Pedestrian Polyamory

Pedestrians!  The super happy and functional Gavin and Shira are back, and are opening up their mail bags once again.  Gavin refuses to have Pedestrian Affairs, while Shira talks about the emotional roller coaster that is Gavin Katz.  Listener mail topics this week include: WHEN TO TELL A POTENTIAL PARTNER THAT YOU ARE POLY (yes, we got it again), how to successfully make 'me time' when having multiple relationships, STI talks, Pedestrian Postcards, and how to deal with the thought that your partner doesn't love you as much as another.  All this and so much more (ok, just a bit more) in this weeks episode.  Gavin! Shira! Polyamory! Podcast! Play!

Pedestrians!  Gavin gets all nervous as he's talking to the lovely polyamorous sex worker Sabrina Morgan.  Before that, Shira and Gavin share their affairs as usual, including a very sexy offer to Gavin that he can't pass up (and Shira won't let him).  Then Gavin sits down with with Sabrina and they chat about her entry into sex work, how it affects her relationships, and what exactly is 'denial', and why Gavin think's he'd be great at it.  Sabrina will be speaking at SXSW as well as CatalystCon East (so's Shira, see them both!).  Do you like pretty voices?  Do you like sexy stories?  Do you like Gavin being nervous?  What are you waiting for? Play the episode!  

Shira and Gavin are back, and they brought apologies!  Episode 40 didn't go exactly to anyone's plan.  Shira and Gavin explain themselves, and assure the Berries (or is it Barries?) that everything is ok in the Katz house.  After apologizing to the Pedestrians, Shira and Gavin set forth to try and anger some other ones.  In this special Listener Mail episode, Shira and Gavin open up some of the hate mail that they have received.    Is Gavin poly? Does Shira have a negative IQ score? Should Gavin be upset that he does the man-chores while Shira is getting 'slammed'? Does Gavin need to 'get over it,' in regards to his depression?  All these questions from the most friendly and tactful listeners are answered in this weeks episode of Pedestrian Polyamory.  

Gavin has taken over with Postulant Polyamory!  Gavin and Shira are here to talk about how to interact with your metamour, and how to establish the proper boundaries and relationship with your lover's lover.  Gavin is also in a bit of a dry spell, so he's a bit grumpy.  Shira invites The Transient to come and join the conversation, so that makes Gavin a bit grumpy as well.  Listen to the dynamic residing in the Katz household and learn how to treat your metamour... or rather... how NOT to treat your metamour.  

Shira B. Katz sits down with Atlanta Poly Weekend co-founder Billy Holder.  Prior to that Gavin and Shira share some affairs.  Gavin has explains why he has trouble dating poly girls and social activists , while Shira sells her affairs to a corporate sponsor (not really).  Billy then gives us a complete rundown of what to expect  during Atalanta Poly Weekend, as well as talk about Polyamory in the media of 2012.    Atlanta Poly Weekend is March 15 - 17, 2013, and all info can be found at atlantapolyweekend.com.

Pedestrian Polyamory is back again!  Gavin and Shira finally have enough voicemails to do a show!  Gavin's affairs take us on a journey on a date with three girls (at the same time, our Gav sure is growing up!), meanwhile Shira is dealing with jealousy (!!).  The voice mail inbox is a myriad of Pedestrians, those dealing with insecurity, those showing Gavin some love, those dealing with impending fear of cohabitation, those who stroke Gavin's enormous cock (ego), those calling us cause they're drunk, and those who have a preference to Gavin.

Pedestrian Polyamory is back, and we've brought friends.  Gavin and Shira explain the lack of updates to the show, and almost promise to make that not happen anymore.  Once we catch up with the Master Banters (trademark pending), Shira and The Transient (#boom) takes us on an interview with a real-life polyamorous quad.  They explain how it works for them, and how they handle things when it doesn't work for them.  This is a fun episode that features more humans than any other episode of Pedestrian Polyamory ever (weird thing to promote)!!  So give it a listen, don't break hearts, and don't make expletives weird.

