Feminine as F*ck

Today I want to talk to you about the feminine business myths that are everywhere on social media right now. Some business coaches claim and preach that if you just masturbate, radiate orgasmic energy and are in your feminine then you’ll make millions.  I want to come from a place of sustainability. I chat about: ·  The importance of acknowledging life changes and seasons ·  What it takes to actually reach your goals and desires ·  Why cultivating a masculine container allows your feminine to flow ·  Done is better than perfect! ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Learn more about BABA: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/bad-ass-btches-academy/ ⇢ Purchase your NYC immersion ticket: https://monicayates.com.au/product/nyc-immersion-pay-in-full/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/210feminine-business-myths/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This episode is an interview I did on the Activated Woman Podcast. This is a juicy one talking everything self-trust, my relationship with alcohol, what success looks like to me now and the energetics of money. I dive into: ·  Physical issues masking energetic issues ·  Redefining success ·  How getting drunk with friends is a spiritual practice for me ·  Sexual energy and money having the same frequency ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Boundaries masterclass: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/boundaries-bitch/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/209-the-link-between-sexual-energy-and-money-plus-lets-redefine-success/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/  

In today’s episode I ask, are you escaping reality with spirituality? Where we slip up when it comes to spirituality and trust is when we use it in a way where we are bypassing something and use it as an excuse, a self-sabotage tool or a way to avoid taking responsibility. I chat about: ·  Having faith and believing in a higher source ·  The implications of spiritually bypassing ·  The benefits of taking radical responsibility of your life ·  That the equation is not just be a vibe = make money ·  The importance of committing to yourself ⇢ Follow the FAF instagram: https://www.instagram.com/feminineasfuck_/ ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/208-are-you-escaping-reality-with-spirituality/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Today I am talking all about trauma and explaining what exactly it is for anyone who is confused by it.  I dive into: ·  What the trauma cycle is and how it can negatively impact your libido ·  Why getting to the root is the only way to really fix your trauma ·  How every single person regardless of their upbringing has trauma ·  How numbing out and disassociating inhibits your ability to feel pleasure ⇢ Read The Blog: https://monicayates.com.au/207-what-is-trauma/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This episode is an interview I did on The Kelli Show and it is full of value and chicken nuggets all about healing your trauma, preserving your feminine energy, validation + men and how allowing yourself to feel sexy starts a cycle of abundance and magnetic energy. I chat about:  Why showing up online in a real, human and authentic way is so important for building trust   How strict spiritual practices could actually be holding you back and draining your life force energy  Chicken nugget: I’m not afraid of rejection because I don’t reject myself anymore  Healing your Daddy issues to release sexual shame and be able to validate yourself  ⇢ Read the blog post: https://monicayates.com.au/206-daddy-issues-preserving-your-feminine-energy-and-empowering-sex/  ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/  ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/  ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

In today’s episode, I talk about the shit side of business and how sometimes I hate being a business owner, I hate being a boss and things feel really hard. I want to share this side with you because often we don’t see the behind the scenes or the nitty gritty and this leads us to glamorise and romanticise different roles and careers. I share with you: ·  What the hard days and moments of being a business owner can look like ·  Behind the scenes of hiring and firing team members ·  The importance of showing authenticity and being truthful to ourselves ·  The myth to feminine business and how not to fall into that trap ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/205-the-shit-side-of-business/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Today I am talking about labels and how they can be really fucking damaging, inhibit your growth and hold you back from your goals and desires. I chat about: Different types of labels and how they stop you from searching for the root cause Social media and how this platform along with labels are impacting our productivity Why we reach and search for labels and what happens when you get rid of them Chicken Nugget: When you label yourself, you limit yourself! How labels allow avoidance an in turn hold you back from your desired reality ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/204-labels-limit-you-and-inhibit-your-sense-of-freedom/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Today we're talking about victimhood and how people are actually addicted to being a victim. This episode is going to trigger some of you, but I want you to stick with me and know that the next 33 minutes are going to light a fire up your arse to break your victim cycle.  I dive into:  ☽ Why people get addicted to their victimhood ☽ The vicious cycle of the high you get from complaining ☽ The truth about talk therapy and trauma ☽ Ask yourself, what are you getting from staying in your victimhood?  For more like this: ⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/203-your-addiction-to-victimhood-is-what-could-be-holding-you-back-from-getting-your-manifestations/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

I'm here with the down low on the new format of Queen Alchemy and what to expect in this round! So if you want to join and you have questions, chances are they're going to be answered in this 7 minutes. How the group calls work Why I've decided to scrap FaceBook and start a Telegram group Introducing the new additional trauma calls Why I've replaced the 1:1 call with the additional trauma calls What to do if you've already joined a previous round of Queen Alchemy and you've got FOMO of the new format ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

