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On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn more about Deb at https://nwioi.com/ On the Xtended version … Deb Thomas and I continue our conversation although for this segment we talk about what it’s like working with a sex therapist. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode You’ve turned on Sexy Marriage Radio where the best sex happens in the marriage bed. Here’s your host, Dr. Corey Allen. Corey Allan: Straight from iTunes, Pam as we get started with Sexy Marriage Radio today, this came in over the summer and it says, “I’ve been a Christian marriage podcast binge for the past year and a half or so, and have noticed there’s a lot of lax, not very biblically sound advice giving on the airways masquerading as Christian advice, ie., the host saying they don’t think X, Y, Z is a big deal in marriage even though the Bible specifically says it is and should be done for the health of the marriage and individual. This podcast is not one of those. I love how Dr. Corey comes from a professional perspective, has secular and Christian guests and sources and doesn’t force his spiritual beliefs on the listener while also letting the listener know his beliefs which are biblically based. How you do life is how you do sex and vice versa is so true. And it’s also so true that you have to work on yourself first if you want a better marriage. Thank you Dr. Corey and Pam, you’ve already helped my husband and I so much in just a short several months of listening.” Pam Allan: Ah, thank you so much for that. Corey Allan: Absolutely. Pam Allan: It’s kind of a great summary of what we wanted to be. Corey Allan: That is totally what we’re trying to do because we’re trying to just present good information that helps your marriage be the best it can be and your relationship being best it can be, but more importantly, your life even be the best it can be. And so welcome to Sexy Marriage Radio where we love that people may jump on iTunes like that and leave comments and reviews. And if you like the show, please jump on there and rate and review, leave a comment or do that in whatever means you choose to listen. Also, we love to hear from you, (214) 702-9565 is how you can let us know what’s going on in your world with any questions or comment or praise or topics you want to see us cover because we go where the audience and the Sexy Marriage Radio nation wants us to go in large part. Corey Allan: And we try to answer your questions and we try to also be, if you have a place that you don’t know where you can ask questions because you’re not going to bring it up in your small group or at a coworker lunch or with your parents or anything like that, we’ll go there and we want to be a source that can help you make your marriage what it can be. Pam Allan: Yeah, we want to help you on that journey. Corey Allan: And there’s also just a few moments we want to ta...

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation about how the meanings we place on things impact our desire and arousal in marriage. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode You’ve turned on sexy marriage radio where the best sex happens in the marriage bed. Here’s your host, Dr. Corey Allan. Corey Allan: So it’s still hard to believe sometimes, babe… This is Corey Allan, alongside my wife Pam. Pam Allan: Hey, folks. Corey Allan: Sexy Marriage Radio… That next week is the eighth birthday of Sexy Marriage Radio. Pam Allan: It’s kind of cool. Corey Allan: October 11th is when this whole thing started, and so here we are eight years later almost- Pam Allan: Great to see the transformation. Corey Allan: … or one week shy of eight years later, and here we are still going. In large part, thank you to the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation for helping make all of this happen. Because the feedback that they give, the comments, the questions, it’s a great relationship that’s been created and continues to evolve. Pam Allan: Right. Just by listening and knowing that people are enjoying the content and getting something out of it and creating better lives. That’s what it’s about. Corey Allan: And the way you can let us know that is you can call our voicemail line (214) 702-9565. You can also jump on the inbox world and email us at feedbock… feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Pam Allan: Or feedbock, whatever. Corey Allan: Feedbock, that’s kind of an interesting… How do you even spell that? If you like what we’re doing also and you listen via iTunes or Stitcher or Spotify or anything, write and review the show, leave a comment, help spread the word that married sex can be great and it evolves, and marriages can be great and evolve, and can be lifelong because we want life and marriage to be vibrant and alive in every aspect that takes place in your life. Corey Allan: So coming up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio is an interview I had with Dr. Steven Stosny, who is an author of lots of books. But particularly, where we went with this conversation is something we’ve not ever really covered on Sexy Marriage radio is the whole arena of verbal and emotional abuse and how it plays out in marriage, and his belief and work that says compassion is an important aspect to overcoming and changing that dynamic. And so the whole entire free version of Sexy Marriage Radio is our conversation. Pam Allan: Wonderful. Corey Allan: And then coming up on the extended version, which is deeper and longer, and there’s ads and you can subscribe at smrnation.com, Pam and I are going to have an in depth conversation about how meanings disrupt and get in the way of desire and arousal...

