Christian Advice for Single Christians Podcast

Are you in a codependent  dating relationship? Whether you are a Christian single or not,  codependent relationships can happen to anyone. What qualifies for a codependent relationship?  If you are in a codependent relationship you will feel like  that famous 60’s song line: ” Can’t live, if living is without you…” In addition to those feelings, another sign of a codependent relationship in dating is that the one or both daters will be seeking constant approval from the other, and feel worthless if they don’t receive it.  Having a codependent relationship means that you feel you cannot live without this person and seek constant approval towards you actions. Avoiding Codependent Relationships If you are a single Christian interested in avoiding codependent relationships, try the following: * Allow for time away from your date in order to develop your own self worth and value.  If you have to spend every waking hour with the other person, you are in a codependent relationship. * Never stay in a dating relationship out of fear of being alone * Never stay in a relationship with someone who has struck you…even once. People stay in abusive dating relationships due to codependency. * Allow your closest friends and family members to objectively examine whether you are with the other person because you “want to” or because you “need to”. If you are in a dating relationship with that other Christian single person because of the latter, this is a codependent dating relationship, and needs to be terminated if you wish to avoid future pain. Overall, codependent relationship are always  unhealthy, and impede personal and interpersonal growth. However, if you practice the above points, you will go a long way toward avoiding a painful codependent relationships. Christian Dating Advice Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Don’t you just love that title? I do. Christian dating without losing your brain. Now there’s a novel thought. How many Christian dating singles have acted irrationally in pursuit of their perfect date? From Christian single girls who date bad guys, to dating mistakes by both guys and girls, it seems many need a little help in this area. And it’s especially the case with internet dating. Well. here’s some good news: in our Christian dating podcast of the month, Pastor Bob Gibson, of the Vineyard Church in Ithaca, NY, delivers a message entitled, you guess it, Christian Dating Without Losing Your Brain. Enjoy! Oh yeah, this Christian dating message has a musical intro of 40 seconds, so be patient.

Who can forget that first kiss? Remember? I know some of us have yet to experience that first kiss but be patient. A first kiss is well worth the wait if done at the right time, place and way. Many unbelievers and not a few single Christian singles may be surprised to find first kiss tips in the Bible. Fact is one of the most romantic love songs ever, the Song of Solomon, speaks about the thrill of that first kiss and the first signs of attraction between and man and a woman. Listen, you can never go wrong if you follow the Lord’s way to kissing and romance. First Kiss Tips Podcasts Our church singles podcast of the week, “The Adventure of Attraction and the First Kiss” comes from Emmanuel Baptist Church in Danville, Kentucky (KY). I hope you enjoy this biblical message on kissing and attraction. By the way Christian Dating Service Plus! now has a FREE singles forum where you can connect for fellowship, penpals and more. We set up the forum where you can send started it this week so get in on the ground floor now by registering and filling out yopersonal messages or just post whatever you want, including first kiss tips…LOL. We justur profile with text and a pic and introducing yourself in the forum. Remember you are 14 times more likely to get contacted back with a picture. Enjoy! Have first kiss tips for single Christians? Christian-Dating Service

Know any Christian single sex addicts? Perhaps they may need sex addicts anonymous? Fact of the matter is if we believe what George Barna writes about the sexual practices of Christians, there are probably many sex addicts in the church who could use a good sex addicts anonymous small group. .For crying out loud, a few years back Focus on the Family estimated that 25% of Christian ministers were sex addicts, addicted to stuff like internet porn and masturbation. Many of these folks have suffered in much pain, shame and guilt, feeling they had no where to dump the burdens of their hearts. Sex Addicts and Christian Singles The great thing about a Christian singles site is that many can share their deepest sex secrets without worrying that they will be scorned. It’s a sad and despicable thing that most churches don’t provide this kind of environment, but just sweep the topic of sex addicts under the rug, making believe the problem is not even in existence. This behavior only encourages singles to hide their own desperate state instead of seeking help in a sex addicts anonymous program. If we as a church really want to shine for Jesus, we need to be transparent to the world, scars and all. Let it all hang out (no pun intended) and let people see what God’s amazing forgiveness and grace is all about. Having dabbled in pornography myself I am familiar with the vicious cycle of the sex addict: Excitement-Guilt-Despair, but also of the way to victory in this area that is literally eating the heart and soul out of the next generation of single Christians. Sex Addicts Christian Podcast Our Christian podcast on sex addicts breaks the mold of what we usually find in most churches and I am thankful for men of God like Pastor Steve Nicholson, of the Vineyard Christian Church of Evanston Illinois (IL) for his sharing. This message on this difficult topic will be sure to help many singles languishing alone in their pain and loneliness. Sex Addicts Signs Are you a sex addict? Rate yourself on these questions: * Do you feel like you’ve lost the ability to control your sex life (went over boundary lines you know you should not have, unable to stop sexual acting out even though you confessed them to God and made promises to Him)? * Is your risky sexual behavior causing your life to be effected negatively in other areas of like health, work, church, present relationships or the law * Do you obsess or dwell over sexual activity even when you try not to? * Do you keep secrets about your sex life fom the closest people in your life? Or would you say you are living a double life? If you answered yes to any of the above you need help for a possible sexual addiction. Related to sex addicts: * Great Sex Tips for Christians * Sex Confessions * Homosexuality, the Bible and Singles * Self Control and the Single Christian Life * Sex as Intimate Communication *