In this episode, I discuss why trauma can affect your sex life. Your mind and body hold trauma which causes overthinking, stiffness in the body, and insecure thoughts which leads to shitty sex. Trauma is held in the body and until you release that stagnant energy you will not be able to fully relax. In order to feel all the amazing sensations, you must release the negative sensations stemming from the trauma that has been stored in your body.  I dive into:  Men and Women both have sexual trauma -- learn how it affects both genders Why trauma causes overthinking and insecurities in the bedroom Clear your trauma to have the ultimate orgasm Our bodies and minds try to black out the trauma causing us not to feel anything at all. Replacing the feeling of detached and numb to confident and sexy ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/201-how-trauma-shows-up-in-your-sex-life-for-both-men-and-women/ ⇢ Watch the IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/p/CYkPnriJRjS/  ⇢ Watch my IGTV on 'what is trauma' https://www.instagram.com/tv/CKEyW6LAo__/  ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/  ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/  ⇢ Join The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ 

In this episode, we discussed what the new year is really about. We no longer have time for negativity or fake friends. Let’s make this year our b*tch. I discuss how to manifest and how to figure out which tools work best for you. 2022 brings a new sense of self. During this episode, I teach you how to look inward and listen to your true self. Now is the time to be selfish and focus on yourself. Changes do not happen overnight and I will help guide you into a healthy routine in order to manifest your dream life.  Go out and network  Ask, believe, achieve energy  Make a list and set your intentions for 2022 “I can’t” is no longer part of your vocabulary.  Manifestations can happen during your downtime, relax and breathe  Be intentional with manifestations  Focus on which practice feels the best for YOU ⇢ Podcast Directory: https://monicayates.com.au/which-podcast-episodes-should-you-be-listening-to/  ⇢ The Man closes Jan 7th https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/  ⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/200-2022-is-your-year/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 1: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/ ⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 2: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation-level-2/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This episode is a game changer in understanding this world of blueprints and energetics. If you want a deeper insight into anything I mention, Magic, Money & Manifestation: Level 1 is your intro into this world, and Level 2 is that higher level. In episode 199, I chat about: ☽ The basics of blueprints ☽ Breaking your ceilings and shifting your energy ☽ How a blueprint is made and the questions to ask yourself ☽ Chicken nugget: If you want radical shifts, you have to actually invest ☽ Mismatch of blueprints in relationships and things to consider ☽ The four key things that you must be doing in order to change your financial blueprint Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/199-energetic-blueprints-love-wealth-career/ ⇢ Watch the IGTV version: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CT0QkCTFfHx/?utm_medium=copy_link ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 1: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/ ⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 2: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation-level-2/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Sisterhood wounding is a wound women have around their friendships with other women. It's the backstabbing, bitchness, sly comments, nastiness, bullying that goes on in girl friendship groups. A lot of us will either have this, or have struggled with this wound in the past. In episode 198, I chat about: ☽ My story with sisterhood wounding when I started my business ☽ Why sisterhood wounding affects us ☽ Some reassurance that you're not alone and how it's such a common struggle for my clients that are business owners ☽ Queen bee nature, competitiveness, safety and rejection ☽ Why biologically, women sometimes diminish their light (whether that be success, taken, beauty) so they fit in ☽ Truth bomb: women can be bitches and 'women supporting women' is often BS Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/198-how-sisterhood-wounding-can-inhibit-your-growth/ ⇢ Watch the IGTV version: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CAIFMuwA5qu/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ⇢ Listen to the previous sisterhood wounding rant I did in 2020: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CYCxpF_p2u9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ Join BABA: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/bad-ass-btches-academy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Today's episode is all about how as a woman you need to understand that if you want to feel safe, you need to feel safe around men. This is also a good episode for men to listening to, as a great permission slip to be in their grounded masculine. I chat about: ☽ The MeToo movement, feminism and how the intention of these movements have shifted, been taken out of context and blown out of proportion, thus creating a manhunt which is causing the opposite of what we want. ☽ How biologically, men will make women feel safer  ☽ How the answer to women feeling 'unsafe' is actually in MEN  ☽ Understanding that as women we want to feel ravished, loved, cherished and wanted by men.  ☽ How society has made men's good dominance to become an unhealthy, toxic, masculine trait when actually it the thing that makes women feel grounded and safe. ☽ Why biologically and energetically, the feminine wants to be devoured by the masculine. ☽ Why we need to give permission for men to be their masculine Want more? ⇢ Here is the survey I mention (share this with the men in your life!): https://forms.gle/Tj7pgXjhNzu2zdkr5 ⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/197-how-masculine-men-actually-make-society-safer-and-feminine-men-make-it-unsafe/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Men's Survey: https://forms.gle/D8A3nBb7prHN4R4j8  ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

This is going to be a good episode for my male listeners and also my female listeners, so that you can have more compassion towards men (cc: Be A Lover, Not A Mother) and understand that they have struggles too. I chat about: - The stress of not being 'enough of a man' - External factors and what your partner actually deems as being 'a man' - Looking at the root of feeling not 'enough' - You saying "I want to be a better man" isn't admitting fault. It's saying that you want more for yourself, which is an attractive trait. Want more? ⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/196-how-to-heal-your-stress-of-not-being-enough-of-a-man/ ⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/ ⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ ⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/ ⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2 ⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ ⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/