Loving and Lasting Show

Are you thinking about introducing BDSM into your bedroom? Then tune in to this episode! Popular misconceptions have prevented many people from exploring a sexual variation that is actually highly creative, cerebral, sensual, playful and oh so naughty! Dr. Charley Ferrer is a world renowned Clinical Sexologist, The FIRST Latina Doctor of Human Sexuality in the US, and an award winning author of 13 books on self-empowerment and sexuality.  She conducts workshops throughout the US, Latin America and Asia. She’s appeared on the Dr. Oz show, the Michael Basiden Show, and Fox News Latino. She’s been featured in the NY Times, Marie Clare, Cosmo and various other magazines, TV & radio stations. Dr. Charley believes in world peace through sex—if we’re all having a good love life, we wouldn’t get so annoyed with our neighbors.   Dr. Charley is hailed as America’s BDSM Expert dedicated to bringing education and understanding to this highly erotic and misrepresented lifestyle. Now if only the directors of the new 50 Shades of Grey would contact her to help represent an accurate portrayal of Dominance and submission.  You can find Dr. Charley sharing the love of self-empowerment and sexuality via her website, Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and YouTube.

“Too much of a good thing can be wonderful!”  ~ Mae West When a loving couple hits a rough patch... and when that rough patch is their sexual connection ... it's not always easy to talk about or know where to go for help. Fortunately Delilah Taylor, the Monogamous Temptress is joining Ande to share her special ingredients for keeping the intimacy and sexual activities alive and well in our long-term relationships! After saving her marriage from the brink of divorce around the 12 year mark, Delilah knew she was called to be a Love Coach.  She was so successful at restoring and revitalizing her marriage, all her friends begged her to share her super power secret ingredients! Delilah dove into studying human physiology, psychology, anatomy and human sexuality. As her passion for all aspects of love, relationships, and sexuality grew, Delilah became a certified life coach with a specialty in Relationship Coaching, as well as a certified Chakra Energy Healer and a Licensed Paramedic. Now Delilah happily shares all her sexy tips and love advice via her website, Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and YouTube.

"I feel a deep calling in my soul... to inspire passion, unity and bliss in life and love; to be a messenger for awakened sexuality." ~ Joanna Kennedy It doesn’t matter whether you’re single and trying to find “The One”... or you’ve been married for 20+ years… you CAN have juicer, more passionate, more orgasmic sex! Tune in to this episode of the Loving and Lasting Show to find out HOW! Passion and Intimacy Expert Joanna Kennedy founded the Center for Happiness, Love and Pleasure where she offers private sessions, products, and workshops that help liberate men and women to be their natural selves, have passionate sex lives, and create deeply loving relationships. Joanna dedicates her life to helping men and women take off their masks, be themselves, and remember the power and potential of love. Personally, she practices living every moment of life as an expression of love, joy, peace, and passion, while keeping a constant focus on authenticity and intimacy. You can find Joanna sharing the love of deeply connected and oh so passionate sex via her website, Facebook, Twitter and YouTube.

Unresolved anger is the #1 killer of love… and husband withdrawal is the number one cause of marital and relationship strife, divorce, and domestic violence. Known to millions as “Dr. Love” at AskDrLove.com, Dr. Jamie Turndorf is sharing advice from her recently published Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love's 10-Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship, where she focuses on how to transform conflict into connection for a lifetime of lasting love.  Published by Hay House, Dr. Jamie’s book has been endorsed by Jack Canfield, Dr. John Gray and John Bradshaw. Dr. Jamie has been delighting readers and audiences for 3 decades with her engaging blend of professional expertise, spicy humor and ability to turn clinical psychobabble into easy-to-understand concepts that transform lives and heal relationships. Her methods have been featured on all the national networks, including CNN, NBC, CBS, VH1, Fox, on websites like WebMD, iVillage, Discovery.com, MSNBC.com, and in Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, Glamour, American Woman, Modern Bride, and Marie Claire.  Dr. Jamie’s “Ask Dr. Love” radio show can be heard in Seattle on KKNW and in 80 countries worldwide. Dr. Jamie can be found sharing her relationship wisdom and love via her website, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and Google+.

