New Life Live! with Steve Arterburn

Topics: Confrontation, Affairs, Parenting, Marriage, Adult Children, Parent Issues Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: How should I respond to a disturbing text from my military husband?  My daughter confessed her affair to me and wants advice.  Why are our foster kids accusing us of abuse?  I married my husband twice and refuse to divorce again; now what?  Are financial boundaries with adult children the same if they have special needs?  I am the oldest son; how should I confront my mom about her affair?  Suggested Resources: 7 Minute Marriage Solution Beyond Boundaries Boundaries Forgiving the Unforgivable Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Adult Children, Workaholics, Controller, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: How can I support my worldly adult kids and not enable?  Is workaholism an excuse for my husband not being relational?  How do I convince my wife I am changing? She says I’m controlling and wants out.  Can Dave explain what he meant by “escalating consequences” for sexual integrity issues?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Boundaries for Leaders Boundaries in Marriage 7 Minute Marriage Solution Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affairs, Forgiveness, Alzheimer’s, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Childhood Abuse Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: My wife had an affair 2yrs ago and I can’t move forward.  Does unforgiveness affect Alzheimer’s?  What should I do about my 16yo son having sexual photos on his iPhone?  Should I seek the man who molested me as a child so I can heal?  Suggested Resources: 7 Minute Marriage Solution Healing Is a Choice Every Young Man's Battle Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Dating, Forgiveness, Affairs, Marriage, Adult Children, Boundaries Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How do I heal from a past relationship?  I think my husband had sex with his cousin; should I call her to confirm?  My 13yo granddaughter lives with us, but she would like to be with her addict mom.  My husband says he is only “honoring” our pastor’s wife through their calls and money gifts.  I fell in love with a married man by accident; is it OK to be his friend?  Suggested Resources: How We Love 7 Minute Marriage Solution How We Love Our Kids Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Affairs, Divorce, Dating, Church Life Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud Caller Questions: My husband is not a sex addict, but he had a 3-day affair; is there help for him?  I am a Club New Life member and want to wish Steve a happy birthday!  Do you have any advice on men entering divorce?  I’m a conservative Christian dating a Pentecostal; can we make this work?  How can I find dates if my pastor says it is wrong for women to seek men?  Suggested Resources: Is This the One Healing Is a Choice 7 Minute Marriage Solution How To Get a Date Worth Keeping Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Childhood Issues, Sexual Integrity, Affairs, Stress Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How can I change my thought patterns from past hurts?  Is it OK for my wife to talk to old guy friends on Facebook?  My husband just confessed our friend’s 14yo child is his.  What ideas do you have to handle the stress of my home remodel?  Suggested Resources: Healing Is a Choice 7 Minute Marriage Solution Living With Your Husband's Secret Wars Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Schizophrenia, Boundaries, Christian Walk, Trauma, Alcoholics, Marriage Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: My son is a 30yo schizophrenic; Is God really directing him?  How do I kick out my brother with love and kindness?  What does “turning the other cheek” mean in the Bible?  Is there medical help for my daughter with a concussion from a horse accident?  How can I get my separated husband to return and work on our marriage?  Why would my alcoholic husband choose alcohol instead of me?  What would cause me to be ripped out of my sleep with heart pounding?  Suggested Resources: Safe People Life Recovery Bible Boundaries in Marriage Healing Is A Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Parenting, Reconciliation, Intimacy, Dating, Trust, Grief, Pornography Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: My daughter caught her 8yo son on a porn site; help!  I want to reconcile with my wife, but I am no longer attracted to her.  Should I start a business with my girlfriend and move to her state?  Is it me, or is my wife taking too long to trust me after I went to Every Man’s Battle?  How do I get over an unfair job loss in 2006?  A previous caller made me realize how much my wife was hurting from my porn use.  Suggested Resources: Preparing Your Son for Every Man 7 Minute Marriage Solution Is This The One Grief CD Restitution CD Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Intimacy, Dating, Parenting, Pornography, Separation Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How can I spice up my marriage? My wife is bored with our sex life.  I feel conflicted dating a divorced man.  Can you clarify why you advised a woman to tell her kids their dad is into porn?  My husband dated the last time we separated; should I consider separating again?  I am a widower; how do I get to know my girlfriend if she won’t travel with me?  Suggested Resources: How We Love Is This The One 7 Minute Marriage Solution Life Recovery Bible Emotional Freedom Workbrook Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Sexual Abuse, Anger, Separation, Pornography Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How do I help my friend whose husband abused their daughter?  Should I give my brother an ultimatum about his anger problems?  My wife ran away with another man; how do I get her back?  How can I deal with my porn-watching husband saying I am not tan enough and need to exercise?  Suggested Resources: Forgiving the Unforgivable Anger Workbook Secrets Women Keep Healing Is a Choice 7 Minute Marriage Solution Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Special Needs, Dating, Counseling, Divorce, Substance Abuse, Vacillator Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Should I let my 13yo special needs son go to a care home?  Would you help me with healthy dating hints as I re-enter the dating scene?  My counseling is not helping; how do I address it?  Can I divorce my drug dealing husband?  Please explain why a vacillator re-engages without resolution.  Suggested Resources: Seven Men: And the Secret of their Greatness Is This The One 7 Minute Marriage Solution Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Parenting, Dating, Divorce, Abuse, Anxiety Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. Jill Hubbard Caller Questions: How do I help my 21yo daughter see that she is dating an unmotivated guy?  Do I separate or divorce my pastor husband who is physically abusive?  What medication is helpful for my anxiety and panic attacks?  Is it OK to visit a psychic to talk to a dead son?  What help can I give my friends who come to me for dating advice?  Suggested Resources: Is This The One Boundaries In Marriage 7 Minute Marriage Solution How To Get a Date Worth Keeping Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Dating, Adult Children, Separation, Alcoholics, Singles, Marriage, Boundaries Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Dave Stoop Caller Questions: I have a question about the 10-date challenge in “Is This The One.”  My 34yo son was absent for 4yrs and now he is doing it again; what can we do?  Do I have a right to separate from my alcoholic husband?  As the leader of the house; can I get rid of my wife’s witchcraft books?  How can I find emotional healing and love as a single with a sex addiction?  Is it a red flag my date revealed she had an affair during her marriage?  I kicked out my 38yo son from my home; is that fair to his kids?  Is oral sex biblically wrong in marriage?  Suggested Resources: 7 Minute Marriage Solution Life Recovery Bible How To Have That Difficult Conversation Changes That Heal Every Man's Battle Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Sexual Integrity, Separation, Marriage, Avoider Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: How long should I wait for my husband to heal after Every Man’s Battle and Celebrate Recovery?  I feel guilty if I don't go back to my husband, but I am with another man now.  Should my husband attend EMB again? He has deep issues and can’t stop lying.  How can I get my husband to stop isolating and do guy stuff with other men?  Suggested Resources: Seven Men: And the Secret of their Greatness How We Love 7 Minute Marriage Solution Every Heart Restored Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.

Topics: Anger, Sexual Integrity, Marriage, Christian Walk, Depressioin Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich Caller Questions: Is it normal for my husband to shake me out of anger?  I have an update on how great my Every Man’s Battle experience has been!  My husband wants to take a job far away and commute; is this feasible with our family? Am I in sin for taking mood-altering medications for anxiety, ADD, and sleep?  Comment: I had an affair with a man who was away from home for his job, so watch out!  Is depression a learned behavior?  Suggested Resources: 7 Minute Marriage Solution How We Love Healing Is a Choice Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE Podcast via iTunes or streaming audio from Stitcher, the Smart Radio App.