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How to stop being needy and insecure. You know that this is not a healthy habit and when you start doing this in a relationship is when things will get rocky in your relationship.[

How to get a girls number! In this video, I talk about how to get a girls number. I encourage you to use this video before you approach a woman or ask her for your number. This video is intended to MOTIVATE you and ENCOURAGE you to go after what you want! Picking up girls and how to approach women is scary but if you use these tips and have the right mindset you will have more success then ever!LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ONLINE DATING RESULTS FOR MEN]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/onlineresultsformen[MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE -AUDIO SEMINAR]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/masteryourconfidence[OVERCOME NEEDINESS & ATTACHMENTS]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/OvercomeNeedinessSeminar[HOW TO TEXT A WOMAN AND BOOST ATTRACTION]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-text-a-woman[FREE EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[FREE MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti© 2019 Apollonia Ponti. All rights reserved. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Just because I condemn infidelity does not mean I condone it. I’m here to give you some understanding around something that happens in so many of our lives. I’ve always tried to understand “why” infidelity because it affects so many people in so many ways and in this video I hope I give you some better understanding and clarity as of why. Infidelity these days has increased in so many ways because people sometimes cannot even get a grasp on what it means or why. What I mean by this is infidelity in the older times used to be your partner sleeping with someone else or possibly having an emotional affair. But now with social media, dating apps and porn we wonder if this person is cheating with these new platforms in our days today. Here’s what I’ve come to understand in my years of teaching people about healthy relationships and how to have one. Since fidelity is something we always question as we try to link it to something. Well, she was just trying to be nice. Well, she forgot to delete her dating app, well she just talked to him or her on social media, and so much more. The underlining thing here is if it’s a secret in your relationship then this is infidelity! If you have a secret then to keep a secret is organized and structured way to do this. In order to keep a secret from your partner then you have to invoke time to provoke yourself from not getting caught. You know, I’ve seen so many people say I cheated, I don’t know why but I still love my partner. Some times people cheat because they are longing to re-connect with something different within themselves. This is not to condone but again this is what I’ve seen. Especially in clients that have the disease of addiction. See, sometimes it’s not about them wanting to leave the person that they are with but that they want to leave the person that they have become. Again, this is why openness and communication as relationships progress is necessary because you constantly change as the world evolves because you evolve. If you hold this in from your partner you go in search to leave the person you’ve become in order to feel a sense of re-connection with yourself or sometimes fantasy and this fantasy can last a while. That’s why it's so important to bring all of you into a relationship even when you’re evolving and not hold back.LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ONLINE DATING RESULTS FOR MEN]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/onlineresultsformen[MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE -AUDIO SEMINAR]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/masteryourconfidence[OVERCOME NEEDINESS & ATTACHMENTS]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/OvercomeNeedinessSeminar[HOW TO TEXT A WOMAN AND BOOST ATTRACTION]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-text-a-woman[FREE EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[FREE MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti© 2019 Apollonia Ponti. All rights reserved. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

How to find your purpose! In todays podcast I give you 6 methods today to start to try to find your purpose. I believe everyone is born with a purpose. This can be a calling that you received at a young age or something that has developed over time. When you live life purposefully you have an abundance of love and happiness that comes to you. Living purposefully helps you in all areas of your life including your relationships which I talk about in todays podcast.LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Here are the top 4 signs to focus on. I want to be clear here. You have to observe her behaviors and it might not be all of them but see how she acts around you in regards to these 4 signs.