Sexy Marriage Radio

I'm joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here - https://www.adhdmarriage.com/ On the Xtended version ... Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex. Enjoy the show!

Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours? An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingerie and role playing. On the Xtended version ... A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex.  Enjoy the show!

A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex. On the Xtended version ... The importance of boundaries in life and marriage. Enjoy the show!

Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life. A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay. On the XTD content. What books I've read this year and their impact on my life and marriage.

As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today’s episode are free. Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People. You can learn more about Gary and his books here – http://www.garythomas.com/ Enjoy the show! [...]

As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free. Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People. You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/

On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage. Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina. On the Xtended version … Brain regressions and how they impact our life and [...]

An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage. Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.

A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam. An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.

A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships. Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it.

An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling. Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex. On the Xtended version ... A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life.

A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad. Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/

On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work here https://drclaudiagg.com/ On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation with Dr Claudia about her thought about the Marriage and Family field currently as well as Attachment Theory in therapy. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: I love the fact Pam, that it’s the Sexy Marriage Radio nation occasionally listens to what we’re saying. Pam Allan: Occasionally. Corey Allan: And when we… Pam Allan: Thank you. Corey Allan: When we talk about this idea of, Hey, if you liked the show, jump on iTunes and rate and review it and leave a comment. And there was a guy that emailed me that said, “You know what? I’ve been listening for three years and I’ve heard you say that every single episode. And I finally figured out on the eighth birthday.” Which was a couple of weeks back. Pam Allan: Yeah. Corey Allan: What better time than to finally follow through with what you’ve been asking, but to jump on iTunes and leave you guys to review and how sexy marriage radio has impacted his life and his marriage. Pam Allan: Love it, love it. Corey Allan: By just stumbling upon it. And I love the fact that the people, when they do it just helps spread the word. It helps let other people know what’s going on and it helps us be better with what we’re trying to do here at Sexy Marriage Radio. Because what we want to do is to speak into the questions that you may have or the conversations that you want to take place to make your marriage and your sex life better. And the way you can do that as members of the Sexy Marriage Radio nation… Pam Allan: Easy for you to say. Corey Allan: Is to call us at 214-702-9565. Or you can jump on into the inbox at feedback at sexymarriageradio.com because those emails really do help shape listener driven radio that we got going on here at Sexy Marriage Radio. Pam Allan: They do another way for you to get involved. We are coming out and announcing now our 2020 getaway, right? Corey Allan: Correct. Pam Allan: So you want to give details about the 2020 getaway? Corey Allan: The Sexy Marriage Radio getaway in 2020 takes place. We’ve already told you to save the date it’s June 18 through 21. Here in the DFW metroplex area. Again, the Marriott Solana, which is where we’ve been the last three years, but this year we’re no holds barred. A big blowout. Pam Allan: Have we been holding something back. Corey Allan: I don’t know. It’s kind of just sounds fun to say that way. Pam Allan: All right then. Corey Allan: because it is going to be a big blowout because, in the current format of the way we do the Sexy Marriage Radio getaway. This is the last time we are offering it. Pam Allan: Last time. Corey Allan: So sign ups will open up for registering soon.