On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in handling these two aspects of betrayal, lies, and broken promises. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode You are listening to the regular version of Sexy Marriage Radio, smrnation.com. You’ve turned on Sexy Marriage Radio, where the best sex happens in the marriage bed. Here’s your host, Dr. Corey Allan. Corey Allan: Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey and alongside as always, my wife, Pam. Pam Allan: Hey everyone. Corey Allan: Where we are having regular, straightforward conversations about married life and love and sex and everything in between, I guess you could say, where we want to know what’s going on in your world as part of the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation. We love it that you take some time out of your week each and every week to spend it with us. And we love it when you also let us know what’s on your mind with phone calls, questions, thoughts, praises, whichever it is it’s on your mind. 214-702-9565 is the way you can call in and let us know, or feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. We also asked the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation if you guys would jump on iTunes, rate and review the show, leave a comment, do the same via Stitcher, iHeartRadio, tune in overcast. There’s all kinds of different ways you can listen to this show. Pam Allan: You name it. It’s endless now. Corey Allan: Google Play. So if you like what’s going on here with Sexy Marriage Radio Nation and our show, please let people know because it helps spread the word that married sex is the hotbed for sex and that marriage could just be better because it is interesting that once again in the last couple of weeks just in our lives, I heard a comment from something I was listening to that was talking about how when sex is good in a marriage, it only accounts to about 15% for the overall happiness. That’s how much of an impact it is. But when it’s not good and it’s a source of frustration, it accounts to about 60 to 65% as the source of unhappiness. Pam Allan: Interesting. Corey Allan: And so it’s an interesting dilemma and dynamic that could go on when you’re talking about this aspect of your relationship because it is the one thing that distinguishes your relationship from all the others. But it is an interesting fact that when there is some problems with it, it’s a bigger deal. [crosstalk 00:02:29] It feels dramatically different and bigger. We’re coming up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio. We’re going to do a little bit of a pivot today, where the free version of Sexy Marriage Radio and the extended version of Sexy Marriage Radio are all the same show today. Pam Allan: All right, so we’ve got a longer podcast for everyone. Corey Allan: We’re going to do a deep dive into the world of trust because we’ve had a slew of emails over the last several months of couples and then even some voicemails of couples and individuals that are de...

On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal and desire? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: So my lovely wife Pam. Pam Allan: Yes, my dear. Corey Allan: Right out of the gate for this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio. Did you realize that with iTunes, I mentioned earlier they have re-categorized the way podcasts are now separated as far as the different categories. They’ve just come through a little more clean line and- Pam Allan: More specific on the categories? Corey Allan: Yeah, and just trying, I think they are just trying to keep up with society with all the different messages that are out there and shows that are out there. And so again, Sexy Marriage Radio is staying under the whole health and lifestyle and then specifically the sub-category of sexuality. But it’s cleaned everything up to where right now, thanks to the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation, Sexy Marriage Radio was repeatedly staying right in the top five or so of the sexuality category in iTunes. Sometimes we’ll drop to six, seven or eight, but we stay up there, and so all that’s to say thank you to the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation. Corey Allan: Help us stay there. Subscribe. If you’re not already on iTunes, leave a comment and a review that helps us spread the word and expand the audience of the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation. Because if you listen to this show, you’re a part of the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation. So welcome. Where you been all our lives? Corey Allan: The other thing you can do is let us know what’s on your mind with any kind of question, comment, thought that you would like to have covered. We’ve tried to set up a scenario where if you’ve got a question about your marriage or your sex life that you don’t know where else to ask because you’re not going to bring it up around the dinner table or a family function or a life group at church or some other coworkers relationship that you might have. Give us a call, (214) 702-9565. Because we want to answer what’s on your mind. That’s what’s helped create the show to be what it is today. You can also email us feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Corey Allan: Because we want to know what’s going on in your world because we tell you what’s going on in ours some. We also want to just steer it so that everybody’s better in facing the struggles that happen in their marriage, which are bound to happen, let’s face it with the best of us, so that we can be all that we could be. Corey Allan: So coming up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio,...

