Summary: After drinking and reviewing Suddenly Comfy from @dogfishbeer, an imperial cream ale. Then they get into pronoun madness. Your name is yours, but pronouns don't belong to you. They're part of the language, which we hold as common property. So what is the appropriate sex-neutral pronoun? "They" is madness because it confuses singular and plural. Ze is at least better in that respect. But the bottom line is that pronouns aren't personal possessions. Everybody collectively owns the language.
