Pedestrian Polyamory

Shira B goes to the San Francisco Pride Parade and regales you with tales of terror in the streets of San Francisco. Pissing, shitting, and domestic violence, oh my. Then the Katz hit the listener mail bag to give the Pedestrians a differing view on privilege and political correctness. Other topics include: more Gavins,  disclosing polyamory to casual lovers, and newbie pitfalls in opening up long term relationships. Listen to some uncensored Katz commentary. (Unless they're talking about I#@ Cr*!m.)

Hot off the heels of OpenSF Gavin and Shira are here to decompress all over you.  First Shira reveals the details of her next speaking appearance (*hint* CatalystCon ).  Then the Katz' share the highs from the entire conference, but you can't have high high's without some eventual low low's.  Shira and Gavin have both been experiencing various degree's of over sensitivity surrounding language and the communities desire to be politically correct.  Gavin discuss his feelings on the misuse of the word 'Privileged'.  Shira tells a story revolving around the racism of Ninja's (yep... Ninja's).  It's not all griping and moaning in the Katz household, because in the end they just want to clarify, 'We are ALL on the same team'.  

Not much going on in Shira and Gavin-land, but before they dive into the topic of the day, they do have a warm thank you to all the Berries in the world.  Shira and Gavin this week dive into the world Voyeurism and Exhibitionism, and share their own personal views on the topics.  Our duo also discusses paraphilia, soft-exhibitionism, Girls Gone Wild, sex in public, and of course, somehow find a way to explain how all of this fits into a podcast about polyamory.  

Yea, I realize that looks like this is an episode about the Capital of Idaho... it's not, not even a little bit. But if I just wrote 'Bring the Boys' you would might miss the whole Old School Rap theme that Shira makes us do.  Anyway, in this episode Shira and Gavin (who refers to himself in the third person apparently) talk about Gavin dealing with Polyamory Rookie BS.  Shira explains how the Transient has now Transcended to being Trans.  Then we open up the mail bag and Shira answers your questions while Gavin makes fun of her and/or the writer.  So Turn it up! Bring the Boys!

Gavin and Shira sit down and talk about the ORE, which stands for Old Relationship Energy, and may or may not be something that Shira completely made up.  They also talk about NRE, but more than talking about the energy, they talk about the science and chemicals involved, and what drives humans to act the way they do.  Before they get into that Gavin announces he’s back on the polyamorous market, and Shira talks about having guilt just for being Shira B. Katz.

Here we go, here we go, here we go again. Barry, what's my weakness? (Mail!) Ok, then. Chillin', chillin', mindin' my business. I checked my mail and I couldn't believe this. I swear; I stared, Gavin's my witness, the mailbox had it goin' on with somethin' kinda wicked, wicked - I had to click it. I'm not shy so I podcast the business. The mailbox is packed and it's stacked ('specially in the back). D Barry wanted to thank a lover for mail like that. Can S Barry get some love with that shake-shake boobie? If looks could kill, Gavin would be an uzi. He's a shotgun - bang! What's up with that thang? The swingset wants to know; how does it hang? Straight up, wait up, hol... No really, hold on. Gavin is going to kill me. Stick with us on the show as we answer a bunch of listener mail. We hit the mail for the hell of it, just for the yell we get. Mmm, mmm, mmm.. for the smell of it. Shoop.

Gavin and Shira talk about threesomes of the sexy variety (not the relationshipy vee/triad variety) in this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory. Before diving into the topic, Shira and Gavin talk a bit about enjoying each other's other partners and invite the listeners to improve upon their theme music. Then diving into the subject of threesomes, the Katz talk about protection, preparation, negotiation and execution of awesomely sexy threesomes and share a few stories about their own awesome (and less than awesome) threesomes. Listen up!

PEDESTRIANS! We regulate any drama in polyamory and we're damn good too. But you can't be any geek off the street, gotta be handy with the advice if you know what I mean; earn your keep. Pedestrians! Mount up! It was a clear black night, a clear white moon. Shira B was on the streets trying to consume some email for the eve so she can help some punks. Gavin rollin' his eyes, chillin' all alone. Shira clicks a link from a Barry named Lewis. This Barry's gots  problems so she says "Let's do this". Gavin jumped up beside and said "What's up?"  Some Barry's queried the Katz, so Gavin knew  he's stuck. Gavin's gettin' asked, he can't believe it himself, if all this bullying is good for Shira's health. Shira took his stings, she took his damn hex. Gavin looked at the mail and said "Damn, what's next?" 16 emails in the inbox and only 3 in the show. Gav Dogg is about to turn some Barres down cold. Now the drama' and cryin', it's a tad bit late. Gav Dogg and Shira B had to regulate. Back up back up cause it's on K A T Z  and me The Shira to the B

Shira and Gavin are talkin' casual sex.  No, not how to get some casual sex, but where it fits into polyamory, and their own personal FEELINGS on the matter.  Before that Gavin talks about his Poly Speed Dating adventure followed up with his own regular dating adventure(!!).  Shira discusses her own misadventures in dating and analysis paralysis.   Shira also introduces a new segment to Pedestrian Polyamory, which Gavin of course adores... er I mean abhors.  

Gavin is back in the captain's seat in this episode of POSTULANT Polyamory. Gavin continues his quest to welcome the newbs. First, Shira and Gavin make a BIG announcement about the show! Pedestrian Polyamory will be airing a pilot show on Sirius Radio's Playboy Channel: Spice 103 on Friday, March 16th. After the big announcement, Shira and Gavin break down dating for newbs: What questions should you ask on a first date? Where should you go? How do you prepare? Listen to find out!

With so much drama in PP16, it's kinda hard being a K A T to the Z.  But somehow, someway, we gotta keep on answering listener mail like every single day. May we answer a little mail for the B's and make a few jokes as we breeze through two in the morning and the podcast's still goin'. Okay. That was ridiculous. Listen in as Shira and Gavin answer some mail received after Depressisode 16. They cover topics from dating, to depression, to dealing with reluctant partners.

Shira steps out on Gavin and talks about polyamory with another man - Pepper Mint! Shira welcomes Pepper Mint back for his second interview with Pedestrian Polyamory. Shira and Pepper discuss the finer points of secondary relationships, including the difference between low-attachment and low-involvement relationships, the elusive poly folk who are down to fuck, and what really counts as 'polyamory'. Before the interview starts you can enjoy the second installment of Hep Katz Sonnet Corner and, of course, a very bitter Gavin.

Shira and Gavin go off the rails in this episode and start talking buttsex with boys!  Shira gives you the low-down on prostate health and pleasure, getting into all the details on how to prepare for anal play, what's you can do, and what her favorite moves are. Before bringing the bottom's up, Shira and Gavin address some standing issues from the previous show including: What's a PINO, do they exist? Is Gavin a cuckhold? Is Shira an unempathetic whore? Listen to find out!

Rules and boundaries! So much fun, right? In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory Gavin and Shira talk about Gavin's recent struggles with jealousy before charging into a discussion on rules, boundaries, and how they effect polyamorous relationships. It seems like most people in non-monogamous prescribe to a set of rules in their relationship, but could there be a better way? Get some tips on when the Katz' think that rules are good and when they are time-bombs. Resources: www.FranklinVeaux.com

In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, we talk about the recent media hype surrounding Newt Gingrich and open marriage. This episode is slightly more political and topical than usual, so we fully accept all of the hate-mail that will transpire as a result. That said! Before we get into the nitty gritty with Mr. Grinch, Gavin got a SONNET from a listener which we read in our new segment - HepKatz Sonnet Corner. Then.. big news about Gavin's dating life! Listen to hear more