“I've been in more laps than a napkin.” ~ Mae West Did you know, according to a recent survey, a woman is considered promiscuous at her 5th partner? Conversely, men are not considered promiscuous until they’ve had 25+ partners. News Flash: There are many ladies who do not feel the need to confine their natural desire for sex within a committed relationship.  Ladies and Gents: what do you think? What does promiscuity mean to you… and does the number of partners you’ve had really matter? My guest Marrie Lobel and I are pulling back the covers and busting the myths of Female Promiscuity on this episode of the Loving and Lasting Show. Please chime in with your thoughts, whether they be pure or wanton… male or female… we want to know! Marrie Lobel is a California based freelance dating, sex and relationship writer, Geekalicious creator of DirtyInPublic.com and Co-Host of Mr. n Mrs. Romance Podcast. By combining wit, wisdom, and a splash of audacity, Marrie takes pride in shattering outdated perceptions about women, stimulating open conversations, and igniting relationships between the sexes. Marrie can be found sharing the sexy love via websites and on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google+ and iTunes.

“It's not the men in your life that matters; it's the life in your men.” ~ Mae West Dr. Marc Richman is the co-founder of Obsidian Men’s Health, a premier men’s sexual-health institute where they focus on enhancing the sex lives — and thereby the overall health and well-being — of men and their partners. They offer a private-concierge experience, personally tailored to each individual’s desired level of sexual performance. They diagnose and treat with a single purpose in mind: to promote an extraordinary sex life for each of their clients. Dr. Marc is a urologist certified by the American Board of Urology, and a member of the American Urologic Association. He earned his medical degree, summa cum laude, at the State University of New York at Buffalo, where he was elected into Alpha Omega Alpha.  Dr. Marc has won an unprecedented four Pfizer Awards at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, at which he completed his general-surgery internship and residency in urologic surgery. There, he studied under the renowned Dr. Culley C. Carson, an expert in men’s sexual health. With more than 10 years’ experience diagnosing and treating men’s health, Dr. Marc has treated clients throughout the world, including a number of global leaders and dignitaries. You can learn more about Dr. Richman’s work in men’s sexual health via his website, Facebook, Twitter, and Google+.

Sexy is a state of mind, not just body! Susan Lee Miller coaches women in bringing back their inner sexy ~ their life force energy ~ so they can revel in their sexuality, be more creative and confident, have better sex and lead more sensual, juicy lives.  Susan spent a good portion of her adult life in a marriage that ended in divorce after 20 +years. At 41, Susan saw an ad for massage therapy school, signed up and became a licensed massage therapist, using the gift of touch to help hundreds of clients get out of pain. Susan uses a holistic approach to all of her work.  “Any transformation must be made at the mind, body and spirit level.” In 2011 Susan became a Life Coach and combined her lifelong study of female sexuality, massage, bodywork, Reiki, and chakra energy healing with coaching to help women explore their sexual selves and create sensual, passionate and vibrant lives. Susan holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism from New York University where she received her education from the classroom and from the unique and quirky Greenwich Village where she lived. Today Susan is a single mom living in New Jersey with her daughter and loves living a sexy, sensual life.   You can find Susan sharing the sexy, sensual love via her website, Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and her fabulous FREEDiscover Your Inner Sexy Strategy Session. 

