Love is like a plant

In this episode, Sarah May and Elle share their own experiences of making things official, and how to navigate the conversation even if you're scared of the outcome. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about settling: why you shouldn't settle in a relationship & how to identify if you are settling (and then what to do about it!). If you like this episode, share it with a friend and subscribe to get all our new episodes. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending! Music by Booker Hill.

Today we talk about what it means to "microcheat" and how to deal with it if it comes up in your own relationships. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about their own approaches to dating as a way of answering the common question, "What should I look for in a partner?" If you like this episode, share it with your friends and be sure to subscribe to get future episodes. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Has someone ever told you..."I just need to really focus on myself/my career/school/_____" as a reason for not moving forward in a relationship? We call this "getting their house in order" and it's the topic of today's podcast - why are some people unable to get their house in order and be in a relationship, while others are able to balance both? If you like this episode, be sure to subscribe! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Post-breakup shame is normal - know that you're not alone if you feel that sting. If you're feeling ashamed or embarrassed after your breakup, this episode will help you move through those feelings and focus on what's more important: you! If you like this episode, share it with a friend and be sure to subscribe! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Self care is IN, and for good reason. Elle and Sarah May share how they're practicing self care at the moment and how you can take care of yourself even if you feel like you don't have the time. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Love Is Like A Plant is back! We were on hiatus this fall while Sarah welcomed a new human into her life, but we are excited to be back with today's episode where we ask the question: Is it harder to leave, or be left? Elle and Sarah pull from their own experiences and talk about all of the layers of emotions involved with leaving someone. You can listen to the episode on iTunes or on Soundcloud. If you like it, be sure to share it with a friend and subscribe to get future episodes! In this episode we talk about how helpful it is to read other people's stories, and here are a few we recommend: Eat Pray Love, Elizabeth Gilbert Love Warrior, Glennon Doyle Melton Tiny Beautiful Things, Cheryl Strayed Bridget Jones' Diary, Helen Fielding The Language of Letting Go, Melody Beattie When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Self blame is a painful reality for most people after heartbreak. In today's episode, Elle and Sarah May talk about how to let go of feeling responsible for your breakup. If you like this episode, subscribe and share it with a friend you love! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, Elle and Sarah May talk about things to avoid if you want to improve the health of your relationship. If you like this podcast, be sure to subscribe, share with friends, and leave a review in iTunes. :) Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about how to let go, even, and especially, when it hurts. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave a review on iTunes!

In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about first heartbreak and why they say "the first cut is the deepest." They also give tips for how to deal, if you're experiencing your first major heartbreak. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave a review on iTunes! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Happy New Year from Elle and Sarah May!! In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, they share their New Year's rituals and how to start the year in a way that nourishes you. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave a review on iTunes! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

This episode of LILAP is for anyone who is feeling a little lonely during the holidays this year. Elle and Sarah May talk about what to do if you're solo this year, and how to thrive during the holiday season. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year from us to you! <3 Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!

Do you pay attention to red flags in relationships? Elle and Sarah May share their top red flags and what to do when they happen with someone you're seeing. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave us a review on iTunes! Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use the code PLANT, when you check out at: classes.letsmend.com. Happy Mending!