Hot Sox - Sex Information, Education, and Fun with Jamye Waxman

If you're hearing a lot of "Wow! You look just like your picture!" while you dip your toes, feet or whole self into the world of online dating, then come commiserate with sexy wordsmith Editrix Abby (www.editrixabby.wordpress.com) as she and I discuss the pitfalls and perils of Abby's own online dating escapades, including her current one month romp on senior people meet. Abby dishes on online dating etiquette, why spelling matters and how to take your profile up a notch. Plus, let Abby help you write your own online dating profile, to make you shine like the single star you are. As she says, "If you're fishing, what are you putting on your line. what's the bait you're trying to hook people with?" This Hot Sox Podcast is all about online dating, hook, line and sinker.

In today's Hot Sox podcast, Jamye and Freddyandeddy.com's Ian Denchasy explore to be, or not to be, when it comes to hair. On men, on women, on pubes - where is hair sexy, and where is it not? Plus, the "is your son gay app" that isn't as funny as it's supposed to be. Or is it?

Periods! Blood! Sex! Menstrual Pads! Diva cups! Live (at the time of taping) from Vancouver, BC it's an honest conversation around menstruation on this week's Hot Sox Podcast. I'm delighted to have had the chance to sit in the offices of lunapads (www.lunapads.com) and my very special guest is Madeleine Shaw, the co-founder of the reusable menstrual @lunapads. We talk about sustainable solutions for handling blood, and why it's time to think about how you "deal" with it. Plus, why it's "normal" to be grossed out by blood, the importance of being in touch with our bodies, developing countries and the problem with girl's getting periods and lots bloody more. Plus, period sex. Hot or not? You decide.

Are you shallow about who you date? Knowing that I have been, I was interested to hear what The Passion Consultant Barry Selby had to say about getting the love you want. A spiritual psychologist, he says he's armed with the skills to help woman, and men, get the love they truly desire and may not even think they deserve. We discuss what it means to help people with romance, and how to overcome the huh-huh-humps. Yes, he's single, and no, we don't go too far into my subconscious.

Sex Educator Jamye Waxman, M.Ed. and LA Weekly's Barbie Davenporte dish about penis size, facials, video game sex, entry technique and hot one night stands. Plus learn new words, like beanis and hot coffee mode.

Sex nerd Sandra loves sex and loves being a nerd (nerd power unite!) She's uber cool, and the sex columnist at www.nerdist.com. Once she's going, you'll delight in a conversation on masturbation, sex, polyamory and the meaning of life (hence the "deep" title). Find out what makes her a sex nerd and fall in love with Sex Nerd Sandra, www.sexnerdsandra.com.

Hot Sox regular Fifi Jingles (friend, yoga instructor and former sex industry PR person) joins sex educator, Jamye Waxman in her bedroom for a "most-fun-ever" podcast on dating and sex. The two women talk about their own personal growth, their love lives, masturbation and Fifi's arsenal of sex toys. Plus, sage advice, honest conservation and a run down of something sexy to do in every month of 2011 make this a podcast worth listening too.

Although Ian Denchasy of Freddyandeddy.com despises Kenny G, he remembers back to a time when Kenny G did him a solid, and got him laid. Ian Denchasy breaks it down for the myriads of guys whose ladies love, or once loved, Kenny G. In this week's Hot Sox podcast Ian describes how Kenny G's saxophone is a giant sex toy and how when he hits the right notes, the ladies do more than swoon.

Two of the many things sex educator extraordinaire Jamye Waxman learns from fellow Sex Educator and sex-therapist-in-training, Jamila Dawson. Jamila began educating about sex at age 9 and writing erotica around age 12, and still she didn't lose her virginity until 23! In this Hot Sox podcast, Jamila talks frankly and openly about being an African American woman in the field of sexuality, and why Black men don't like sex toys. Other topics: penis size, and why it does matter. Why poly is reaching a tipping point. What goes on in a BDSM club. How it's possible to be ordered to orgasm. Why submissives are running things in the world of dominants, and favorite sex toy pics from JimmyJane and JeJoue.

The Everything to do With Sex Show (www.everythingtodowithsex.com) is a consumer-based sex show focusing on sensual education, entertainment and selling you sexy, but not in that porn sort-of-way. In this episode of the Hot Sox podcast, Jamye speaks with Mikey Singer, the show manager of the convention bound sex show, both about the show’s success and how working around "everything sex" affects his personal dating life. Mikey's mom likes the show, which is dropping into LA next month. Listen to the podcast and learn how the everything sex show can spice up your relationship!

Editrix Abby, www.editrixabby.wordpress.com, came to NYC in 1995 with big dreams - in advertising. A self-proclaimed smutmeister and experience junkie, who once predicted David Sedaris was going to be famous, Abby's life has been a series of adventures. When she arrived in New York, she became an ad executive, but then everything got "screw"ed. After working at Penthouse Forum, Abby's became the voice of the misunderstood fetishist. And now, when asked where Abby has room for improvement, she says "in being normal." What defines a real freak? Abby Ehmann shares stories with sex educator Jamye Waxman, M.Ed. about the types of people who are, and aren't, freaks, and offers spot on advice for before attending a sex party.

Meet Count Spankula, Master of erotic hypnosis and the mastermind behind hypnogirls.com. Using his self-taught powers of hypnosis he can make girls come. He tells this to Jamye on the latest Hot Sox podcast. Yep, the Count uses the power of voice control to get women to have multiple orgasms and ejaculate without touch. All of this at the snap of a finger. Kapow!

I was asked, and honored, to give a talk at Mindshare LA (www.mindshare.la). The talk (2.17.11) was on Masturbation, from the history to the hysterical, or from obscure vice to sexual superstore (a Thomas Laqueur quote, he wrote "Solitary Sex"). Masturbation wasn't a sexual vice until 1720, when the first publication of Onania sent people into mass hysteria around the supposed horrors of masturbation. Even recently, when Taylor Momsen was quoted as saying that her best friend is her vibrator, the idea of self pleasure caused quite a stir. Whether you are the master of your domain or not yet, this run-through of my Mindshare talk shares history as well as the positive (and negative) effects of masturbation, toys for boys, toys for girls and how doctors used vibrators to help relax their female patients.

Valentines Day. Love it or hate it, Valentines Day has crept up on us yet again. Whether you're single or in a triad, Valentines Day can be anxiety producing or overly exciting, but regardless it's a holiday all about love. Join sex educator Jamye Waxman, M.Ed as she discuss Valentines Day on a budget, how to show yourself love and why Valentines Day could be considered the new New Years of Love.

Join America's beloved porn journalist and Fleshbot's Senior Erotic Consultant, Gram Ponante (www.gramponante.com), as he talk to Jamye Waxman, M.Ed. about everything and anything in the wide world of adult entertainment. From the business of porn to herding cats, the two friends discuss why the porn industry hasn't unionized and what to wear on a porn set. Want to know the pay scale for a porn actress or who's really fun to watch in porn these days? Look no further than this very Hot Sox podcast. Join Mr. Ponante as he takes us inside the porn industry and discusses his debut as a director of the The Facts of Life, a XXX parody..