"The words that enlighten the soul are more precious than jewels." ~ Hazrat Inayat Khan Michelle Arbeau has had an ongoing love affair with the written word her entire life. As a child, she could often be found with a notepad and pencil in hand, lost in the creative realm of words where anything is possible. She believes words are transformational and the gift of language is a tool to help us mold and shape the life we desire. Like musical notes, we can “play” the right word and create a ripple effect of joy and inspiration. Alternately, we can use a negative word and initiate a landslide of far-reaching negativity. Her book, The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire is a manual to take you through the process of uncovering negative inner and outer dialect and rewrite it in the positive. If your life (and relationship!) isn’t what you want it to be, despite your best efforts, it’s time to start choosing your words wisely! Michelle is an internationally recognized Celebrity Numerologist, author, inspirational speaker and radio/tv host. She has a Hollywood clientele base that includes Twilight vampires, Big Bang Theory actress, Pirates of the Caribbean actor, NBC Director, Celebrity stylist and many more. You can find Michelle sharing her passion for the power of words and numbers via her website, Facebook, and Twitter. 

Over 40 million Americans are stuck in a sex rut and 52% are dissatisfied with their sex lives. Todd Creager, a relationship and sex expert, is here to share how to rekindle the passion and pleasure in your marriage! A psychotherapist in private practice for 30 years, Todd has assessed and successfully treated couples and individuals. He is the author of the highly acclaimed book, The Long, Hot Marriage, as well as a contributing author of the bestselling book, Finding Life’s Passion.  His media appearances include recently being the therapist on Oprah Winfrey Network’s show, “Unfaithful.”  In addition, He has been on KCAL 9 news in LA, the Fox Morning News and Playboy Radio as a relationship and Sex Expert as well as many other radio and TV appearances.  Todd speaks to a variety of audiences including entrepreneurs, couples, healthcare professionals, and men and women looking for their soulmate. He has also taken his knowledge of relationship skills to the business world where he has consulted and spoken on teambuilding and developing the inner resources for success. You can find Todd sharing the “long, hot love” via his website, Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn.

Technology has transformed the way we communicate. We send and receive more and more emails every day. We text. We tweet. We have reduced our communications down to efficient sound bites—and at the same time, many of us seem to know less and less about how to connect. Deeply, profoundly connect… especially in our intimate relationships. Achim Nowak is an internationally recognized authority on executive presence and infectious personal connections. His first book Power Speaking: The Art of the Exceptional Public Speaker has become an essential leadership development tool in Fortune 500 companies around the world. Achim has coached hundreds of executives and entrepreneurs. He integrates an extensive background in personal transformation techniques, conflict resolution, spiritual practice, and actor training to develop truly resonant leaders. Influens, the international training and coaching firm Achim founded in 2004, is based in South Florida and supports senior business leaders in every part of the globe. Whether he was training performers at New York City’s Actors Institute or directing an Israeli/Palestinian theatre production for the Peres Center for Peace or leading transformational weekends in AIDS communities throughout North America or windsurfing in Tobago for a year and doing absolutely nothing else - Achim has mastered the art of slipping into any social situation. Achim holds an M.A. in Organizational Psychology and International Relations from New York University. He served for over a decade on the faculty of New York University and has been a frequent guest speaker at other universities such as The University of Massachusetts, Amherst College, Brandeis University, and Columbia University.

“You build your business around your life, not your life around your business.” ~ Don Purdum Most entrepreneurs make the mistake of building their lives around their businesses. As a Chaplain in the PA Army National Guard where he worked with couples extensively, Don Purdum saw firsthand that if you lose your family you will lose your business. Being a business owner is a rewarding and fulfilling experience, but it can take a toll on intimate relationships and home life. Even entrepreneur billionaire Mark Cuban said that “to start a business you have to sacrifice your family.” Through Marriage University Don and his wife Nicole work to solve the tension between business and marriage so that both can thrive. They help couples understand business and how to align it with their mission, purpose, dreams, and desired lifestyle. Don shares his best advice to help you build your business around your life, and find joy and satisfaction both at home and with your business. Follow Don on Twitter, Facebook and Google+. Connect with Ande on Twitter @AndeLyons, watch her on YouTube, or join her on Facebook, where she’s always stirring things up with romance, love and sexy conversations!

