The High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how sensation signals to us our internal experience and creates responses and how we can use the signals to help us learn how to discern, what to and how to respond. Enjoy!!!

In this episode brooks and Charlie discus the fractal patterning of how we are and how we think as it pertains to the continuing habits in conflict and relationships. Enjoy.

In this episode Brook and Charlie have a discussion regarding the need for less communication and being conscious of where, when and how to respond when approached by the other parent. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie complete the Trilogy about the exploration of Stories, Origins, Theirs and Ours. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie continue the trilogy of how the stories and beliefs we hold develop and express in our personal lives and during stress and conflict. This second episode is about your story. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie start a trilogy of how the stories and beliefs we hold develop and express in our personal lives and during stress and conflict. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook has a conversation with Eric Sjoberg and Tony MacAlister about Parts Work and how we can utilize internal conversations with the different aspects of self to understand activation in the system and the various stories they want to tell and the perspectives they bring to conflict both internal and external. This is a complicate system and this is an introduction to the practice. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the importance of how parents show up for their children during the high conflict situations and that they be conscious during this time to make sure they are meeting the needs of the children. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the development of core belief systems and how they drive our thinking, stories, and decision making. These belief systems are responsible for the cognitive distortions that are at the core of high conflict. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the 4th rule of Disengagement, what it means and how it works. Enjoy

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how to assess what are reasonable expectations of the other parent, partner, or others we are in relationships with. The idea that we all have the same capabilities is not true and when we have expectations that are not reasonable for the situation it is a receipt for conflict. Enjoy !!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the complications that inherently come with new partners when you are in a high conflict divorce or custody battle with the other parent. Enjoy!!!

In this episode Charlie and Brook Interview Ginger Gentile, Film Maker of the documentary Erasing Family. This documentary follows several families going through the pain of alienation and the impact on the children and the alienated parents. I shows both the separation and the healing that is possible. It points to the need for change in the Family Court System as it looks at how parenting can be shared in order to avoid much of the pain and anger caused by the Family Court System. Enjoy!!!!

In this episode Brook and Charlie have a conversation with Retired Commissioner Jeanie Lowe. They discuss a bit of the process in family court, some of the difficult situations that come up for Judges and a bit of what they go through to make some of the difficult decisions presented to them. Enjoy!!

In this episode Brook, Charlie and Tony discuss what a divorce and custody coach does and value one gets when they work with a coach. How it helps better understand the process and how to avoid the pitfalls of ignorance of the process. Enjoy!!!