#1 Becomes physical and compliments you. She finds ways to touch you and she will notice new things about you. Especially if you changed your wardrobe she will compliment and be able to notice these new things. She will also give you longer eye contact than normal. #2 She asks a lot of questions about you. Meaning non-surface level questions about who you are as an individual. She will ask about your goals and your future. She will ask you about your values and your relationship with your family. Typically she will also talk about a relationship with you and she will want to see what you like to do in your free time and your idea of what you want in the future. When it comes to women we want to form an emotional connection with men. This is what drives our attraction sexually and mentally. So how can you make her feel? #3 She starts doing things for you. She starts doing little things for you to take some stress or things off your plate. So she will try to help you with things that she can continue to just as much as you should do. She will help you with things that are goals in your life. She will be your cheerleader. This is called acts of service. #4 She compliments you. She will notice new things that you changed and will compliment the way you are naturally when you show up in life. A woman that is an extrovert finds it easy to compliment men but a woman that is introvert will be a little less open about this. She wants you to know she's interested. When a woman compliments you never reject it own the compliment and say thank you. I see so many men rejecting compliments and this deflects confidence away from you. It shows slight insecurities. So when someone gives you a compliment just simply say thank you and smile. :) LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionSigns she likes you! In this video, I give you signs that she likes you. But I break down the signs that she likes you. I give you 3 signs of what women do and 3 signs of what women say. How to tell if a girl likes you is by following these 6 signs.#1 signs a girl likes you is she will want to spend more time with you. Typically ask her to do something after the date to see if she is wanting to spend more time with you.#2 does she like me? If she gives you longer eye contact are physchology signs she likes you especially with a smile.#3 She will as you in-depth questions is how to know if she likes you. and signs she likes you body language. So the deeper the relationship gets then the deeper the questions should be.#4 She likes you if she talks about your future and her future with you. To see if your values are aligned.#5 She will want to plan a trip together. This is big in the attraction process and this is a great way to figure out how you want to be in this relationship.#6 She will voice that she wants your time. If you ask " is she attracted to me" the see how much she wants you to call her or reach out to her through text. This is an important sign to pay attention to because a woman will want to talk to you more if she is into you.Remember, not all women will be able to give you these signs so that's why it's important that you have the right conversations and take your time getting to know eachother as the signs of attraction will come to you as the relationship progresses. When you start to force relationships is when things get confusing and you run into issues and questions of why things aren't going the way you want it to. So, pacing yourself and letting the both of you give 50/50 in the relationship in the beginning. If you choose to pursue more then that's your choice but remember not to lose yourself in the process.LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionHow to get a woman addicted to you forever! This video is meant to give you lasting results. I also give you a practice that I have never seen before. This is a practice that I use for plenty of my students including you. This is how to get a girl addicted to you. It comes down to self-dignity! How you carry yourself and your self-dignity. This is the #1 thing to remember and I break this down for you in this video and I show you how to attract a girl and how to get a woman to want you. Everyone is different and the one word that gets her addicted is self-dignity but it's up to you to figure out what this means to you. I could give you answers but you have the tools in you to figure this out. This is how to get a woman to fall in love with you because you completely love yourself. How to get a girl to fall in love is about having clear boundaries of what this all means. I want you to be able to build the attraction towards the woman you have in your life now or a woman that you have in your future. It's not about playing these back and forth games of not calling her or disappearing it's about valuing who you are as a human and understanding that you have a lot to offer someone so they have to do the same.A lot of today's world comes from a lack of self-worth and when two people come together with this lack it can cause a very toxic and confusing relationship. Being honest and open with who you are and not being ashamed of that is the answer to everything. Just continue to respect yourself and others around you and love will show up for you! I welcome your comments about this practice as I love hearing from you. What did you come up with? Comment below with what your values are and how you put yourself first when it comes to self-love. LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionWhat women find attractive in a man. I give you traits that women love by interviewing thousands of women and also doing some investigation work when I am out on the field with a client. I really did my homework on this one.Trait #1: Leadership skills is how to attract women because you can come off busy. What women find attractive in men is seeing that he has a busy life because he is doing this that fulfills him.Trait #2 : You're passionate about something. What women find attractive is when you talk about your passion and do it! This lights up a fire within you and screams positivity.Trait #3 : You don't know you're hot. What women want is not cocky but they want confident. It's pretty nice to know a man isn't always about his looks.Trait #4 : You're opinionated. What girls find attractive in guys is when he is opinionated in your beliefs and conversations. You always communicate in a respectful manner