Swap Fu Podcast

This and that... It's a New Year and people still celebrate Kwanzaa! Threesome Etiquette? Nope. We're talking about the FUNCH! What the fuck is a Funch? It involves a spa robe and jewelry... and a no show. Sound complaints. We're trying! We took a chance and had the Girls Uncorked couples party at our house. It was a success! Swinger Santa sighting! Swinger Zombies? Of course! Zombie Dildo? Get to the point... Ms Fu and I discuss a reddit post on breaking rules. What are your rules based on? Are they trust exercises or are they based on something concrete? Parting thoughts and feedback... SDC party broadcast invitation calamity! Don't use SDC with an iPad. Kasidie -- you're not off the hook for your GirlsUncorked.com fiasco! Advances in the female condom We share our 2015 swinger objectives Listener mail! Should we interview an older couple about breaking into the lifestyle Stick around for Stinky Sunday Sex Relevant to our discuss on boundaries, our episode song is "The Business of Emotion (feat. White Sea)" by Big Data. Get it wherever fine music is sold. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Intro and Welcome Vacations are good for Sex! Lots of sex with each other in Mexico! Is Mr Fu caught up on date nights? Programming Notes and Announcements Book “ A Modern Marriage: A Memoir”, by Christy & Mark Kidd. Tells their positive story about swinging, trials and successes. They still swing! Debbie n Mike are reading and enjoying it. http://www.amazon.com/A-Modern-Marriage-Memoir/dp/1476753466 Illegal Swinger Club in Terre Haute Indiana closed down, city violations. How does this relate to legality of swing parties in private homes? http://wthitv.com/2014/12/04/illegal-swingers-club-operating-near-school-in-terre-haute-to-be-shutdown/ What’s the Fu be up to? Mexico City! Club SW Website: http://www.clubsw.com.mx/ Our review: http://redd.it/2n6fe6 Dreams Mexico Website: http://www.dreamsmexico.com.mx/ Our review: http://redd.it/2nv1sa Travel Speed Dates? Uber rocks in Mexico City Swinger website for Spanish speakers http://pasionliberal.com/ How we scheduled dates while traveling.    "At the Clubs this Sat and next Sat. If you want to set up drinks, call to schedule with us.”    If suspect a single guy, "have your wife call my wife to set up a date. Sorry, we can't get texts" Topic Listener Request: New top 10 things learned since Episode 10 Look at top 10 from episode #10 Ms Swap Fu's Top Ten 10. Clubs are uber cool. 9. Travel plans to Swing are off the hook. If you haven’t done it, try it. 8. Your Vanilla friends probably adore you more than your friends in the lifestyle. 7. Passive guys in the lifestyle are boring. Guys that show up to have fun are my cup of tea. 6. Single guys have a place in the life style. 5. Strap-ons are out, and I will be experimenting with some other devices. 4. No, you don’t look younger than you really are. 3. Swinger upkeep is a pain in the ass. But you do it because you want to swing. 2. Ask for what it is that you want. Specifically and unequivocally. Changes you make from the lifestyle can affect every aspect of your life. 1. The number one thing I have truly internalized is that my husband rocks. Mr Swap Fu's Top Ten 10. The founders of Harley Davidson must have been swingers 9. Minimize your time on the dating sites. Lot's of chatters, picture hunter and punters. Meet people in person ASAP then go from there. 8. Focus on your goals. What do you want and who do you want it from? 7. Escalate sexually. Don't freeze up once you're there, build passion by escalating foreplay. 6. Look out for your partner. He or she may not be in the same headspace. 5. Keep meeting people. You may know some cool couples, but there are always more out there. 4. It's not about them, it's about us 3. It's better to be fun than sexy 2. Watch your booze 1. Who dares wins Top 10 Update for 2014 1. FuGrrl -- Don't forget the sex! 1. Mr Fu -- Condoms take practice 2. FuGrrl -- 86 drama people 2. Mr Fu -- Swingers are looking for shit to do 3. FuGrrl -- Swinging scales 3. Mr Fu -- Your swinger friends understand you 4. FuGrrl -- Your body is just fine 4. Mr Fu -- Allow your significant other to be your ally 5. FuGrrl -- Share at least one language with people you swing with 5. Mr Fu -- Expectations are bad Parting Thoughts and Feedback Email response to Car Talk mention. Thank you Mr and Ms HFT! Listen to the poll results!  Reddit swingers from 4,000-10,000. Wow!  Shout outs Pub Crawl hosted by Average Swingers, Jan 31st In Houston. We’re going! Listed as public parties on SDC and Kasidie Merry Christmas, Winter Solstice, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa…. Happy New Year! Be safe! Episode music: "Musica Ligera" by Soda Stereo The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

