Summary: Amy Gallo: HBR Guide to Dealing with Conflict<br> Amy Gallo is an expert in conflict, communication, and workplace dynamics. She combines the latest management research with practical advice to deliver evidence-based ideas on how to improve relationships and excel at work. She is the author of the Harvard Business Review Guide to Dealing with Conflict*, a how-to guidebook about handling conflict professionally and productively.<br> <br> In her role as a contributing editor at Harvard Business Review, Amy writes frequently about a range of topics with a focus on interpersonal dynamics, communicating ideas, leading and influencing people, and building your career. She is also co-host of Harvard Business Review’s Women at Work podcast, which is in its sixth season.<br> <br> In this conversation, Amy and I discuss some of the key strategies that have emerged from her research on the most effective ways to prepare for conflict. We explore why a larger strategy is more important than a script, how to plan out your message, and the value of taking the other side’s perspective.<br> Key Points<br> <br> Be honest with yourself that a conversation may be difficult, but also seek a constructive way to frame it.<br> Take your counterpart’s perspective, but don’t assume you know everything they are thinking.<br> Plan your message by appealing to a shared goal.<br> Focus your efforts on framing the larger strategy and outcome rather than a specific script or phrases.<br> Avoid scripting out a conversation, but have clarity on how you will start and the 2-3 points you need to convey.<br> When conflict emerges in the organization, leaders are wise to lean into it rather than shutting it down in the moment.<br> <br> Resources Mentioned<br> <br> Harvard Business Review Guide to Dealing with Conflict* by Amy Gallo<br> Harvard Business Review’s Women at Work podcast<br> Amy Gallo’s website<br> <br> Related Episodes<br> <br> How to Manage Abrasive Leaders, with Sharone Bar-David (episode 290)<br> The Way Into Difficult Conversations, with Kwame Christian (episode 497)<br> The Way Out of Major Conflict, with Amanda Ripley (episode 529)<br> <br> Discover More<br> Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic.
