Sexy Marriage Radio

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea as we discuss the distracted mind, or put another way - how to address the times when you can't turn off you mind. Learn more about Dr Jamea on her site - https://emilyjamea.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Emily and I discuss the dynamic in marriage where the wife is the higher desire spouse. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better? A husband emails about a wife who has lost all desire and libido due to a medication she is on. How can her get her more engaged in their sex life so it doesn't feel one-sided? On the Xtended version ... There is a Scripture that says, All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. How does this apply to our marriage and sex life? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com

Adding music to your sex life in marriage. Join the conversation at my.smrnation.com. A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on board with wanting to improve things? On the Xtended version ... What happens when the low desire spouse initiates sex, yet is shut down by their high desire spouse? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections! Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year of their marriages. On the Xtended version ... A husband has no attraction towards his wife, and while he kinda thought this may be an issue while they were dating, their honeymoon confirmed it. What should he do now? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well. A wife parents different than her husband, and his manner of parenting is a real turn off sexually. On the Xtended version ... Our Instagram account got quite a bit of pushback over a post we ran about adding a third person to the bedroom. This is my response to the reactions. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A follow up from an email on last week's show. A newlywed asks for tips to help prepare or avoid the issues that he hears other couples inevitably face in marriage. A woman is experiencing some self-image issues and marital strife resulting from a botched breast reduction procedure. Could it be that women are more sexual than men? A couple both experience orgasms during sex regularly, yet the issue for the husband is how his wife achieves them. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A husband takes too long to orgasm during oral sex, and too quick during PV sex.  A wife wants help understanding how to help her husband address the length of time it takes him to climax. A woman has been dating a Christian man for 9 years, who simply won't commit to marriage.  On the Xtended version ... What do you do when one spouse wants to avail themselves to medical resources and vaccines and the other spouse is completely opposed? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

Announcing that registration for the 2022 SMR Getaway is open now ... come join us in downtown Indianapolis! Learn more and register here.  A follow up email from a listener about dealing with guilt and resentment. A question asking if a spouse who refuses to address their role in a sexless marriage is actually better termed as infidelity. On the Xtended version ... We've received several emails and messages about how the aspect of consent plays out in marriage. Today we begin the conversation on this tricky subject. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

A look back at one of our favorite episodes according to the Nation. Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from a prior email from a husband who's wife only likes missionary position sex. On the Xtended version ... A discussion about how I believe the messages found in three popular marriage books, The 5 Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, and Love And Respect, are used in the wrong ways. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it's the husbands fault. A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex with his lower desire wife would help reset things for them both. On the Xtended version ... Are there delay tactics used in marriage and sex to avoid things we don't want to participate in or follow through with? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... MoHW Masterminds: Mastermind groups are forming now. For more info check out https://smrnation.com/masterminds

An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex. A wife emails asking for how to handle resentment and guilt over how long it has taken to grow more confident sexually. A husband emails wondering if his interest in wearing feminine underwear is a potential problem. On the Xtended version ... Part 4 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paint Your Life: Looking for a unique and great gift for someone - or yourself? Text the word MARRIAGE to 64-000 and get 20% off.

An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly. Two emails from different wives wanting to know how to address when husbands have gained a lot of weight and have little interest in a healthier lifestyle.  On the Xtended version ... Part 3 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into questions like gridlock and books to help relationships. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Paint Your Life: Looking for a unique and great gift for someone - or yourself? Text the word MARRIAGE to 64-000 and get 20% off.

We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers. On the Xtended version ... Part 2 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into some deep questions like betrayal and desire differences. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofresh.com/smr14 use code smr14 for 14 free meals, including free shipping!

An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage. A wife emails because she found a dildo that her husband has been using while masturbating. On the Xtended version ... A recording of part of the Q&A time at this year's SMR Getaway. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smrnation.com/union

An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her. And a voicemail from a new mom who wants to get the non-sexy images from childbirth and doctors out of her head to get sex going again with her husband. On the Xtended version … A look a some of the attitudes we can bring into marriage and relationships. Are you entitled in your marriage or is marriage designed to expose you more than you thought? Enjoy the show!