Wondering how to be rich? Did you know Christian singles  worry more about money than relationships? That’s crazy but true.   In most Christian dating relationships, money issues can cause lots of problems!  Even if we try not to worry about money, it can still find a way to sneak into many different areas of our lives to create stress and even cause relationship problems. How to Be Rich as Singles Podcast  This week our speaker speaks out of 1 Timothy – the first week of a series called “How To Be Rich”  Whether you are  a Christian single in a Christian dating relationship, or married, you will find this weeks message to be encouraging and helpful.  The most important thing to remember is that with Christ, you are rich and financial problems or not, He will provide you with everything you need and more!  It’s all about letting go and putting your trust in Him alone! Christian  Podcasts For Christian dating articles, advice, and online dating service reviews check out  Christian Dating Service

Are you a single woman seeking a man? Many single women are seeking a man for a serious Christian dating relationship leading toward marriage. There is certainly no lack of Christian relationship advice out there for single women seeking a man. But doesn’t it make sense that one of the first logical steps for attracting the right guy to date would be understanding what Christian guys actually need and want in a wife? Single Woman Seeking Man Podcast Some people feel the best way to man’s heart is not just food; but to understand what exactly a man is looking for in a relationship. In other words to find his love language. In today’s Christian podcast, from Concord Baptist Church in St. Louis, Missouri (MO), Pastor Bob Werner brings a message entitled, “What Men Want.” This is some good advice for both Christian single men and single women seeking a man. Are you a Christian single with advice for single women seeking a man? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Lonely Holidays and singleness often go hand in hand. Are you single, lonely, and just dreading the upcoming holiday season because they are depressing? I know holidays make me feel lonely.   If you are also in this category of being single and hating the holiday season, you’re not alone. Lonely Holidays Podcast Loneliness during the holidays is tough. The following Christian podcast is our Oasis singles Christmas Eve service. It’s very apropos for those feeling lonely and sad at Christmas. The first few minutes will have a a couple of songs. The message that follows will be very encouraging to singles that struggle with a sense of failure and discouragement  during the holidays. Do you have tips to help those struggling with lonely holidays? Christian Podcasts Redeemed Singles Podcast Christian Dating  Service  

Learning how to forgive a cheater is one of the most difficult things in life. When I was a Family Court  mediator teaching how to forgive was one of the most important things we taught Yea, that includes learning how to forgive a jerk, abuser or user. Why? Learning how to forgive speeds the healing process, and prepares for future, healthy boyfriend/girlfriend dating relationships. Conversely, a lack of forgiveness brings bitterness and additional suffering. How to Forgive  a  Cheater Podcast Don Henley of Eagles fame sings about the need for forgiving and forgiveness in his song by the same name. Yet, some Christian singles simply do not want to forgive others for past hurts. Instead of making peace with the past, they prefer to hold grudges. But as our Christian podcast of the week speaker states: “Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person who hurt us gets sick.” What about those folks who want to forgive, but are confused as to what that means or how to actually forgive a past hurt? I do believe the following Church podcast on learning how to forgive a cheater will minster to you, and answer all questions in this difficult area. In closing, I would really hate to leave this topic without speaking to those who are desperate for forgiveness and are living with intense guilt. If you don’t know God offers you total forgiveness and brand new start in life, please read how you can have forgiveness and peace with Him right now. Have a forgive me poem or something to share about learning how to forgive a cheater? Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Great sex tips  for Christians anyone? I know some of you may be thinking, “Great sex tips? Why in the world is the topic ‘great Christian sex tips’ on a Christian website?” Just chill, ok? Great Sex Tips-Why Talk About It? First of all, God created sex and He wants us to enjoy it to the max in the way in which he designed it. Second, just because the world has turned something God has blessed and called good into something ugly doesn’t mean we should not broach the subject. Why let the devil and the ungodly monopolize the topic? Third, the best great sex tips are actually found between the pages of the Bible. Lastly, if only more Christian singles (and all Christians for that matter) had a forum or outlet to discuss their sexual struggles in a safe and biblical way we would have less sin and heartache in our lives and churches. Sweeping our sexual impurities under a rug leads to hypocrisy and relationship disaster. Believe me, we get dozens of poor single Christians sharing their secret sins and struggles with us because many churches refuse to confront this issue head on. How sad! Great Sex Tips Podcast Well thank God there are still some pastors who are not afraid of offending people by confronting tough issues in a biblical way. In our Church podcast of the week, Pastor Matt Keller of the Next Level Church in Fort Myers, Florida (FL) brings us some of the best great sex tips you will ever want to need to hear. Other Podcasts Related to Great Sex Tips: Dating Relationships and Sex for Singles Pornography, Nude Women and Christians Christian Sex Talk for Singles Adults dating for Sex-An American Idol Love, Sex and the Bible Sex and dating-Eros Redeemed in Christian Dating Related Articles: Sex as Intimate Communication

