Summary: I recently asked some people to explain the difference between being judgmental and being selective. I received dozens of different answers. Some people said that being selective is milder, more logical, less emotional, or more practical than being judgmental. Others felt they were just different words to describe the same thing. And still others had their own unique takes on the differences. However you differentiate these labels, they’re variations on the underlying theme of observing and evaluating. Once you make an evaluation, whether you prefer to call it judging or selecting or something else, you can make decisions based on your evaluations. This allows you to choose between different options, which is especially helpful when you can’t explore every option available to you. - Steve http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2012/08/judging-vs-creating/