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at ann@anngadd.co.za On the Xtended version … The continued conversation with Ann Gadd. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Marriage Radio. I’m Dr. Corey Allen and this time not alongside my wife Pam as this episode, the whole thing, I’ve got a guest that’s joining me for this show and so she’s got the week off. But you don’t as a Sexy Marriage Radio Nation and we are glad that every time you spend some time with us and let us know what’s on your mind that helps make the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation all that it can be. And the way you can speak up about your questions or your thoughts or your topics you’d like to hear on Sexy Marriage Radio in the future you can give us a call at 214-702-9565 or as always and has always been there the entirety of this show feedback at sexymarriageradio.com. Corey Allan: And we also ask you as the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation, jump on iTunes, jump on Spotify, jump on Stitcher, jump on iHeartRadio, however you choose to listen rate and review the show, leave a comment, help spread the word because we want married sex to be all that it can be. And more than that, we want your marriage to be all that it can be. Corey Allan: So coming up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio, I’m joined by Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram where we have an extensive conversation about her work and the instrument of the Enneagram and how it plays out in your life and in marriage and in your sex life, in relationship. And on the extended version of Sexy Marriage Radio, which is deeper, twice as long and there are no ads, you can subscribe at smrnation.com, a continued conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram where we get into a little bit of a deeper conversation about what she discovered from her book, how it impacted her life plus a whole lot more. All that’s coming up on today’s show. So I’m pleased to be joined by Ann Gadd who has a new book coming out or is it out Ann? Fill me in real quick. Ann Gadd: It’s out already. It came out about a week ago. Corey Allan: Perfect. And so it is called Sex and the Enneagram and they reached out because they thought, “You know what? Sexy Marriage Radio needs to know a little bit more about the Enneagram.” And I completely agree because Ann’s got quite the background in this, in this arena. And so, Ann I’m going to be straight forward and honest and upfront about this segment. You’re going to be the teacher. I’m going to be a student because this is not something I’m as versed in. So first, welcome to the show with Sexy Marriage Radio. Ann Gadd: Hi, welcome. Thank you. Corey Allan: And then second, give everybody a quick overview of what is the Enneagram?

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and women face when it comes to sex and life together. On the Xtended version … How do you adjust better with the seasons of married life and family? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of this episode Corey Allan: Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio where straightforward, honest conversations take place about whatever’s on your mind as the sexy marriage radio nation when it comes to your life, your sex life, your marriage, your relationships, your parenting, your in laws. Pam Allan: It all ends up mixing together somehow, right? All these different things we do. Corey Allan: All seems to work off each other. So joined again as always by my lovely bride Pam. Pam Allan: Greetings nation. Corey Allan: And so we love that you as the sexy marriage radio nation take time out of your day each and every week to spend it with us and we also love it when you call us and let us know what’s on your mind, (214) 702-9565 is how you can leave a voicemail in our inbox and messages or you can send us an email at feedbackatsexymarriageradio.com with your questions and your thoughts for topics or anything you want us to cover. And then we also want to ask something of you. That jump on iTunes, rate and review the show, leave a comment, help us spread the word. ITunes has done some re-categorization. Pam Allan: Really? Corey Allan: Of things. Pam Allan: So how’s that working? Corey Allan: With how things are categorized. And so we are now in a similar category that’s kind of shifted a little bit, but we get a chance to climb up higher. Pam Allan: Perfect. Corey Allan: Because of the way the new algorithm runs. And so the more comments that are in there, the higher we can get. Pam Allan: Yeah, help us do that. Corey Allan: And spread the word that married sex is the hotbed for sex because it is. Pam Allan: It is, I agree. Corey Allan: It just is. So coming up on today’s regular free version of sexy marriage radio, we’re joined by a guest today. Pam Allan: Yeah. Corey Allan: So in the past we have had a couple of different mentions of a product named promescent. Pam Allan: Right. So a couple episodes, there’s 4/21, lasting longer and 4/16, which was on premature ejaculation. Corey Allan: Correct. And so after these two episodes, the CEO of the company that produces promescent reached out, Jeff Abraham. Pam Allan: Perfect.