A visit from our Swap Fu Swinger Club correspondent -- Tiffania! Plugging HUMP! http://thestranger.com/hump Mr Fu gets shamed! Bad Mr Fu. Bad! Getting sex on the calendar. Half of us got it right. Getting our swirl on. Congrats to all our swinger newlyweds! OktoberFUst. You should have been there! Titties on the pool table. Back in the air with Mr Fu! Cheater infiltration -- Don't enable bad behavior. How do you know if you're getting the full story. Were the Clintons swingers? Who cares!? All of DC are doing it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_of_Cards_(U.S._TV_series) Underground shit is our 2nd job. Binge listening. What gives? Have some perspective. Cliques keep a-comin. Our friend Mr M laments not being able to do anything outside his clique. Learn to be nice or don't come. Never write a policy where common sense will do. http://onefte.com/comic/who-needs-another-policy Black Rings? Get your rubber on! http://saferingz.com http://qalo.com Pretty vs Nice! Check out our poll. Seriously. Female porn survey http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/11/18/women-and-porn-survey-ann-summers-sex_n_4297183.html The Young Turks http://www.tytnetwork.com RIP Tom Magliozzi http://www.cartalk.com/blogs/staff-blog/tom-magliozzi-1937-2014 Happy (Wedding) Anniversary to us! We're going to Mexico City. Going to Club SW http://clubsw.com.mx and/or Dreams http://www.dreamsmexico.com.mx Bearing witness to our Swinger friends getting married. If you don't like my sex life, don't make it your business. Episode Song "Gay Bar" by Electric Six The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Quick note... Sorry this is a little late -- we recorded on 10/10/2014 but I've been super busy. Also, we repeatedly refer to the episode song as Fine Shine by The Period Ring -- it's Fineshrine by Purity Ring. We're goofy, we know. What’s the Fu been up to? Above average pub crawling with the Average Swingers Pre-Crawl Pizza at Home Slice Violet Crown Social Club Shangri La Easy Tiger Bakery The Rooftop Coyote Ugly San Diego Trivia adventure with amazing people Talking to a couple that started swinging partly because of the podcast OktoberFUst Prep -- Lederhosen Woes Topic We revisit the Lost Episode 23 from way back in 2011 Still no podcasts from Australia? What's happening there? Planned Parenthood update? The news ain't good in Texas Swinger cover stories -- How do you handle a thousand cocks? Put em in a calendar? We need a cock release. Blind dates vs blurry dates Single people! Please speak up! The once per month rule and other ways to keep it cool in your swinger life Parting Thoughts and Feedback SLS Radio Request: Our debate -- Is it an endorsement Episode Music selection discussion:  Democracy or Dictatorship? News Items: Careful Swingers. Any of your misdeeds are blamed on the Swinging Lifestyle. Christian swingers story going strong Bad renters Bad AirBnB'ers Three people shot outside a Swing Club. Except they weren't at the swinger club Shout outs Pub Crawl People! Support Planned Parenthood! Episode music "Fineshrine" by Purity Ring (Not Fineshine by The Period Ring... super sorry.) Selected by FuGrrl The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Intro and Welcome/What’s the Fu be up to? Production note: Sorry about the boomy audio! Back from Naughty N’awlins DSI  Drinking plan  Sexing plan Restaurants and Bars:  The Beaches  Razoos  Johnny's Po Boys on St Louis  Felix  Red Slipper Cafe  Royals House Bloody Mary Review NIN schedule WTF is a contribulator?! Three mini topics People that make me feel a little shittier every time you see them. AVOID! Mr Fu gets grouchy about the proposed Swinger flag. Email “Calling Dibbs” Parting Thoughts and Feedback Gillette body shaver Bob’s Burgers steals Ms Fu’s idea Burning Man Speed Boner competition Pool Dazes winding down Mr Fu’s toga Birthday Party Bonus Podcast this month, an hour from NIN with      Average Swingers, Swingercast, Me and Ms Jones Shout outs SDC free 7 day trial All the birthday people September 5th! Pub Crawl to celebrate. Episode Song is "Set it Off" by Peaches. We enjoy listening to this little gem while enjoying a few post NiN in a gay bar in the French Quarter. We miss you NOLA! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

