Summary: <p><strong>When you have a #Hijackal® parent, you tend to model their traits, or be set up to be the unwitting "prey" for other predators like them. Having a #Hijackal parent can turn you into "Hijackal Bait." Hijackals are attracted to you, and you are attracted tot hem.</strong></p><br><p>Why? Because they seem so familiar. You feel somehow comfortably uncomfortable with them...at least for the first while.</p><br><p>Having a Hijackal parent often means that you become <strong>the Golden Child</strong> in the family, the one who can do no wrong. Or,<strong> the Scapegoa</strong>t, the one who can do nothing right.</p><br><p>It's important to <strong>realize the potential pitfalls for life</strong> and relationship that having a Hijackal parent set you up to take. It certainly wasn't your fault, and you did not create. It's important, though, to recognize what actually happened to you.</p><br><p>Today's episode gives you some insights into this.</p><br><p><strong>Read the highlights below, and listen in.</strong> Subscribe so you'll receive every episode to help you stay clear about what is really going on.</p><br><p>--------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>I WANT TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT!</p><p>If you <strong>want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships</strong>. Join my Optimize Circles now.</p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now. <a href="http://optimizecircles.com/" target="_blank">OptimizeCircles.com </a> Only $5 for the first month at any level.</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li><strong>Insights into motives of toxic parents</strong></li> <li><strong>What you may not realize about your upbringing</strong></li> <li><strong>Why #Hijackals must make you wrong</strong></li> <li><strong>Why you might take on too much blame in life</strong></li> </ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want to work with Dr. Shaler? </strong><a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join" target="_blank"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><br><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p><strong>Website: </strong><a href="http://transformingrelationship.com/" target="_blank">TransformingRelationship.com</a></p><p><strong>Podcasts: </strong><a href="http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/" target="_blank">RelationshipHelpNetwork.com</a></p><p><strong>Facebook: </strong><a href="https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor" target="_blank">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>Twitter: </strong><a href="https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler" target="_blank">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn: </strong><a href="https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler" target="_blank">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Instagram: </strong><a href="https://instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler" target="_blank">Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Pinterest: </strong><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor" target="_blank">Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><br><p><strong>YouTube</strong>: <a href="https://youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp" target="_blank">YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><br><p>#narcissisticparent #Hijackalparent #toxicparents #toxicparenting</p><p>#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest </p><p>Support this show <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist">http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist</a>.</p><br><hr><p style="color:grey;font-size:0.75em;"> See <a style="color:grey;" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://acast.com/privacy">acast.com/privacy</a> for privacy and opt-out information.</p>