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from listeners asking for our take on the use of the “f” word in married life and sex. A voicemail from a higher desire husband who takes too much of his cue from his lower desire wife when it comes to their sex life. A follow up from a wife asking for more about her role in going forward with the subject of her husband’s porn use and his lying about it for the first 12 years of their marriage. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation about one-sided marriages. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: So we have dates. My fair wife Pam. Pam Allan: Dates for what? Corey Allan: Next year’s Sexy Marriage Radio getaway. Mark your calendars now. Pam Allan: Nice. Corey Allan: I need you to Mark your calendar now. Pam Allan: Got it. Got it down. Corey Allan: By the way. To June 18th through 21 in the year of 2020. Here in the Dallas–Fort Worth area. Again, so market calendars, the more details will be coming. We’ve got some changes coming for the getaway. At least so we’re in the works for some cool little additions. Pam Allan: Are you disclosing right now? Corey Allan: We are not disclosing yet. We’ve got to finalize all of the details and that will all be disclosed as soon as we have them all affirmed up. Pam Allan: All right, looking forward to it. Corey Allan: But if you want to join us and we hope that you do, we want to see in June in 2020. We’re the Sexy Marriage Radio and we’re so glad that you take some time out of the day each and every week to spend it with us and what we asked from you as our loyal, faithful, Sexy Marriage Radio Nation, that let us know what you think and what your questions are. Corey Allan: If you’ve got something you’re curious and you don’t know where else to ask because you’re not going to bring it up at the dinner table whenever the holidays come around and ask your parents. Gets a little too embarrassing or your friends, church group, whatever, let us know. We’ll answer it. (214) 702-9565 is our voicemail line or feedback@sexymergeradio.com is how you can email us and everything is read and followed up with in some way, shape or form as a segment on a show or an offline conversation. We also asked the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation to jump on iTunes and rate and review the show. Leave us comments, help us spread the word that married sex is the best hotbed for sex that there is. Pam Allan: That’s right? Corey Allan: Come on up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio, a couple of your questions and our answers and then on the extended version which is deeper longer and there are no ads, you can subscribe@smrnation.com we’re going to do a deep dive conversation, Pam,

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails looking for help for he and his wife regarding the fantasies she often turns to for sexual arousal. A caller asking for followup on one of Dr Glover’s ideas about the differences between men and women. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation looking into the idea of do what always do the best we can? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: Welcome to the dog days of summer. Pam Allan: Yeah, living in Texas. Yeah. This is our stretch of hundred degree plus days. Corey Allan: Yes it is. So wherever you are in this fair land and world of ours, we hope that you’re finding ways to stay cool, or if the reverse happens to be true, to stay warm. Because this is Sexy Marriage Radio where we want to have more than just conversations about weather, we want to have conversations about marriage and life and sex and all that that entails. And we love it when you help us frame where we go with our shows, with your phone calls that come in to two, one four, seven, oh, two, nine, five, six, five. Or to feedback@sexymarriageradio.com, so that way we can get your voice as part of the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation, which is, if you’re listening to this episode right now, then you’re part of the Sexy Marriage Radio Nation, and we’re glad that you take the time out each week to spend it with us. And one of the things that’s been kind of interesting before we get to show really going this morning, Pam. Pam Allan: Yeah. Corey Allan: This is my wife Pam again, as always by the way. Pam Allan: Hello. Corey Allan: So we’ve been in quite a little transitional seasons, if you will, for us. That one of the words that I’ve had … So every year I do three words following Chris Brogan’s lead, and one of my words for 2019 is the word streamline. Which has meant I spent a lot of time throughout the year just paring down what do we do really well, let’s just do that. What are some of the stuff that’s extraneous we have that we don’t need and we just get rid of that. And so what we’ve done now is just kind of interesting because we’ve always had this fifth wheel in a truck and we would travel and do some great adventures. We came back over from a month long trip the summer. And promptly sold everything. Pam Allan: [crosstalk 00:02:13] camper. Yes. Sold it. New era of life. Corey Allan: Indeed. And so it’s kind of interesting to think, wow, that’s the season that you look back at the joy and the memories, then when the kids were little and all that was done over the five years we were able to do the month long trips. And now we’re looking at what’s going to be the next ones. Pam Allan: It’s kind of unnerving. There’s been this unsettled feeling of … There’s been some...

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails to share his journey to getting his wife on board to talking more about sex and wonders why he’s not at the same level of desire as before due to the work it took to reach their current level. And Jessa Zimmerman joins me for a second opinion segment to help a wife who’s husband will change up the routine right when he sees she’s really enjoying it. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation with Jessa Zimmerman about the differences in desires in marriage. Learn more about Jessa at her site https://sexwithoutstress.com/ Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: I am never unimpressed with the Sexy Marriage Radio nation. Pam Allan: I was about to say, don’t use the word never, but that one fits quite nicely. Corey Allan: That’s true, because never always, those are igniters. Pam Allan: Right. Corey Allan: And in marriage and relationships, in any kind of conflict, because it just increases the magnitude of whatever it is is going on between you. But no, I have always been impressed, look at that, I’m using on both sides now with the Sexy Marriage Radio nation, because they continually are involved by just listening, emailing, calling, leaving comments, leaving reviews. Even when the reviews aren’t great, they still are speaking up, and that’s the things we want to hear is just what’s going on with people. Pam Allan: We want people to be intentional about life and to speak up when they want something or need something and speak up when they like something. Corey Allan: So, to the Sexy Marriage Radio nation, which is everyone that’s listening to this, not just people that have signed up or are part of a membership, but if you’re listening to the show, you’re part of the nation. Pam Allan: That’s right. Corey Allan: We say welcome to you and we’re glad that you found us and we want to hear from you. (214) 702-9565 is how you let us know what questions on your mind because we are trying to set up an area where if you got a question you’re not sure where you can ask it, this is the place, because we will be honest. We’ll be up front, we’ll give you good information and if we don’t know the information we’ll go find it, and it might be on the air or it might be off the air, because we’ll email you back with your questions. But, we want to know what’s going on. Corey Allan: You can also send us emails, feedback, to Sexymarriageradio.com, and as was mentioned before, jump on iTunes, leave a review. Tell us what you think. Leave a comment, help spread the word.

