Help! I Suck at Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

Dean, Jared and Vanessa head right into the haunted house, to see why people ghost each other. Elle Huerta from the Mend app calls in to help us understand the motivations behind ghosting, and has some tips on how to end relationships in a responsible way.   And do you know what “zombie-ing”, “cushioning” and “orbiting” are?? It may be happening to you right now, so listen to find out what it is, and how to stop it!   Plus, Vanessa opens up about her future as a mother, and lets her guard down about a dilemma in her life.

Taylor Nolan is hanging out with Dean, Vanessa and Jared this week, and she’s ready to tell all about her recent break up with Derek Peth. She and Dean give an exclusive look behind the scenes of what really goes down during Paradise, and she explains the one sentence that can help anyone going through a break up.   And Jared, Dean and Vanessa get into a hot debate about leading someone on vs giving mixed signals, and what Jared was guilty of before proposing to Ashley.

Jared is deep into wedding planning, and he's here to give Dean and Vanessa a full update on the search for a venue, and opens up about how Ashley's changed since they got engaged.  Dean confronts Jared about not getting a plus one to the big day, and hear his honest thoughts on the comparison of Colton and Tia to Dean and Kristina on Paradise.  And Vanessa fills us in on the new relationship in her life, and spills all the details on the last date she went on. 

Dean is finally back after his whirlwind trip around the world! We find out the deeply personal lessons he learned about himself, and about dating while on his trip. Plus, he shares a traveling habit that will make you question everything. And then Holly Martyn stops by, to talk about how her life changed when she challenged herself to go on 100 dates across the world.

Jared and Vanessa tackle the difficult topic of how to recover from a break up, so they brought in Elle Huerta, who created the “Mend” app, which offers tools and support for people having a tough time splitting up. You have to hear some of the easy tricks she’s learned for how to beat the temptation to call an ex.   Then, Bill Freeman and Sonya Robinson from Love Story Matchmaking, call in to talk about the benefits of using a matchmaking service, and how to explore what they call “offline dating”.   And Vanessa reveals what she’s looking for in a guy she wants to date, and we find out if its ever okay to pull an ambush FaceTime.

Jared is officially in wedding planning mode, and he shares some ideas he’s had for his bachelor party, and also reveals a few of the names from Bachelor Nation that will be on his wedding guest list.  From “The Seven Year Switch” on Lifetime, Charles J. Orlando stops by to give Jared and Vanessa some valuable advice about honesty and communication in a relationship. He also shares a crazy story about going undercover on Ashley Madison, and he tells us the one line everybody should have in their dating profile.

Millionaire matchmaker Patti Stanger is back! She gives Vanessa some incredible dating advice that she desperately needs. She confronts Jared about what she heard about him from Ashley, and he fires back at Patti for saying he and Ashley don’t belong together.  Then Greg Behrendt and his wife Amiira Routola, the authors behind “He’s Just Not That Into You” stop by to talk about their new book, “How to Keep Your Marriage From Sucking”, and they offer Jared some crucial advice for his upcoming marriage. And we get a check in from Dean! All the way from Malaysia, and he shares what he’s learned about dating internationally, and he reveals if he’s been involved with anyone romantically on his trip.

Jared, who is recently engaged himself, sits down with LisaReye and Anthony, who got engaged on last night’s episode of The Proposal on ABC. They talk about what it was like to make such a huge decision after a short amount of time, and how different the dating landscape is in 2018. Then Vanessa joins in to talk about another quick proposal, from her fellow Canadian Justin Bieber. And Jared shares what upset him about Colton revealing his virginity on this week’s episode of The Bachelorette.

Jared is back after getting engaged to Ashley, and he’s got all the details on what went down, including some secret details about her ring. Dean gets Jared to spill some steamy secrets about his post engagement love life, and the guys give a behind the scenes look at the breaking news that Derek Peth and Taylor Nolan have split up. Then, they recap this week’s Bachelorette episode, and we find out if Jared and Ashley will get married on TV.

Dean and Vanessa discuss how they were blown away by Jared and Ashley’s engagement news, and we get an update on Vanessa’s love life, as well as a look into some dates that Dean has been going on. Then they sit down with human relationship exper Dr. Wendy Walsh, and she gives Dean an honest look at his “marriage readiness”. We also find out the test that Vanessa put every guy through on the first date.

Dean, Jared and Vanessa discuss the whirlwind relationship of Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson, and Jared tells us if he’s ready to take his relationship to the next level. Then they’re joined by Chelsea Leigh Trescott, a break-up expert, for some help on how to not suck at breaking up. And, after reflecting on their experiences with The Bachelor, they talk about if it’s okay to date a friend’s ex.

Dean, Vanessa and Jared talk about if you should be friends with your ex, and Dean shares his policy of blocking all his exes on social media. Then they recap the new episode of The Bachelorette, and Dean offers some inside info on the drama between Colton and Tia. And Jared shares a very intimate detail about his relationship with Ashley.

Jared opens up to Vanessa about a recent Hawaiian vacation with girlfriend Ashley. He spills all the details on the romantic getaway and the compromising position housekeeping caught them in! Author, Heather Monahan, calls in. She and the gang discuss confidence in dating, and how Vanessa can apply it to her own love life. And Dean still sucks at dating whether he lives in a small town or the big city.   

After keeping it under wraps for months, Jared talks about a huge emotional breakthrough, and tells Vanessa and Dean who he’s dating, which leaves everyone in tears Then they talk to matchmaker Kailen Rosenberg from “The Lodge Social Club” about dating apps, and opening a club for single people to meet and find love.

Jared and Vanessa learn about “Camp No Counselors”, where you can play like a kid, and party like an adult.   Then on the other side of the spectrum, venture capitalist Jesse Draper with the ultimate advice on how to avoid financial arguments when starting a new relationship.   And if you’ve ever wanted to be on The Bachelor, you won’t want to miss when Allison Kaz calls in. She’s casting a new show for Fox that’s kind of like a “grown up” version of The Bachelor. She’s looking for ladies that are sick of dating and are ready to start a family with a serious partner.