The Dark Side

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #079 - Listener's Feedback Dark Angel and KnotNice get together with YOU - and read out some of the accumulated Listener's Feedback on the show as well as some specific shows. Sponsor: Shibari Niagara Links: Fet Life

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #078 - Oral Fixation / Oral Fetish Dark Angel and KnotNice get together with white rabbit - about her interesting Fetish involving the male penis and her mouth. This is the first of several podcasts we plan on Fetishes - please write us if YOU have a fetish that you think might make a good show. Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation. The object or situation of interest is called the fetish, the person a fetishist who has a fetish for that object/situation. A sexual fetish may be regarded as an enhancing element to a romantic/sexual relationship "achieved in ordinary ways (e.g. having the partner wear a particular garment)" or as a mental disorder/disorder of sexual preference if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. Arousal from a particular body part is classified as partialism. white rabbit is a 30 year old bisexual submissive who has discovered that she has a serious sexual hunger for serving orally. Join us as we discuss fetishism, how hers manifests and potentially how to bring out and explore your own fetishes. white rabbit also describes her first experience serving at a glory hole,,, blindfolded,,, for 2.5 hours - HOT ! _____________________________ News #1 a Gay Iranian who fled Iran and came to Canada is assaulted for being gay Sponsor: Stratford Munch Links: Fet Life

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #077 - Puppy Play Dark Angel and KnotNice get together with PupKalen - about his life and his lifestyle - which is as a gay leather Alpha slave pup. PupKalen's Bio: i am the youngest member of Master C's Leather Family, at the age of 26 and in the third generation. I have two immediate leather brothers collared to my Master as well; boy craig and boy nico. I am collared to Master Scott whom is the partner of boy Iain. i have been collared the last two and a half year spending a year as my Masters boy/pup and then the last year as His slave-pup. I started searching into pup-play at around the age of 16 thanks to the Internet. Puppies are very social creatures. we enjoy playing, or laying at our Masters feet. or playing with other pups. _____________________________ News #1 - Teenager calls 911 'because she heard mother having sex with boyfriend' Sponsor: KNaNO Links: Book suggestion - Woof! Perspectives into the Erotic Care Training of the Human Dog International Puppies and Handlers The Dog House Fet Life Groups: puppy play Black Eagle Toronto Kennel Klub Calgary Kinky Kennel Club

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #076 - Male 2 Female gender re-assignment - Part 2 Dark Angel and KnotNice get together with Kirsten - approximately 1 year after Part #1 (DS Podcast #22) - to take a look at how Kirsten's transition has gone. Kirsten shares her innermost thought with us about the largest struggle she has faced so far in this journey - coming out to friends, co-workers (and the working environment), and especially her family. This amazing podcast went on almost 2 hours - but then even after it was done - DA had to turn the recorder BACK ON - to get a heart quivering statement from Kirsten (make sure you listen to the WHOLE podcast to catch that addition at the very end). It is with sadness that we have anouther year to wait till Part 3 (post-op), and DA announces the potential for a final 4th episode of M2F - where Kirsten does a QA of listener's questions for Kirsten - so send in your questions folks - but you will have a bit more than a year for the response - LOL. _____________________________ News #1- Quebec school employee fired for porn starts her own adult film company Sponsor: BDSM Guelph Munch Links: KIRSTEN'S JOURNALS

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #075 - What does a submissive look for in a Dominant? and visa versa. Dark Angel and KnotNice examine what people look for in a partner (or partners). What does a submissive look for in a Dominant? / What does a Dominant look for in a submissive? When thinking of a potential lover - What are your wants, what are your needs, and the differences when navigating/building a potential relationship. Several other people's opinions are added to the discussion, with a surprise ending. _____________________________ News #1- Bondage Couple's Wooded Fantasy Crashed By Cops Sponsor: TEASE 2012 Links: FETLIFE DISCUSSION THREAD TEASE EVENT NOTICE

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #074 - BDSM and Swinging Dark Angel and KnotNice get together for an in depth discussion with MydniteRose on BDSM and Swinging. MydniteRose has been swinging for 25 years, and active in BDSM for 15; she brings her unique and in depth perspective on both Lifestyles, as well as how they have evolved. This topic and Interviewee was so interesting - this podcast is OVER 2 hours long. MydniteRose helps educate us on: * What are the differences between these 2 sexual charged Communities (if any)? * How she considers herself - a Swinger who is kinky, or a kinky person who also Swings? * What to expect in your local R/L BDSM and Swinger Community events (Munches, Socials, other events etc) - and the different etiquette involved? * Advice for others who wish to check out the "other" side; Swingers looking to explore BDSM AND Kinky people who wish to explore Swinging Join us for these and a few private letters from listeners too. _____________________________ News #1- Staring at naked women makes you smarter Sponsor: ANNUAL JUDELICIOUS CHILDREN'S CHRISTMAS TOY DRIVE EVENT WEBSITE Links: "Swingers" is not a bad word NEO Crossovers for NE Ohio REAL TIME meetings of the kinky

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #073 - Medical Play Dark Angel and KnotNice get together for an in depth discussion on Medical Play. Based on their experience and research: What is Medical Play? What types toys are used? What equipment is used? How does Role Play come into play? How does Medical Play get into a Mind Fuck? What are types of Medical Play? Safety in Medical Play. What are the dangers of Medical Play? Join us for our opinions on these and a few other interesting points too. _____________________________ News #1 Sponsor: NKS

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #072 - Leaders Dark Angel and KnotNice are joined by one of our favorite Guest Hosts - lil'heather, for an in depth discussion on what the label BDSM Community "Leader" really means. Opinions and experiences, and what does the label "Leader" mean to each of us. What makes a good leader? What makes a bad leader? What is the difference between a leader and an organizer? What motivates someone to serve their Community? Join us for our opinions on these and a few other interesting points too. _____________________________ News #1 Sponsor: Toronto: The Next Generation Links: Heather's writing Playground