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who has repeated attempted to educate her husband about how she wants sex to unfold, yet is still getting little to no foreplay and routine, unfulfilling sex most of the time. On the Xtended version … Should you expect your spouse to “be there” for you in marriage? What does that even mean? Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: Man OF His Word Mastermind Groups: Go to http://smrnation.com/mohw to learn more. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Dr. Corey Allan: Where we’re having straightforward, honest conversations that are on your mind with the topics that you’ve got, the questions you have, the curiosities that we’re trying to create an area and a nation, if you will, that if you’ve got a question you don’t know where else to ask, this is the place. So you can call 214-702-9565. Leave a message on what’s on your mind and anything that we can give our two cents to because we want to go where you want to go. So if you like what’s going on here too, we also ask you to jump on iTunes, leave us a review and a rating, or Spotify, or Stitcher, or iHeartRadio, or however you choose to join the nation. We are so glad that you join it every time. So alongside my wife, Pam, as always. Pam: Hey. Dr. Corey Allan: We’re looking forward to wherever we may be going today. Pam: Yeah, looking forward to it. Dr. Corey Allan: Because coming up on today’s regular version, the free version, of Sexy Marriage Radio, we’ve got a couple of your questions and our answers. On the extended version of Sexy Marriage Radio, which is deeper, a little bit longer, and no ads, you can subscribe at smrnation.com. You can listen to a little more in-depth conversation Pam and I are going to have about this idea of, “Should you expect your spouse to be there for you?” Pam: All right. Anytime we have the word expect- Dr. Corey Allan: Fair. Pam: … that throws up flags for me, so that’ll be a fun conversation. Dr. Corey Allan: Okay. So all of that is coming up on today’s show. And speaking of today’s show, today’s show is sponsored by the Sexy Marriage Radio Man of His Word Mastermind Groups. Pam: Nice. Dr. Corey Allan: They come around a couple times a year, and so it’s that time of year now for the fall sessions that go on. It’s a six-month commitment. If a man wants to be a part of this group, there’s a application process to be a part of it. So if you are interested, send me an email, corey@smrnation.com. That is C-O-R-E-Y, by the way, and let me know you’re interested and we’ll give you the next steps. Dr. Corey Allan: So this came from one of the episodes we did at the getaway with episode 421, which was on Lasting Longer and Squirting, if I remember right, as the title. Pam: Squirting’s always a hit- Dr.

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On today’s regular version of the show … How well do you do at showing the people that matter in your life that they matter? I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover again as we discuss tests that happen in marriage between men and women. Learn more about Dr Glover here. On the Xtended version … An extended conversation with Dr Glover about the importance of showing up in your relationships, and setting a good tone. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: SMR Academy: Go to http://smrnation.com/smracademy to sign up and join today. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husband disclosed his porn usage for over 12 years of their marriage. Another wife emails wanting to know how to get her husband to follow through on finding help for his disinterest in sex. On the Xtended version … Part four of the SMR Getaway Q&A session. We go where the audience wanted to go. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: SMR Academy: Go to http://smrnation.com/smracademy to sign up and join today. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every time she brings it up with her husband he reverts back to what they’ve always done. And an email from a husband who is interested in more sex with his wife, who he knows masturbates most nights to help sleep but isn’t interested in more sex with him. On the Xtended version … Part three of the SMR Getaway Q&A session. We go where the audience wanted to go. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: SMR Circles: Go to http://smrnation.com/smracademy to sign up and join a SMR Circle. ! __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sided Sex in marriage. Taken from an article found on Psychology Today. On the Xtended version … Part two of the SMR Getaway Q&A session. We go where the audience wanted to go. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ SPONSOR: SMR Circles: Go to http://smrnation.com/smracademy to sign up and join a SMR Circle. Starting next week! __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today