Summary: <b>Use the timestamps below to guide you better as a leader or individual:</b><br><ul> <li> <b>How do you go from conflict to community?</b> <a href="https://otter.ai/u/FG4xdpR6vyApTH7Gwaf8-bH25iM?tab=summary&t=1s" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">0:00</a><ul> <li>Welcome to the chrisliccardo show, leading families conflict to community, and the journey from discord to unity within families.</li> <li>Why conflict within families leads to tension and can lead to strained relationships.</li> <li>How to make a shift from conflict and tension to being able to have open dialogues, even if they have healthy conflict in them, to create family bonds.</li> <li>The importance of healthy boundaries.</li> </ul> </li> <li> <b>How to remove yourself out of the conflict.</b> <a href="https://otter.ai/u/FG4xdpR6vyApTH7Gwaf8-bH25iM?tab=summary&t=310s" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">5:09</a><ul> <li>The desire to control and the desire to win, and how to remove yourself from the emotional effects of conflict.</li> <li>The first thing to do is recognize when and why people add to conflict.</li> <li>The importance of recognizing when someone is struggling with a specific topic or the way that something is presented, and how it can be seen as an example of someone who is in task mode.</li> <li>How perspective gathering questioning can sound like accusing someone of doing something wrong.</li> <li>Once someone has changed the way that they are asked a question, it takes away any defensiveness from the person.</li> <li>Recognize when someone is struggling and what caused it. Take responsibility and adjust communication in a way that is loving, kind and in the direction of the other person.</li> </ul> </li> <li> <b>Why is community so important as leaders?</b> <a href="https://otter.ai/u/FG4xdpR6vyApTH7Gwaf8-bH25iM?tab=summary&t=806s" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">13:25</a><ul> <li>The first thing to recognize is why community is so important as a leader. The more people operate in quality community, the more they are healed and feeling healthy.</li> <li>The role of leadership in family situations that are trying to diminish conflict or have the best community.</li> <li>One of the best ways to heal someone who has experienced trauma is in community, communal dancing, singing and enjoying each other.</li> <li>The six areas in the world that have the highest number of centenarians, people who live over 100 years old, have a phenomenal community aspect.</li> </ul> </li> <li> <b>How to help create a harmonious environment.</b> <a href="https://otter.ai/u/FG4xdpR6vyApTH7Gwaf8-bH25iM?tab=summary&t=1158s" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">19:18</a><ul> <li>The first thing a family leader has to do is recognize the importance of not being emotionally handcuffed to conflict.</li> <li>One of the most important qualities of a harmonious environment.</li> <li>Get to a place of understanding where people are coming from and what they are experiencing in this moment.</li> <li>Lead the whole family to a greater community.</li> <li>Your job is to create the communal aspects of the family.</li> <li>Communication forms the backbone of any thriving family community, and it's the backbone for a thriving community.</li> </ul> </li> <li> <b>Fostering a space where everyone feels heard and valued.</b> <a href="https://otter.ai/u/FG4xdpR6vyApTH7Gwaf8-bH25iM?tab=summary&t=1544s" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">25:44</a><ul> <li>One of the big aspects of communication is fostering a space where everybody feels heard and feels valued.</li> <li>When someone doesn't feel heard, repeat back everything they've heard.</li> <li>Communication forms the backbone of any thriving family community. One of the most important aspects of communication is leaning in other people's direction and helping them understand they are heard.</li> <li>Check out crystalcredo.com/store for more details.</li> <li>The more you can solve these aspects as you do that, the...</li> </ul> </li> </ul>