Nobody can escape change, whether it’s the loss of a job, a home, money, or even a loved one. Instead of falling into fear or avoidance, find your way back to happiness and wholeness by embracing the opportunity for growth and renewal in every transition. Author, clairvoyant, and medium, Servet Hasan's varied career began as a model, which led her to the Los Angeles Times where she worked for the Fashion Section for almost a decade.  Her writing talent landed her such positions as copywriter for Fred Hayman, former owner of Giorgio's, and event coordinator for Peter Norton, where she planned parties for the rich and famous.  Encouraged to seek the path of enlightenment, Servet spent years studying with the mystic masters of the Far East, gaining their secrets and receiving their blessings to bring this priceless knowledge of how to attain wealth, happiness, vibrant health and mystic powers to the rest of the world.  Servet clairvoyant and medium gifts are passed down to her through many generations, and can provide a glimpse into a person's soul, giving them a deeper insight into their character and enabling them to attain their full potential. She is the author of Life in Transition,Exercises for the Mind, How to Read Any Man's Mind, Tune Him In, Turn Him On and The Intuitive Heart of Romance. Servet is the author of a monthly column entitled, "Inside His Head," which runs locally in Orange County, California, and a weekly astrology column for the Laguna Beach Times.  Born in Pakistan, Servet is also a citizen of Great Britain, Canada, and the United States. 

Did you know there’s a simple 60-second cure that can put the sizzle and the closeness back in your relationship? Even if: • Your lover is getting on your nerves and driving you up a wall • You’re living in a lonely, resentful, angry, or painful place in the relationship • You feel uncertain about your future together, anxious and afraid that you’ll wind up alone and heartbroken Renowned relationship expert, Love Mentor, and frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show, Dr.Diana Kirschner shares how to use the 60-second sizzle cure and other simple, yet powerful ways to cultivate the love you really want.  It’s based on her new Love Mentor Guide, 30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide. Whether you’ve been dating someone special and want to take it into passionate lasting love; are thinking about moving in together but are unsure and anxious about it; feel stuck in a stale, angry, or problem relationship; or are frustrated in a sexless marriage, 30 Days to Love is the ultimate relationship turnaround guide for you. Connect with Dr. Diana through her Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Newsletter, Facebook and Twitter @DrDiana.  

"Love is its own aphrodisiac and is the main ingredient for lasting sex.” ~ Mort Katz In this lively and stimulating 30 minute conversation, nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist and world renown Master Sex Coach Dr. Patti Britton shares the types of love, how love adds dimension to sex, sacred sex, the “R” factor, the love of sensual massage, connection and touch; and how love goes wrong. Not only does Dr. Patti hold an amazing pedigree as a nationally board-certified Clinical Sexologist, she’s a pioneer in the profession of sex coaching, she’s the author of hundreds of articles and four amazing books, a popular speaker to the masses and a seasoned pro to her peers, a cyber-diva on sex, the original sexpert for iVillage.com, and host of 35+ DVDs about sexuality. Please visit Dr. Patti’s website to learn more! Dr. Patti shares her best secret ingredients for LOVE – join us for an entertaining, engaging and arousing conversation!

Aging doesn't diminish your desire - attitude does! Keynote Speaker, Author and Coach, Sheila Pearl has dedicated over 30 years mentoring and coaching adults, teaching effective success attitudes and strategies for turning conflicts into collaboration and challenges into opportunities. Since 2004 Sheila has a private coaching practice called “Loving Relationships,” and she spends her professional life dedicated to teaching individuals, couples and families how to build and maintain loving relationships. Sheila's specialty niche is coaching, writing and speaking about the importance of sensuality and sexuality in the “New Midlife” (50-80+).   Sheila is the author of several books, including Ageless & Sexy: Pioneering Uncharted Territory for Loving Relationships in the New Midlife, scheduled for release Summer of 2014. Sheila can be found joyfully sharing and singing the love via her website, Facebook,Twitter, and YouTube!