A Love Language Minute

​The use of abusive words is intended to inflict damage on the other person. Dr. Gary Chapman says this abuse might signal an issue of poor self-esteem in the abuser. Building up their self-esteem may bring about a positive change. Hopeful advice on A Love Language Minute.

​Dr. Gary Chapman says we can't necessarily change our spouse, but we should be totally committed to loving our spouse in their love language, no matter what. Learn how to be God's agent for loving your spouse on the next A Love Language Minute.

​A loving leader puts his wife at the top of his priority list. Dr. Gary Chapman says Christ modeled this for us when He surrendered His will for the good of the Church. Husbands should do the same. Learn more on A Love Language Minute.

​My boss has fallen in love with me. How can I stop this without ruining my working relationship? Dr. Gary Chapman says you probably can't. This probably means looking for another job is the only option. Difficult but wise counsel on A Love Language Minute.

​My love language is best expressed individually rather than in a group. Dr. Gary Chapman says most likely it's a reflection of one's personality - introverted vs. extroverted. But stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone. Practical advice on the next A Love Language Minute.

​Dr. Gary Chapman says the husband's role in a marriage is to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. This means knowing and meeting her needs in a sacrificial way. It's all on the next edition of A Love Language Minute.

​Every area of our lives will be tempered by our relationship with Christ. Dr. Gary Chapman says that spiritual oneness between a husband and wife is the primary foundation for a healthy marriage. Tune in to the next A Love Language Minute.

​A loving husband should view his wife as a partner, not a trophy. Dr. Gary Chapman says the Bible describes the husband/wife relationship as a partnership. The roles of the two should compliment each other. Solid advice on A Love Language Minute.

​What do we do when one person wants kids and the other does not? Dr. Gary Chapman says that if both parties are firmly committed to their desires, it's probably a deal-breaker. More wise counsel can be heard on this edition of A Love Language Minute.

​A listener asks, What if my boyfriend doesn't want me to study abroad? Dr. Gary Chapman says his desire is more self-centered than wanting what's best for you. True love always wants what's best for the other person. Hear it all on A Love Language Minute.

​Can the words Love and Leadership coexist in a marriage? Dr. Gary Chapman says a husband should lead with strength while connecting emotionally with his wife without domination. Wise advice on the next A Love Language Minute.

​How do I build trust in my broken relationship? Dr. Gary Chapman says persist in speaking her love language as you prove your trustworthiness. This will create an atmosphere whereby rebuilding her trust is possible. That's all on the next A Love Language Minute.

​What is the role of the husband in a marriage? Dr. Gary Chapman says the first step is to avoid the extremes between domination and passivity. Find a healthy middle road on the next A Love Language Minute.

How do we save our marriage when there was past cheating? Dr. Gary Chapman says lasting relationships are built on truth and trust. Turn away from that behavior and seek forgiveness. Hear more on A Love Language Minute.

​Where do we find the time to speak the love language of our spouse? Dr. Gary Chapman says we have to make time - make it a priority. For more practical counsel, make the time to listen to A Love Language Minute!