me to backslide?  Suggested Resources: How To Get a Date Worth Keeping Boundaries with Teens Walking Into Walls Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Separation, Divorce, Employment, Christian Walk, Grief, Parent Issues Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Should I work it out with my abusive husband after my emotional affair?  I am 58 and unemployed; should I wait for God’s direction to change careers?  Will the desire for my dad ever go away? He doesn’t want a relationship.  My dysfunctional mom lives in another country; how do I honor her now that she has cancer?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Now What Do I Do Forgiving Our Parents Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Bipolar, Affairs, Weight Loss, Self Worth, Controller Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Guest Host Marilyn Meberg Caller Questions: How do I disconnect from my bipolar wife who had an affair with the kids’ soccer coach? What can I do to not be nervous socially?  My wife and I had an affair while she was married to another man.  Why does my husband control what I eat?  Suggested Resources: Healing Is A Choice Life Recovery Bible Walking Into Walls How We Love Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Christian Walk, Ministry, Marriage, Self Worth Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Guest Host Dr. Tony Evans Caller Questions: I have been called to ministry; how do I adjust to receiving less money?  How do I respect my husband as a spiritual leader when he’s not?  I feel empty taking care of everyone while waiting for my destiny.  My wife became a pastor; where in the Bible does it say women have authority over men?  Suggested Resources: Destiny (Tony Evans) Walking Into Walls Healing Is a Choice Now What Do I Do Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.