On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Sensate Focus exercises for their sex life. And an email from a wife whose husband found a vibrator she bought and completely destroyed it. On the Xtended version … A conversation that took place with the SMR Academy about the idea of one spouse feeling like “I’m never enough” for you. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Marriage Radio where we’re having straightforward, honest conversations about married life and all that goes on within it. That it’s about sex, but it’s about life, it’s about desire, it’s about love, it’s about romance. And it’s about how the times when the bubble gets burst and you realize there’s something going on different than I thought was going to happen. We want to cover it all here at Sexy Marriage Radio. And one of the ways we know where we’re heading with each episode is from you, the Sexy Marriage Radio nation. When you speak up, call in, email. Then you can leave us a voicemail at (214) 702-9565 is the way. We love to hear your voice and add it to the show. You can also send us an email at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com and everything that comes through into our inbox is read. Some of it is replied to offline, some of it becomes episodes, some of it becomes topics that will eventually be covered. Corey Allan: But for the eight years of Sexy Marriage Radio now it has really been listener driven. So Sexy Marriage Radio nation plays a vital role and help them create what this is. And so joining me again, as always is my wife Pam. Pam Allan: Hey, good to be here. Corey Allan: And where we are heading today, we’ve got several emails that have been, and messages, that have just been in the queue that we need to [crosstalk 00:01:51]. Pam Allan: Good. Excited to hear that. Corey Allan: But also I need to say just a quick little housekeeping if you will, and almost a pseudo celebration, if you will. Yeah. At least letting everybody in the Sexy Marriage Radio nation know that two weeks ago we celebrated eight years. And that following weekend, so just a little bit over a week and a half ago, we topped 7 million total downloads as a show. Corey Allan: Which that’s an unbelievable thing that here we are doing this in our living room and it spreads far and wide and it’s because of the listeners that it has become what it is today. So thank you so much the Sexy Marriage Radio nation. Pam Allan: A lot of sexy people out there. Corey Allan: So literally there are, and we are so glad that you spend time each and every week to spend it with us. We also ask, because of this, we want to help spread the word. So jump on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, iHeartRadio, however you choose to listen rate and review the show. Leave a comment that helps spread the word that Sexy Marriage Radio is a valuable source for quality information. Corey Allan: So coming up on today’s regular free version of S...

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more about Dr Jennifer at http://www.finlayson-fife.com On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and desire, as well as my research on the same topic with a conservative Christian population. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL US 214-702-9565 Or Email Us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. __________ Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … MORE ACCESS Xtended Version Get Xtended episodes in the Academy Get help for your relationship and sex life from the comfort of your own home. This is an opportunity for YOU to fully experience the fact that “The BEST SEX can happen IN the Marriage Bed!” … Join today Transcript of Episode Corey Allan: Welcome back to another episode of Sexy Marriage Radio where, once again, we are having honest, straightforward conversations about married life, and love, and sex, and how we believe that how you do sex is how you’ll do life, and how you do life is how you do sex. Corey Allan: So we’re talking about it all here at Sexy Marriage Radio. Today’s episode, I’m joined by a colleague of mine that’s going to be worth checking out. And so, but before we get to that, if you like what we’ve got going on here at Sexy Marriage Radio, we ask that you jump on iTunes, rate and review the show, leave a comment, helps spread the word that married sex has got it going on. Corey Allan: And, also want to ask that, if you, as part of the members of the Sexy Marriage Radio nation got a question, or a thought, or a comment that you want us to address on the show, or to go deeper with, or go further along with with a prior guest, give us a call. (214) 702-9565. Corey Allan: You can also jump on the inbox and email us at feedback@sexymergeradio.com, and as we’re starting off this week, I’ve got to give a shout out to the Freedom Church in Los Alamos, New Mexico. Got the privilege of being able to speak there this past weekend at their Sunday services, and they have a fantastic thing growing in the Los Alamos community. It was a wonderful time. Corey Allan: And so, to all the people that are there, thanks for being so welcoming and warming. It was a great time, and all the best and God’s blessings on the work and the path that you continued to do. Corey Allan: And also, I have to say a shout out to my seven year old best friend that I made over the weekend. Jeremiah, you rock. So, it was such a great time to just… Out of the mouths of babes, I guess you could say, and just listening to the conversations that can take place from children. Corey Allan: So, coming up on today’s regular free version of Sexy Marriage Radio is a conversation with a colleague of mine, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, and we get into how do you deal with lower desire, and what are the aspects of lower desire that need to be addressed that can help us uncover desire a little bit more. Corey Allan: She has some fantastic work in that arena and on the extended version of Sexy Marriage Radio, which is deeper, longer, and there’s no ads, you can subscribe at smrnation.com. She and I, Dr. Jennifer and I continue a conversation on her dissertation, where she did a qualitative study within the LDS community and the women within that culture and that dynamic, which, generally,