10 Mind-Games Narcissists Play to Confuse & Gaslight You.




Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships show

Summary: <p><strong>CRAZY-MAKING! That's what these ten mind-games are!</strong></p><p><strong>#Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult, toxic people in life must always win. You've noticed that, right? </strong></p><p><strong>They have to be right, make your wrong, and have their way. </strong></p><br><p>That why it is important to recognize these ten <strong>mind-games narcissists play</strong> to confuse you. Narcissists want you to live in uncertainty. They want the ground beneath your feet to be constantly shifting. AND, they want to be in control of those shifts.</p><br><p>When you come to clearly see <strong>what a #narcissist is up to</strong>, <strong>what a #Hijackal is up to</strong>, you will be able to make clearer decisions about your next best steps. When you're too worn down to see these things, get some help. I'm always here to help you. <a href="http://BeAClient.com%20" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">BeAClient.com </a></p><br><p><strong>Read the highlights below, and listen in.</strong> Subscribe so you'll receive every episode to help you stay clear about what is really going on.</p><br><p>--------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!</p><p>If you <strong>want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships</strong>. Join my Optimize Circles now.</p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now. <a href="http://optimizecircles.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">OptimizeCircles.com </a></p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li><strong>All or Nothing Thinking</strong></li> <li><strong>Love-bombing Flattery</strong></li> <li><strong>"Don't Be Different"</strong></li> <li><strong>Convenient Half-Truths</strong></li> <li><strong>The "I'm Just Kidding/You're Too Sensitive" Gambit</strong></li> <li><strong>Generalizations and Cliches</strong></li> <li><strong>Smear Campaigns</strong></li> <li><strong>"The Plausability Ploy"</strong></li> <li><strong>Exploiting Vulnerabilities</strong></li> <li><strong>Playing on Your Emotions </strong></li> </ul><p><br></p><br><p>You'll find that in <a href="https://www.relationshiphelpnetwork.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">many other episodes of this podcast,</a> and on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/forrelationshiphelp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">my YouTube channel,</a> too.</p><p>Enjoy my other podcast, Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show, <a href="http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>, or wherever you like to find your podcasts.</p><br><p>Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, <strong>grab my</strong></p><p><strong>FREE EBOOK, How to Spot a Hijackal®</strong> at <a href="http://hijackals.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Hijackals.com</a> . 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