Is the Secret to Love, Sex?




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Summary: <br> <br> Is the secret to Love, Sex? This week on Mindset Transformation Radio Podcast, I interview Love Coach James Green. James answers the question "Is Sex the most important factor in a relationship? Tune in to find out the answer. <br> <br> So, let me ask you. What do you think is the most important factor in a relationship? In my research for this interview. I found this article<br> on the secret to a long marriage. Hint it was not Sex! <br> <br> Secret to a long Marriage<br> A couple was celebrating their golden wedding anniversary. Their domestic tranquility had long been the talk of the town. A local newspaper reporter was inquiring as to the secret of their long and happy marriage. "Well, it dates back to our honeymoon," explained the man. "We visited the Grand Canyon and took a trip down to the bottom on the canyon by pack mule. We hadn't gone too far when my wife's mule stumbled. My wife quietly said, 'That's once.' We proceeded a little further and the mule stumbled again. Once more my wife quietly said, 'That's twice.' Hadn't gone a half- mile when the mule stumbled the third time. My wife quietly removed a revolver from her pocket and shot the mule dead. I started to yell at her for her treatment of the mule when she looked at me and quietly said 'That's once." <br> Lol. Hope you had a good laugh.<br> <br> But in all seriousness. We have heard the phrase " A Happy wife a happy life" <br> Here is <a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/3825574/whats-the-secret-to-a-long-happy-marriage-ask-this-alberta-couple-married-79-years/" target="_blank">another article</a> about a couple married 79 years. <br> <br> “Just want you to know that you’re still the one I would choose. Still the one I give my heart to, still the one I love.”<br> <br> So, what’s their secret?<br> <br> “To support one another, whatever the problems may be, good or bad. Stick together. That’s about it,” Bertha said.<br> <br> “You know why this lasted 79 years? She has the last word,” Dan added with a smile.<br> <br> Let me introduce my guest this week: <br> <br> James is a certified Love and Emotional Intelligence coach. His mission is to teach people how to love themselves as well as love each other. James specialty is Relationship and Personal Development Coaching. <br> <br> Show notes: <br> 1. Question 1: Tell us of your journey to become a Love and emotional Intelligence coach. Do you have a personal story that made you specialize in this field? <br> <br> I was a single parent and realized that when looking for a mate, I had to look for someone who would fit into my lifestyle as a single father. The woman had to accept me and my son as a package deal. That made me look at factors other than Sex. <br> As far as my journey to becoming a Love and Emotional intelligence coach, I found I had the aptitude to reach people. People opened up to me. I remember once standing in the line at McDonald's and this man in line started talking to me telling me his story. I decided to get my certification as a Life Coach <br> 2. Question 2: How does emotional intelligence fit into the relationship dynamics?<br> Emotional Intelligence is the ability to hear what your partner is not saying. It is the ability to realize that when your partner says Fine, I am okay with that. for example. She is not fine with that, from her tonality or her body language. <br> Another facet of emotional intelligence is the ability to keep your cool and not fly off the handle at the slightest provocation. <br> <br> 3. Question 3: What problems do find are the most common and how do you coach your clients to solve them? <br> I find Trust, Communication and the inability to seek out coaching until after they start experiencing problems.<br> <br> <br> Couples tend to think that coaching is not needed until there is a huge problem in their relationship and when I...