Summary: If you are the spouse who has been hurt - or the spouse who did the hurting - there are key principles for building trust again in your relationship.<br><br><br>The hurt spouse often feels anger, pain, fear, doubt, anxiety, and helplessness.<br><br><br>The spouse who did the hurt often feels remorse, guilt, fear, desire, and helplessness.<br><br><br>Sometimes the spouse who did the hurt wants the other spouse to forgive and forget rapidly...let's just get beyond this as fast as we can.<br><br><br>Often the hurt spouse needs to talk about the pain, the fear of what might happen again, and to be reassured in many ways.<br><br><br>Are there ways to rebuild the trust? Yes. Does it require work? Yes. <br><br><br>Will there be questions that must be answered? Absolutely. Are there some questions which should not be answered? Absolutely.<br><br><br>In this program we'll guide you through a process to know what do do, which questions to ask and answer, which ones to avoid, and how to overcome the fear that the hurt will happen again.<br><br><br>You may call in your questions or comments during the program (646-378-0424) or email in advance to <a href="mailto:AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com">AskJoe@MarriageHelper.com</a>