What's up? Well... Thank you Los Swingers for hospitality once again! Tost rocked it out for FuGrrl's birthday! Full circle and then some. In the news... Herman Munster Gets Rapey: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-dressed-herman-munster-raped-3934576 (Will selfies replace mug shots?) 15 Celebrities Swingers: http://madamenoire.com/453365/15-celebrity-swingers/ Sex Facts!: http://www.yourtango.com/2014220165/7-absolutely-insane-sex-facts-around-world?utm_source=huffingtonpost.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=pubexchange Keep moving! Traveling to La Jolla for work and fun! Do yourself a favor and hit up Babycakes for Sunday Funday! http://www.babycakessandiego.com/babys-bar/church Sundays in San Diego are a goddamn party! Hi 79couple! Thanks for the amazing time! Check out there fun meet and greets. That song Fancy's got a fuck beat to it. More than The Rentals? Barry White is out. Marvin Gaye? No way. Six Underground by Sneakers Pimps. Topix The Sizeist vs FuGrrl: Swinger Superhero What do people really look like in the Lifestyle? Thank you Jaye for the topic. What's hot? Is it just looks? Social is not a social service. People have the right to choose. Choose what's hot to you and be hot back. Then things get cliquey! Are you in a clique? Because you're being tough on newbies. Mr Swap Fu goes on a loony rant and weirds out FuGrrl Parting thoughts Flirt? Meh. Get Tested!! Meet us, the Average Swingers and the Hidden Swing in Austin! Details on Kasidie. We want donuts! Naughty in N'Awlins! Red dresses. Red dresses everywhere! Shout outs! Thanks for the awesome iTunes reviews Happy Dirty 30 Anniversary to Ms T and Mr K -- Join their Texas Social Club Question: Are there enough meeting and greets happening? Song? Clique by Kayne. Yeah, that's right. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

First off... Today we hit the road to Atlanta to visit our good friends, the lovely Los Swingers! First some sad news -- thank you very much for all the love and support Girls Uncorked couples party! Los Swingers need another Girls Uncorked chapter in Northeast Georgia.  ABC Swinger news story Huffpo article on what to expect at a swingers resort Desire was a little tame for Los Swingers -- the resort should know how to plan for the rain! Topics... Ethics follow up What information should you share about other couples? The condom bandit and other ethics breaches Listener feedback on ethics Matt and Bianca's reddit post as it relates to ethics Swingers Demolish LaGuardia! A good discussion on meet and greets Los Swingers take a questions from the producers What have we been up to... Atlanta visit FuGrrl get Liberated Paradise Valley is a true paradise! What an incredible resource and swinger friendly Our triumphant return to The Trap! Sexy, classy, fun in the Diamond Club. A somewhat pricey addition to the best swinger club we've ever been to. Food, folks and fun! Closing remarks... Join us at Naughty in N'Awlins! Who was that on the last Swingercast podcast? Los Swingers enjoyed meeting John and Allie The SDC website is much better: Congratulations! (Still has a couple issues...) Spurs win! Check Los Swinger website The Swingers Hub. A great, free, resource Episode music: "Georgia On My Mind" as performed by the incomparable Willie Nelson. The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

