Summary: <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Links to books in these notes are Amazon affiliate links.<br> <br> <br> <br> We live in a hookup culture that fears authentic intimacy above all else. What kind of problems does that cause in marriage? And how can sacramental marriage heal those wounds? That’s what we’re talking about in this episode with Dr. Timothy O’Malley, author of <a href="http://amzn.to/2HRPLMA">Off the Hook: God, Love, Dating and Marriage in a Hookup World</a>, the book we wish would be used EVERYWHERE for marriage prep. <br> <br> <br> <br> Tim is a husband, father of two, and the director of education at the McGrath Institute for Church Life as well as academic director of the Notre Dame Center for Liturgy. He and his family live in South Bend, Indiana.<br> <br> <br> <br> In this episode we discuss how married sex can be overemphasized as the center of married life, how the true nature of marriage is communion and deep friendship, and how raising children fits into everything. We also chat about misconceptions about marriage we have personally suffered from and how a Catholic view of marriage as two people helping each other to Heaven differs from the cultural concept of marriage as achieving personal fulfillment. It’s a great conversation so grab a cup of coffee and listen in!<br> <br> <br> <br> Tim’s book:<br> <br> <br> <br> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594718210/ref=as_li_ss_il?pf_rd_p=1cac67ce-697a-47be-b2f5-9ae91aab54f2&pf_rd_r=AP3XXX6W2V97D00P36KT&linkCode=li3&tag=fountainsofcarrots-20&linkId=f3619087fcb064a4ed70fddb2b1dd725&language=en_US" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"></a><br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <a href="http://amzn.to/2HRPLMA">Off the Hook: God, Love, Dating and Marriage in a Hookup World</a><a href="http://amzn.to/2C5Y4zR">T</a><br> <br> <br> <br> Connect with Tim:<br> <br> <br> <br> * <a href="http://churchlife.nd.edu/">Notre Dame’s Church Life Journal</a>* <a href="http://twitter.com/timothypomalley">Twitter</a><br> <br> <br> <br> Patreon!<br> <br> <br> <br> Do you love FoC and want to help us keep doing what we’re doing (and more!)? Well, we have just the thing for you! Our Patreon is finally up and running so listeners can support the work we do.<br> <br> <br> <br> <a href="http://www.patreon.com/fountainsofcarrots">Head on over to support the podcast as a patron</a> and get access to special episodes available exclusively to patrons!<br> <br> <br> <br> Come hang out with us!<br> <br> <br> <br> Haven’t joined in on the fun with 4,200 other FoC listeners in our facebook group? It’s your direct line to some fantastic folks who also care about faith, culture, books, and whatever our current masterpiece theatre craze might be! Join in with the link below.<br> <br> <br> <br> * <a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/877665322268577/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Fountains of Carrots Raspberry Cordial Social Club on Facebook</a> (our Facebook group)* Connect with Haley on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/CarrotsForMichaelmas?fref=ts" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://twitter.com/HaleyCarrots" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Twitter</a>,<a href="http://www.instagram.com/haleycarrots" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> Instagram</a>, and <a href="http://www.carrotsformichaelmas.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">her blog</a>* Connect with Christy on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/Fountainsofhome" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://www.instagram.com/christyisinger" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a>, and <a href="http://www.fountainsofhome.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"></a>
