Married to Doctors show

Married to Doctors

Summary: The Married to Doctors podcast pushes away the stereotypical "doctor-wife" image and is a space where people from all different backgrounds can find a community, explore solutions and share stories about the unique challenges that come from being in a relationship where medicine often feels like the extra partner. We discuss loneliness, debt, communication, romance, moving, parenting and more.  The host of Married to Doctors is Lara McElderry, a trauma surgeon's wife, who has been navigating the medical world for the last seventeen years as she’s supported her husband through medical school, residency, a specialty change, fellowship, as well as raising five boys. She hopes the podcast will inspire others to share and implement ideas for how to make successful homes happier. Thank you, subscribers, for the amazing reviews!

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Podcasts:

 #125: Creative Dating in Different Circumstances | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 43:55

Dating is good for relationships, no one argues that.  But how does dating actually look when married to medicine or living long distance?  In this episode, Lara visits with a creative couple who shows that it's possible to have fun dating even if there is limited time or long distance involved.  Thank you to this week's sponsor, Spaugh Dameron Tenny!

 #124: How to Give a Sincere Apology | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 20:04

In episode 124, Lara, podcast host, and relationship coach, shares 6 steps to help us give more affective and sincere apologies.  To see all the steps or learn more about working with Lara visit www.marriedtodoctors.com 

 #123: Resilience with Dr. Tosin Odunsi | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 38:00

In episode 123, Lara visits with Dr. Tosin Odunsi about her immigrant experience from Nigeria, the black female physician experience, her struggles with passing licensing exams, and young widowhood.  Tosin also generously shares her personal story of finding love again.  I love her example of resiliency and believe that you will as well.  For additional resources or to learn more about the show, visit www.marriedtodoctors.com 

 #122: Debts, Decisions, and Two Docs | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 38:15

In episode 122, Lara talks to Brent Lacey about his dual physician marriage, life in the navy, and avoiding debt.  They also discuss the decision for his physician wife to choose to stay home after having a baby and Brent's desire to educate physicians on the benefits of private practice. 

 121: It's My Turn | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 35:59

In episode 120, Lara talks to Holly Mesarch about taking time for ourselves, taking turns in a marriage, asking for help, and recovering after a difficult time. Holly Mesarch has a life-long passion for music, both in teaching and performing arts, and delights in sharing that with others. For over a decade she has maintained both a voice and a piano studio in four major cities. She currently resides in El Paso with her husband, five sons, the family cat, and the family's newest addition: the puppy. 

 120: Facing Death at Work, Then Life at Home | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 30:57

In episode 120, Lara talks with her husband, Josh, about the amount of death he sees in his work as a trauma surgeon and how/if it affects their marriage and family. 

 #119: Does Being Married Mean Losing My Identity? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 30:18

Anya Groner, a successful writer and teacher, shares her thoughts about the importance of pursuing her passion and maintaining her personal identity while being married to a physician. Anya also reads her essay, “Is There a Doctor in the Marriage?” that was published in the New York Times in 2015.

 #118: How to Develop Your Independence when Married to a Doctor | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 33:02

In this episode, we discuss independence and swap travel stories during the holidays.

 #117: Embracing the Realities of Being Married to a Doctor | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 48:14

To join today's coaching call visit: https://coursesandcoaching.marriedtodoctors.com/admin/courses/674641/information In this episode (replay), Lara talks with Donna Rovito, editor of Physician Family Magazine, who shares some of her experiences of being in a medical marriage for over 30 years and how the medical profession has evolved over time.  Lara and Donna also discuss the importance of support for physician spouses and the best marriage advice Donna says she ever received.

 #116: At the Hospital for the Holidays | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 34:21

Episode 116 of the Married To Doctors podcast explores how to enjoy the holidays when your loved one is at the hospital. We talk about prioritizing how we spend our time, choosing traditions, and finding what works for your family.

 #115: Helping Your Loved One When Patients Die | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 45:48

Rachel Giger is a Certified End of Life Coach who specializes in working with Physicians & First Responders who want to change their narrative surrounding death & dying. Rachel has a heart to serve those who serve on the Frontlines of Health Care & Emergency Response.  Rachel can be reached at rgccoaching.com and you can also find her at www.rgccoaching.com Visit www.marriedtodoctors.com for the loneliness workbook or the next free coaching call!

 #114: Three Reasons Positive Thinking Doesn't (Always) Work | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 26:20

Well-meaning suggestions like “find the bright side” or “count your blessings” are not always appropriate and can fall flat for at least three reasons. So, here are 3 things to take into consideration if you are going to Think Positively Without Kidding Yourself.  1. The Timing 2. The New Thought Isn’t Believable 3. The Circumstance is Not Neutral  Join me for a free discovery call on Dec. 19th. Visit www.marriedtodoctors.com for details.

 #113 Gift Etiquette During The Holidays | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 25:09

Lara discusses gift etiquette do’s and dont’s for physicians and their spouses with Karen Hickman, a social etiquette expert and nationally recognized speaker and writer who was married to a physician for many years. For more on life-coaching or to register for the free life coaching visit www.marriedtodoctors.com

 #112: Getting Motivated to Pay Off Debt with A Doc. A Debt. And Me. | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 31:43

In this episode, Lara talks with Jodi from A Doc. A Debt. And Me. about their journey to become debt free and what motivated them to aggressively tackle their debt from medical school and residency. There are still free 20 minute coaching sessions available with Lara before the end of the year!  Email lara@marriedtodoctors.com to schedule. 

 #111 How Personality Tests Can Help You And Your Marriage | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 48:03

In this episode, Lara speaks with Dr. Dawn Baker about different types of personality tests, what you can learn from them, and how they can help your marriage. For more resources or to learn about coaching with Lara visit www.marriedtodoctors.com

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