What’s up? Summer is here.  We’re hot in San Antonio! We have a listener producer, Debbie from DebbienMike on Kasidie :) In June Kasidie’s Girls Uncorked - couples parties http://www.girlsuncorked.com Join Swap Fu Community on Kasidie http://www.kasidie.com Facebook Girl Uncorked group? Help? Swingers in the news Quick news item - Two police officer brothers having a swinger party with their wives.  One wife was not into it and got punched by the other wife. the police were called in to reinstate peace :) Dan Savage’s, Savage Lovecast podcast episode 396 started with a positive rant about Swingers and swinging. http://www.savagelovecast.com (Stand by for technical difficulties.) Last time we said one of our two local clubs had closed. Well, it’s reopening! http://www.pleasuresclubtx.com What’s the Fu be up to? Best summer ever! Pool Days! Cooking, playing games, hanging out at the pool. Invited a few couples over on a Saturday or Sunday for games and summer fun. Playing games Thinking up ideas for more parties. Participating in scientific study about non-monogamy. Interviewed by a “baby dyke” student for her sociology research paper. Topic(s) Getting yearly physicals. Yes we’re strong healthy people! Code of Conduct/Ethics for Swingers Mrs Fu shares a list she found… Be safe Have fun Don’t fight Don’t cheat Respect other wants Respect other sex Meet other sex’s parents Don’t be shy Be nice Be good! ...at a Junior High Dating web page! http://ericabuteau.com/2013/03/27/junior-high-dating-code-of-conduct-and-guidelines-whatdoyouthink/ Our code of conduct suggestions: Respect others time.  Cancel, don’t stand up. Respect limits, rules, boundaries of others. Condom rule. Respect the couple as a couple, communicate with both of them. Don’t cut one half out. All 4 talking insures dates get going. Four can’t talk, four can’t meet! No punching! Parting Thoughts and Feedback Send us your funny stories about talking to your doctors. Send us feedback about code of conduct for swingers. On Kasidie a single guy, Cherokee101 has a write up of Single Guy Code of Conduct for the Lifestyle. Naughty in N’Awlins we’re coming! http://swingercast.com/travel-parties/nawty.html Shout outs To our friends at Desire: John and Allie Swingercast Swaplicity from San Antonio Los Swingers: See in July Mike Litoris - great screen name, met at Desire last year! Go Spurs Go! 1in 0 San Antonio! [Sadly now 1 and 1] Oops! Forgot to mention our trip to Dallas to hang with the Avergae Swingers! Thanks for host guys! If you can’t find the Fus, you’re not looking! Episode music: “Fancy” by Iggy Azalea off the album The New Classic The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

---Corrected Euless Meet and Greet Date! It's May 30 not May 31. Sorry!--- Thank you for joining us once again! FuGrrl is loving being Girls Uncorked chapter hostess! The new Girl Uncorked chapter in the Texas Hill Country A Girls Uncorked is coming to St. Louis, courtesy of a San Antonio transplant For more Girl Uncorked information go to: http://www.girlsuncorked.com Meet and Greets with Average Swingers Euless May 30 Austin September 13 Check out the Average Swingers on iTunes and at http://www.averageswingers.com The Black Ring! More info: http://www.blackringrighthand.com Follow the Black Ring on Twitter: @blkring Impromptu Get Togethers 15 couples out of nowhere? Why plan? Thanks to Mr. Camo from Camoandlace for helping with pool heater. All those naked boobies are in your honor! San Antonio Players We're down to one club in San Antonio. Players is awesome but competition is always good. Come to the Kasidie meet and greet at Players San Antonio the third Friday of every month. More information about San Antonio Players http://www.playersclubsatx.com Time Wasters or What Are We Going to Bitch About Today? The Peter and Lois maneuver: Peter tries to make plans without first talking to Lois leading to broken dates and wasted time. Listen for the solution! Mr. Swap Fu learns a lesson on dealing with bad instant messengers Using the Fade Away. Watch the Garfunkel and Oates video! