Summary: <br> The Christmas Holidays are over now. It would have been great if I could have downloaded the next 3 podcasts before Christmas. Some Circumstances arose and that did not happen. I believe the next three podcasts are well worthwhile to listen to for any holiday so I will be downloading them for your benefit this week. Better late than never. Valentines is the next big one maybe listen to the words of wisdom from this podcast and apply them to any holiday <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Remember the purpose of holidays. I believe it is to have us be connected, loving, and generous in expressing our love for one another.<br> <br> <br> <br> Let’s be caring and respectful. If this was your last day on earth<br> <br> <br> <br> What would you be doing? Who would you be talking to? I know for me it would be to have my loved ones around, playing games and expressing my love to them. I would cook their favorite food and enjoy sitting around the table sharing the bountiful food. The biggest gift to each other is to be loving and respectful. With all the different flues going around and the uncertainty around them, here is an opportunity to give each other the dignity and respect of listening to each other’s choices and not make each other wrong for those choices. There is no guarantee that there is going to be a tomorrow so what legacy do you want to leave right now at the moment. <br> <br> <br> <br> HOLIDAYS are not about how much money you can afford to spend on each other. In my family, there are very wealthy and there are very poor so how would you interact so everyone feels valued and experiences that they can contribute and be contributed to? In this podcast, I share some simple fun, and loving ways.<br> <br> <br> <br> One of my relatives seems to always be broke around any holiday time. She is very creative. She makes these lovely cards hand-printed on cardboard and she cuts them with pinking shears and decorates them with ladybugs or stickers. She taught this to the little ones as well so they felt they were contributing. Here are some examples of these cards from the little ones.<br> <br> <br> <br> I will let you do my hair complaint-free. I will put away my toys. I will put my jacket on. I will get Aunty to loan you her car. I will play with my toys quietly. I will go for a nap like a good girl. <br> <br> <br> <br> Examples for the adults. I will shovel snow from your driveway every time it snows. I will wash your floors and vacuum once a month. I will wash your car. I will clean the inside of your car when you ask. I will weed your garden when you ask. I will mow your lawn. You getting the drift. Listen to the podcast who knows what words of wisdom you may hear. <br> <br> <br> <br> Go for it! I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go the way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others?Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)I want to personally hear about your dreams and goals. I will give you one amazing tip that will help you out. I will call people who let me know they left a five-star rating for this podcast and provide their user name on iTunes, google plus, blubrry the podcast providers I use. Just hit the button subscribe to my podcast and rate it a number 5.!Write to me at wendy@wendybergen.comFace book page” Getting Unstuck with Wendy B,