because you hold yourself to a standard.Trait #5 : You take things slow. Things women find attractive is when you take steps to getting to know her and not lead head first and dive in right away. So you might ask, what do women find attractive in men. Well, its when you are decisive and you know when to lead.Trait #6 : He is decisive. What girls find attractive is when a man can give a woman options but make a decision when it comes to how to move forward and where and when you want to set a date. This shows a lot of power.Trait #7: Your stylish and put together. You have to know with what you are comfortable with and dress nicely for her so it shows effort as this is how you build attraction.Trait #8 Talks in a deep voice.Trait #9 They have a beard or 5 o'clock shadow.Trait # 10 Get a dog! This is a slam dunk! What girls find attractive is a man with a dog.Trait #11: Educate her and open up challenges to learn more.Trait #12: He owns his lacks which is how to build attraction.Trait #13: He wears nice socks!Trait: 14: Your smell is key when it comes to attraction. It leaves a memory of you.Trait #15: Your hands.Trait #16 You're adventurous. You task risk and seek adventure!Trait #17 Respects HIMSELF and OTHERS!LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia Ponti See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionHow to stop being needy and insecure. You know that this is not a healthy habit and when you start doing this in a relationship is when things will get rocky in your relationship.[AUDIO SEMINAR- OVERCOME NEEDINESS & INSECURITIES]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/Overco...When your needy in a relationship this just pushes the woman away and she starts to lose respect for you. There is a difference between being affectionate and needy. Let's make that clear. Neediness comes from your attachment to another to validate your own self-worth.Stop being needy by working on your self-confidence when your dating. Relationships bring out the things that we are hiding. Relationships are our biggest lessons and if you're wondering on how to stop being clingy then start being aware of your actions when you are with her.If you are putting this woman on a pedestal then this is why your asking yourself "why am I needy" and how to not be insecure. If you continue to put someone on a pedestal then you become insecure because you start to idolize another.When you wonder how to not be insecure of how to stop feeling needy and insecure or how to stop being needy in a relationship then its time that you focus on the things that you have going on in your life. Sometimes we forget about everything else we have going on in our lives and focus just on her. This is when you will start to go through a downhill spiral. You have to keep the focus on you.At the end of the day if your not happy how do you think that you're going to make a woman happy. This is a big reason why you may .be asking yourself "how to not be insecure." In this video, I give you # POWERFUL TIPS! That will change your life.I also give you tips on what to do if you are trying to get a relationship back because of you being too needy or insecure.LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia PontiGood For You by THBD https://soundcloud.com/thbdsultanCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b...Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-K_YSjqKgvQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionIs she using me? This video will give you 100% clarity that she may be if you can relate to any of these signs that a girl is using you. These dating tips I share with you about signs a girl is using you are meant for you to explore deeper on the relationship that your in now and put a stop to this once and for all. It's not the best feeling to ask yourself "am I being used?" I know! So my goal is for you not to have to go through this again. I will show you how to tell if someone is using you and answer your questions. "Why am I being used by women. Remember if you detect signs that a girl is using you then move on quickly!If a woman is not giving you effort then this is the first thing to recognize.Tip #1 - You have to pay for everything and it has to go her way all the time. If you're continuing to date her she has to show up and somewhat contribute to you in some way.Tip #2 - She avoids serious talks. She does not want to talk about her family or her friends or her feels about you. She might even give you that casual lingo.Tip #3- She only wants to do things convenient and pleasing for her.Tip #4- Challenge her on the "why"Tip #5- She does not care to know you and she does not remember important details about you.Tip #6- Body Language and does not talk about her feelings.LINKS:BLOG: IS SHE USING MEhttps://www.apolloniaponti.com/is-she...EBOOK: 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...MANUAL: 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.c...Say hi on social media:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...{PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS}https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...I hope our souls meet someday!Sincerely,Apollonia PontiLove. Dating. Relationshipshttps://www.apolloniaponti.com/Music:Good For You by THBD https://soundcloud.com/thbdsultanCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b...Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-K_YSjqKgvQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionHow to stop being the nice guy! In this video, I talk about how to be the type of nice man that does NOT get into the friend zone and can end up cultivating a passionate relationship. No more Mr Nice guy title for you! You want to be able to stick out as the respectful man and not just that nice guy title.Let's be honest that nice guy title can get pretty old and its a dreadful thing to be classified under because of that only saying nice guys finish last. So, in this scenario, you won't be finishing last anymore! So, i teach you ways on how to stick out and stop being a nice guy and instead be that respectful guy.The number one thing on why nice guys finish last is because they aren't great at stating their opinion and they don't know how to stop being a nice guy and start to set boundaries for themselves. So, that is the reason why they say nice guys finish last. It's important as a man you voice your opinion and also draw the line when you are not respected so you don't get taken advantage of. So, stop being the nice guy and follow what I say in this video and you will be on your way to dating and having control of the outcome..It’s about how you set the boundaries of being a nice guy that woman want. There are two different types of nice men. Ones that fall into the friend zone and ones that get that relationship with a woman that desires and respects them..Watch this video if you find it difficult to get what you want from a woman.::

an ApolloniaPonti.com productionHow to get a woman to think about you non-stop! In this video, I am going to show you how to make a woman think about you. This starts with the emotional connection that you are able to connect with her. An emotional connection does not mean that you get over emotional and talk about your deepest desires. The emotional connection means show her that you are the guy that she wants. So the time you spend with her is very important to the attraction phase. Make this time fun, light, and make your presence known. Also, this is how to get a woman to think about you all the time. So this video is going to be about how to get a girl to think about you and for her to continue to think about you once you are in that stage of spending time together and now you want her to think about you!Tip #1: Do not be predictable! This is the most important. You want to show an imbalance so she knows that she still has to attract you that she still has some work to do. Meaning if you text her good morning or good night all the time they don’t do it too much anymore. See if she starts. Also, don’t respond too early to her text. Make her wait and get excited to see your name pop up on her phone. This is how you make a woman want you and how to make her like you.Tip #2: Be mysterious. Let her wonder what you are doing. Do not post everything that you are doing every single second like what you are eating for dinner where you are for happy hour instead post things less if you are active on social media. Also being mysterious means temporarily disappearing. You don’t want to disappear for too long but disappear long enough where it gets her wondering what you are up to. So if it takes you a whole day to reply to her morning text and then at night you finally text back say this. “ I’ve had such a busy day! I hope your day was great. I am going to head to bed as I have a long day tomorrow. Talk soon and goodnight.” This message shows her she is not your priority and women love this! This is how to get her thinking of you and this is what to do when a girl likes you. They see you have a life that you love and it shows stability. Which leads me to 3.Tip #3: Do this a couple times. Not just once. There are some dating coaches that will tell you to go off the radar for three days but let's be honest if this woman is attractive and has her pick she isn’t going to be turned on by this because it just seems shady. You just have to pop in and out! But on your terms, because you are so busy. Keep this up for about 3 days. Once you start engaging in conversation she is going to be thinking about what you are really doing? She might think things like was he with another girl, what is he doing that he is so invested in that he isn’t giving me the time of day. This stands out from what other men are doing! Remember you want to be less predictable during this time which enhances her attraction. I mean most of the time this girl might even say “ when am I going to see you again” when you reach back out to her.So tip #4 Making the plans after being busy. When you start chatting with her again just let her know you’ve been busy with work but also focus the conversation on what she has been up to because you do not want to fully answer her questions. Once you do this schedule something with her eventually and not right away. Why? The time that passes will get her excited to see you again. That time is critical to the attraction phase. Say something like” hey I am busy the next two days but have some time on Friday. Would you like to grab a drink then.”?I encourage all my clients to do this. Do not become a text messaging buddy make sure your text messages are simple, to the point and close-ended most of the times.LINKS:[ PRIVATE COACHING SESSIONS ]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/privat...[ EBOOK ] 7 COMMON MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN ATTRACTING A WOMANhttps://apolloniaponti.clickfunnels.com/free-e-book-7-common-mistakes-men-make[MANUAL] 20 QUESTIONS TO ASK A WOMAN TO GET TO KNOW HER TRUE SELFhttps://www.apolloniaponti.com/20-deep-questions-for-her[SOCIAL MEDIA]Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/apollonialov...Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_p...[CONTACT ME]https://www.apolloniaponti.com/read-me/Apollonia PontiGood For You by THBD https://soundcloud.com/thbdsultanCreative Commons — Attribution 3.0 Unported— CC BY 3.0http://creativecommons.org/licenses/b...Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-K_YSjqKgvQ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.