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fr8HKRTavM0 First Impressions Don't assume your lack of chemistry is due to what you think Give people a few chances Swirl Party Etiquette No recruiting! Unwelcome advances during a swirl event put Ms. Swap Fu off Don't inadvertently out your swinger friends Keep swinging private and no hanky panky in front of the vanillas Going to Naughty In N'awlins August 6 - 10 with Swingercast and Average Swingers! https://secureregistrationonline.com/new_nin/signup.php?affiliateId=1694&c=1 We miss Los Swingers! Hope you're enjoying the New Trapeze! We're looking for a Producer! If you're interested, please email us! swapfu@gmail.com Interested in the topic of penis size? FuGrrl recommends Unhung Hero on Netflix. Episode Song: "The Middle" by Jimmy Eat World The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Holy shit! We interviewed a couple! The mics were out after a date so we interviewed a couple victims friends. Pre... Setting expectations Friends First vs Fuck First Mr E talks about daring -- get out there! Ms J discusses the play benefits of separate room play at house parties Discussing insecurities of your partner being with someone else -- turning that into a positive Be willing to learn from past experiences Post... Craig's List #1: The Pinky Finger Incident Craig's List #2: The Cheating Remedy Craig's List #3: Success! Talking up the swinger websites From FMF pillow talk to real life Many thanks to Mr E and Ms J for their great interview. Episode song is "Houdini" by the Los Angeles band Foster the People on the album Torches. Torches is a "blind buy". It's such a good album you can just buy it on faith. Pick it up! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Endless gratitude to our listeners for sticking with us all this time!! What's up? So long Club Prestige! Better to have two clubs than one. A vanilla New Years Eve Mr and Ms Swap Fu alternate off-nights at a couple events Feeding the community by introducing people There's more swingers out there than you think FACT Check: There are 470,000 households in San Antonio not 60,000. It is estimated that one in 200 couples swing. 23,000 swinging couples in San Antonio? Can this be? Topic After four years we still need to keep communicating and be careful with what you take for granted. An expanding after party gets sprung on FuGrrl: Auto Stress Mode! We had a disconnect at a party -- when to leave? Forgot to check in. Beware of physical discomfort in uncomfortable situations. Odds and Ends Should we have a Swinger Super Bowl Party? What are your sexy Super Bowl memories? Is it selfish not to help a couple enter the lifestyle because you don't want them around? Much love to SA Pervs and their excellent Black Friday Pub Crawl Love to T and M for the super-fun semi-lifestyle cookie exchange Love to Twattwirler and congrats to M on her RN! Love to Los Swingers! Thank you for visiting us once again! O5 was a raging success; triple blowjob, still unfulfilled Doing business with swingers... the naked network Girls Uncorked simply continues to rock Trojan Supras are terrible! Episode song "Safe and Sound" by Capital Cities off the album In A Tidal Wave of Mystery The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

What's the Fu been up to? OktoberFUst of course! What a great party! - We welcomed our friends from Georgia -- Looking forward to your next visit. - Dodging vanillas - Setting up with a little help from our friends Meeting swingers at a bar for Beer Bingo - A fun, low-pressure way to meet swingers FuGrrl on Twitter on hiatus for the sake of safety Topic Singles in the swinging lifestyle - Are singles swingers? What are they risking? - Mr Swap Fu bends his brain doing some swinger math - Ms Swap Fu changes her mind Beware the online trolls! Happy Halloween! Shout Outs - Los Swingers! - C and S Youarebootiful! - Doug and Holly - Host Couple on SDC - SA Pervs - Ms K hostess with the mostest for San Antonio Girls Uncorked - All our awesome dates! Links: We quote an article from ShareYourSecrets.net http://shareyoursecrets.net/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=17:faq-singles&catid=5 The voice of the single man in the LifestyleLifestyle Outloud http://www.lifestyleoutloud.com/014-lifestyle-out-loud-a-single-mans-perspective/ First-Time fun at our OktoberFUst courtesy of Youarebootiful http://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/1nuqed/our_first_swinging_experience_oktoberfest_house/ Episode Song "My Leather, My Fur, My Nails" by Stepdad on the album Wildlife Pop. Please please please get this album! So much fun! