10 Minutes to Save Your Marriage

James couldn't get to a listener question this week (don't ask), so he and Dr. Steve discuss how to survive the Shelter in Place. The hosts provide some good tips and ensuing discussion, as they want their listeners to stick around and continue to enjoy life!

Good question this week - a mother writes in and asks about if her two young boys (sons/brothers) should share a bedroom. One son has some personality variables which may make it difficult, but overall it seems mom and dad have a difference of opinion about how to proceed. James and Dr. Steve go both pragmatic and emotion-based in their advice, but give a concerned mother some direction.

A listener writes in and asks if there is anything she can do to ease the couples' current issue: her husband is going to go away to college, for at least one year. James and Dr. Steve break down the problem, and offer different pieces of advice -- see if you agree, as we guide this couple into a tough transition.

A listener writes in with a problem we haven't talked about yet on this show: He works in a special needs facility, and during the COVID furlough, he is getting harrassed via phone by one of the residents. He asks for advice, as his supervisor did not seem to provide any guidance. James and Dr. Steve approach from different directions on this one, but give some good pointers.

Our 100th episode!!! And not a moment too soon... The question this week is quite topical, as the hosts discuss marital quarantine -- how to keep things safe, sane, and stable during SO much time together. Listen, laugh, and learn and a psychologist and a comedy writer chat about this important topic.

A listener writes in amidst the coronavirus quarantine, and asks how to keep from being around her parents so much. She's not currently living with them, but is beginning to feel their visits take a toll on her. James and Dr. Steve give advice that seems practical, and also helps spare the feelings of all involved.

A listener writes in with a bit of an unorthodox question for the show: She's about to play Dungeons & Dragons with her children, and wants to know how to be the best Dungeon Master she can! Clearly up James' alley, he takes point on this reply, but Dr. Steve discusses fostering imagination and creativity through the art of story-telling.

A listener writes in to say that she had a difficult decision to make -- and it is affecting her marriage. She was the boss to a good friend of her husband, and had to fire the friend. Now she doesn't know how to proceed, as it has created stress in their private life. James and Dr. Stev (of course!) have thoughts -- listen and see if ours match YOURS!

A listener writes in because he feels uncomfortable about an aspect of his new girlfriend: her name! Exactly the same as an ex of his, and he's wondering if there is a way to make this easier in his mind. James and Dr. Steve do what they do best: give some practical advice, despite each other!

A young listener writes in for some advice: He was politely rejected by a girl when he asked her to prom -- but wants to pursue a possible romantic relationship with her in the future. James and Dr. Steve weigh in... and seem to be on the same page with this one...

A listener writes in and asks a basic question: How do I go about finding a GOOD therapist? And while this is basic on the surface, the process can be tricky... and frustrating. James and Dr. Steve give some pointers, and try to direct ALL listeners in the right direction, should their situation ever call for a good therapist.

A male listener writes in and reports that his wife waits a full 20 seconds before responding to his statements or questions. He asks what we think about it, and we (of course) rise to the challenge! See if you agree with us, and what YOU would tell this listener.

A listener writes in this week, and mentions she is struggling with a decision to move out of the area her husband grew up in -- because she keeps running into ex-girlfriends of his... There is a complicating factor -- he loves it there! Listen along as James and Dr. Steve break down the problem, and offer some practical advice!

A frustrated listener writes in and asks for advice regarding the sexual part of his marriage. It seems he and his wife have been trying for years to get pregnant, up to and including rounds of IVF. Well, his wife is now grieving, and the sexual side of the relationship has suffered greatly. Steve gives practical advice, and James plays devil's advocate, as we try to help this couple move forward and remain satisfied in the marriage.

A listener writes in because she and her husband are struggling with the decision to have him quit his job and stay home with the kids. She is worried about his mental health after undergoing such a change... and James & Dr. Steve take very different approaches to responding! See who you agree with, as parenting sometimes requires difficult life decisions!