Christian singles can learn a bunch from this marriage builders podcast for Singles on relationships and companionship. This week, Don Neff, pastor of The Worship Center in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, speaks on marriage builders, being single and companionship in a relevant messsage that will be sure to touch the hearts of all kinds of Christian singles. This would include never been married singles in their 20s, 30s and 40s, divorced singles, desperately seeking a mate singles, Christian single parents and widowed singles. Get the picture? Marriage Builders Foundation: The Bible God considers marriage a wonderful love relationship of spiritual, emotional and physical oneness between a man and a woman. Past Neff shares marriage builder advice based on this concept, using Scriptures to back up his points. Awesome! If you have a church, singles/dating ministry site, para-church group, Christian singles group or college campus outreach, this is for you. We will help you reach more singles by podcasting your Christian singles group’s message, music or video, with a credited link back to your address. If you only have tapes or CDs, we will convert them for FREE into an MP3 format for broadcasting. For more info please feel free to contact us. Are you a single Christian with your own tips or ideas on view marriage builders? Related Articles: Marriage Builder Tips for Healthy Relationships Christian Marriage:How Singles See It Commitment Phobia and Singles Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Divorce and remarriage is a hot issue in many evangelical churches. What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? Can Christians remarry? This is a confusing issue because  many Christian singles have been through a divorce. Christian Divorce and Remarriage What are the biblical grounds for divorce anyway? Does God speak against divorce & remarriage in all circumstances? If divorce is justified in certain situations? When is dating after divorce okay? Do the rules change if you are a Christian single parent dating with kids? These are only some of the questions Christian have pertaining to this conflict. Divorce and Remarriage Podcast In our Christian dating podcast of the week, Pastor John Minnema, of Hawthorne Gospel Church in Hawthorne, NJ, tackles some of the difficult issue of divorce and remarriage, speaking out of the book of Genesis. By the way, if you have a church, singles/dating ministry site, para-church group or college campus outreach, we will help you reach more singles by podcasting your Christian singles group’s message, music or video, with a credited link back to your address. If you only have tapes or CDs, we will convert that for you into an MP3 format for broadcasting. For more info about this free service, please feel free to contact us with your thought regarding this very important topic odf Christians =, divorce and remarriage. that faces the church today. Are you a single Christian with your own view on divorce and remarriage? Please let us know Related Articles for Christian Dating Singles: Dating After Divorce Christian Singles Dating Unbelievers Dating Tip Advice: How to Spot a Dating Married Man Christian Single Moms and Dating Tips Related Reading on Divorce and Remarriage Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible-Jay Adams Remarriage after Divorce in Today’s Church-Mark Strauss, et. al Divorce and Remarriage-Curtis Hutson Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

We’ve written quite a bit about soulmate indicators, and finding the ideal soul mate. Several of our articles related to soulmate indicators would include the following, both from a negative and positive perspective: Dating Match: Are You Dating Your Match? Attracting the Right Man or Woman to Date Great Boyfriend-Girlfriend Signs Soul Mate Test-How To Make Sure You Don’t Marry a Loser Soulmate Indicators Podcast Whether you are seeking a potential mate online or not, the following Christian podcast  on soulmate indicators and recognizing your potential mate is as encouraging as it is Biblical. Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

Discovering your  Christian soulmate? Most Christian singles who visit Christian Dating Service PLUS! are interested in finding that special soulmate or dating match that will lead toward marriage.  Discovering Your Christian Soulmate Podcast Our featured Christian dating podcast this week comes from Pastor Tim at  Liquid Church,  a contemporary Christian church located in NJ. Every few days our Christian Dating Advice site broadcasts a different podcast/MP3 with Christian singles messages, music or video. This week the topic is soulmates; however, we will podcast any topic related to the Christian single life. Since we reach thousands of singles each week, let us help you expand your outreach by sending us your church’s or Christian singles group’s message, music or video. We will convert your tapes or CDs into an MP3 format, and podcast it for free over the web with a link back to your site. For more info about this, please feel free to contact us. Finally, feel free to share your comments or thoughts about soulmates. Related Articles: Benefits of Seeking a Soulmate Online Christian Podcasts  Christian Dating  Service

Many people, including Christian singles, have misconceptions about marriage. As an employee of family court who mediates with couples going through break ups, I know that misconceptions people have before marriage contribute to problems down the road in the actual marital relationship. That’s why it’s very important for singles to get a “reality check” on what marriage is all about. Today’s Christian podcast on marriage misconceptions is a great message for singles looking for a lifelong soulmate leading to marriage. Pastor Nelson Searcy, of the Journey Church in New York City, will definitely keep your interest. Enjoy! Christian Podcasts Christian Dating Service

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