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Where's the Fu at? We went to New Orleans! Colette is the coolest. Amazing service. Uncompromising DJ. Awesome decor. Should definitely be on your must-do list. Plus we had a surprise encounter when we got there. A successful meet and greet with the San Antonio Pervs at the Bonham Exchange. Odds and Ends The Pervy Little Social Club takes a misstep -- or how not to grow an orgy group. Sober Summer is drawing to a close this Sunday Funday. Like little, boozy gems. Topics Thoughts on the "Once Per Month" rule -- for newbies. Mix it up. You'll thank us later. Computers lie. Don't let your expectations get set too high for no good reason. What's up with no phone calls? Don't let people hide behind their computer. Get out and meet people in person. Coming Up? OktoberFUst und Herr Swap Fu's lederhosen If it's wrong to love a pair of lederhosen, I don't want to be right. Fill me up! Shout Outs Los Swingers' amazing Jello Shots http://www.losswingers.com/podcast Bliss Bringers http://blissbringers.com/ The Black Ring effort http://blackringrighthand.com/ Club Colette New Orleans http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/ San Antonio Pervs (Find them on SDC and Kasidie) This episode's song is "Royals" by New Zealand singer-songwriter Lorde, on her debut album Pure Heroine. Check her out! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

What have we been up to? Sober summer; from solstice to labor day. Second year and going well. How do we swinger sober? Fake it 'til you make it! 4th of July at the Bonham Exchange: http://bonhamexchange.com Topic: Discussion of the Vanity Fair video: http://video.vanityfair.com/watch/vanity-code-how-to-behave-at-a-swingers-party A discussion of the Swap Fu Swinger Event Plan How to escalate physically without being creepy Ms Swap Fu runs into a former coworker at one of our parties JB and Cal from Swinging Around on ice breakers, in response to listener question: http://swingin-around.blogspot.com/2013/05/episode-15-breaking-ice-for-playtime.html Odds and Ends: Road trip with one stop... going to Club Colette in New Orleans, Friday, August 9. Want to join us? http://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/ Enjoying equipment talk with other podcasters in particular the Hidden Swing: http://hiddenswing.com Black Ring website is up! http://blackringrighthand.com Also mentioned: We weren't there but we call out BBB: http://www.bbbevent.com Pick-Up Artist community taking a beating -- sexism and misogyny: http://www.salon.com/2013/06/19/kickstarter_pickup_artist_on_sleeping_with_women_expect_her_to_offer_some_resistance Much to learn from the Pick Up Artist Community... within reason: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist Another funny video... Shit Swingers Say: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5v-6_6qat4 Episode music: "Pompeii" by London's Bastille off their EP Bad Blood.  Hope you like it! The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Happy Father's Day to you and Happy 50th Episode to us! (If you like listening to Mr Swap Fu, this episode is for you.) Check out the Swinger Subreddit for good swinger discussions: http://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/ Good discussions on orgy management, threesomes vs foursomes and younger swingers woes. Topics: Knowing when to throw in the towel. Cancelling a date when you're feeling down for the sake of your company. Went to the coed Girl Uncorked party! Big fun. Seeing old friends and making new ones. http://www.girlsuncorked.com Party too big? Hosting vs socializing and the role of alcohol in both. We discuss the dirty business of party list management. Frigate Bird Threesome in the Galapagos Islands Courtesy of Los Swingers Shout Outs: Los Swingers -- Thanks for the great photo! Viva the Black Ring! The Hidden Swing Podcast out of Oklahoma -- Thanks for the compliment about Ms Fu's voice! Texas Social Club community on SDC run by Mr. K and the Swinger Fairy Swinger Apps! Chance Mingle for iPhone and SLS for Android Please call us. Tweet us. Email us. Episode song by Imagine Dragons "On Top of the World" on the album Night Visions The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older. The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice. Please contact us: swapfu@gmail.com Follow us on Twitter @swapfu Call us at 609-3SWAPFU Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!