When the Swingers are away the Katz will play! Shira B. Katz has taken over the Swingset, and has enlisted her husband of mythical proportions Gavin Katz.  The hosts of Pedestrian Polyamory (cheap plug) aren't necessarily talking about Polyamory this week, but their ventures into a Swinger party.  Comparisons are made between the two cultures, Shira wants to ride the Swing Train, and Gavin wants to hit her with one. Check out the Smitten Kitten Online (https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/) store! (Don't forget the discount code, "swingset" for a 10% discount!)

Gavin and Shira B. Katz return to rock the mic one more time, and it's time to get all sad 'n stuff.   Gavin is getting back to his introversion while Shira has a new boy, who makes Gavin go on a tangent showing his geekiness.  Gavin and Shira have been dealing with depression, and give tips on how to deal with guilt, handle your own personal depression as well as dealing with a partner going through depression.  Gavin and Shira try to keep things light and BANTER like they do, but (sh)it's gonna get weird.

Gavin and Shira are back again, after a long spell of not being able to share the same room let alone the same microphone they're back... with a vengeance!  Gavin finally lets the Pedestrians know, exactly how did that date go?  Shira talks about the personal issues that have been going on in the Katz house, as well as a preview to next weeks Depresissode.  Then they once again open up the listener mail bag, and discuss the polyamorous issues of the Pedestri-nation.  This episode has a wide range of issues discussed, both for the newly open as well as issues for those with a Black Belt in Polyamory (why the belt gotta be black??).

The Transient joins Shira B. Katz in this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory so that she can ramble about pheromones for an hour. (Gavin calls this making the New Kid pay his dues.) After the usual Pedestrian Affairs, Shira is off an talking about Pheromones. Do they exist in humans? What kind of pheromones are out there? Just what is a vomeronasal organ? Join Shira and The Transient as they enjoy a big bowl of I*e C***m and get nerdy.

It's Shira's turn to go solo on Pedestrian Polyamory. Shira is back from Burning Man and won't shut up about it, even though she promised to! Hear Shira talk about her transformation between her first burn and her second and why Burning Man is responsible for Pedestrian Polyamory being a show at all. Shira also talks about.. Burning Man! And hypothetical druggy situat-i-ons, orgy domes, Tu-Tu Rapey Tuesday, and commitment ceremonies. Then she talks about... Shira! Hear about why Shira feels like a weirdo, all about her relationships, and listen to her answer a few listener questions while she's at it.

Pedestrian Polyamory is back, but this time with a twist.  Shira is off to Burning Man leaving Gavin alone to speak on whatever his heart desires.  Gavin lets the listeners in on some of the behind the scenes of Pedestrian Polyamory, shares a deeply personal experience that has to be heard, and his thoughts on his polarizing personality.  He also, reveals what the future has in store for Gavin Katz.

Mail bag time!  Shira and Gavin are back once again to answer listener mail.  This episode deals with going dutch in polyamorous dating, swingers having metamour drama, when to tell a date that you are poly, and getting over the fear of rejection.  The Katz' also dive into their personal lives a bit, Shira's dating a bunch, Gavin's not dating at all... yeah, yeah, I know.  You're sick of reading it, I'm sick of writing it, you'd think by know they'd be sick of talking about it.  Listen to Pedestrian Polyamory 31, now with 50% more Bane.

Gavin is taking the reigns once again, and this time he is putting Shira through her worst nightmare: conversations about Jealousy.  Before they get into the topic, Gavin and Shira ONCE AGAIN try to make their voice clear on the topic of privilege (last time, I swear... probably... maybe).  Gavin then leads us through the topic of jealousy, what it is, what it means, how to deal, and the best cleaning solutions to get the shit off your floor.  Shira meanwhile kicks and pouts as she usually does when things get Postulant, but she does it in her usual adorable sassy way.  Will Gavin be able to steer this ship?  Will Shira call a mutiny and take over half way through the show?  Listen and find out? I mean, listen and find out!