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #071 - Marking Your Property Dark Angel and KnotNice share a Threadcast regarding Marking your property. There are many ways to mark your property or to illustrate a relationship,,, collars, cuffs, rings, etc - but could you, would you, have you - permanently marked your sub or slave? Branding, piercing, tattooing, cutting (scarification) other? What are your thoughts on this between 2 (or more) consenting adults, and your experiences. For the sake of accepting other peoples kinks,,, please keep the negative comments polite (if it isn't for you kewl, debate only pls). What are your fantasies on this topic? Have you been marked? What happens if/when you split up? How and where would you like it done? If you are against it (for YOU),, why? What other ways are there? Join us for our opinion an the opinions of a number of listeners too. _____________________________ News #1 Please go VOTE for the Dark Side Podcast at the 2011 Peoples Choice Podcast Awards - Daily Voting till Oct 27th Sponsor: TEASE 2012 Threadcast

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #070 - Collars (and leashes too) Dark Angel and KnotNice take a look at collars; from fashion, play to D/s. Types of collars, as well as styles of collars, and most especially - what a collar means to each of them. Your millage may differ. News #1 Please go VOTE for the Dark Side Podcast at the 2011 peoples Choice Podcast Awards - Daily Voting till Oct 27th Sponsor: Spyder Designs by Meg

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #069 - Second Life Dark Angel and KnotNice take a close look at the online BDSM lifestyle involving Second Life. The Dark Side introduces MinaMorrigan whose personal path was years of Second Life BDSM prior to RECENTLY venturing into her own local Real Life BDSM Community events. MinaMorrigan tells us how she started into Second Life, how she evolved, the relationships she experienced, and eventually her recent tentative venture into Real Life BDSM. She tells us about her husband, her online business, her online friends, her online play, and tricks and tips for those following in her footsteps; Second Life as a path to real life BDSM. Finally MinaMorrigan offers to those who wish to transition from Second Life to Real Life to contact her for assistance thru her Fet Life. com profile - https://fetlife.com/users/206293 . It was a pleasure, as well as an education talking to MinaMorrigan - we are sure she is destined to be a positive and interesting part of the Los Angeles, USA, BDSM Community. ___________________________________________________ Links: NEWS - 1 MinaMorrigan's, 2011 peoples Choice Podcast Awards Second Life MinaMorrigan's - You Tube Videos Sponsor: KNaNO

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #068 - Dropping and Aftercare Dark Angel and KnotNice take a close look at Dropping and Aftercare - what they are, how to handle them, how to negotiate, how to minimize or eliminate. Also a request for our listeners: Please NOMINATE us (in the Mature Category) for the 2011 peoples Choice Podcast Awards Please use the Podcast Name - "The Dark Side" Please use the URL "http://www.get-teased.ca/darkside.html" Nominations close Sept 30, 2011 - IF we get nominated; voting will be starting in early October. Sub (and Dom) Drop vary in people, the questions are - short and long term aftercare; - what are common things that happen to YOU if you drop and how do you handle it - what are your requirements for aftercare - what do you do for yourself - what do you do for your partner - what do you do if you are playing casually Links: NEWS - 1 Thread 2011 peoples Choice Podcast Awards Sponsor: The Dark Side Podcast

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #067 - Communication Dark Angel and KnotNice take a close look at Communication in a relationship. We did a "Negotiation" podcast ,,, now it is time to look at the foundation and maintenance of a relationship (play, sex, or love relationships - monogamous, or poly). So you have already negotiated a relationship - how do you keep it? - what tools or techniques do you use to keep, establish, or repair lines of communication? - Do's and don’ts (listener suggested red flags and techniques). - Methods, tools, pitfalls, landmines, etc etc etc. ___________________________________________________ Links: NEWS # 1 Fet Life Thread Sponsor: Franklin the Fet Jewelle

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #066 - Common Courtesy. Dark Angel and KnotNice look at polite and expected common behaviors in the BDSM lifestyle. How Etiquette differs from location to location, how newbies can pick up on the local expected behaviors, and a couple of mini rants DA and KnotNice have regarding this topic. Links: NEWS - 1 NEWS - 2 Etiquette ___________________________________________________ Sponsor: Niagara Kink Social (NKS)

THE DARK SIDE BDSM EDUCATIONAL PODCAST DARK SIDE #065 - Taken In Hand Relationships. Dark Angel and KnotNice team up with Owen Joni from the Orangmonkeycast podcast - to discuss podcasting, as well as Owen Joni's kink. Owen and Joni are a married couple that live the "Taken In Hand" lifestyle, and they open up to share with us. Often described as a "1950's style" relationship; a "Taken In Hand" (TIH) relationship - is a relationship in which, to the delight of both people, the man actively controls the woman. The degree of control and the way the male retains control vary from Taken In Hand couple to Taken In Hand couple, but in all cases both actively want the man to be in charge. No matter how strong, tough and forceful a Taken In Hand woman may be, and no matter how hard she might try to take control in their relationship, she would be aghast if her man were to let her get the upper hand. Likewise, no matter how loving, kind and considerate the man may be, he prefers to keep his woman firmly in hand. In a traditional "TIH" - the woman is unlikely to identify with the word ‘submissive’, and especially at the beginning of the relationship may need to be thoroughly conquered. The man wears the trousers but he puts the relationship and his lady first. His control is active and ongoing rather than passive or a one-off. ___________________________________________________ Links: Taken in Hand Orangemonkeycast Orange Monkey Ink ___________________________________________________ Sponsor: Orangemonkeycast