Why The Illusion Of Action Leads To Permanent Ghosting & Possibly A Restraining Order
Summary: <p>Why the illusion of action leads to permanent ghosting & possibly a restraining order for guys who won’t back off.</p> <p>In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a coaching client whose previous email I answered in my video newsletter titled, “Why Liking Her More Than She Likes You Leads To Loss Of Respect, Interest & Rejection.” Since our last phone session and that video newsletter he has continued to obsess over a woman who rejected him for over pursuing and smothering her to the point of her waiting 24 hours to reply to his texts and being rude and condescending the last time he tried setting a date. Now he is talking to everyone he knows looking for someone to validate his needy and neurotic and inappropriate desires to pursue more, seek her attention and validation and prove he has changed despite the fact nothing about his behavior has changed. Only the ways he deludes himself into believing more of the same behavior that got him rejected and blown off will somehow work this time.</p> <p>If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:</p> <p><a href="http://bit.ly/CCW3Man" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">http://bit.ly/CCW3Man</a></p> <p>Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:</p> <p><a href="http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">http://amzn.to/1XKRtxd</a></p> <p>Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:</p> <p><a href="https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUo</a></p> <p>Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:</p> <p><a href="https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3</a></p> <p>You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:</p> <p><a href="http://bit.ly/CCWMY" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">http://bit.ly/CCWMY</a></p> <p>Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://amzn.to/2TQV2Xo</a></p> <p>Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:</p> <p><a href="https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUo</a></p> <p>Here is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:</p> <p><a href="https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUo</a></p> <p>You can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:</p> <p><a href="https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_us" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_us</a></p> <p>Here is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:</p> <p><a href="https://amzn.to/33K8VwF" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://amzn.to/33K8VwF</a></p> <p>Here is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:</p> <p><a href="https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1</a></p> <p>Click the link below to book phone/Skype (audio only) coaching with me personally:</p> <p><a href="https://understandingrelationships.com/products/phone-coaching" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">https://understandingrelationships.com/products/phone-coaching</a></p> --- Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/support</a>
