Leadership in the Home | An Interview with Andrea Davis




Leading Saints Podcast show

Summary: Andrea Davis and her husband Tyler run a website, <a href="https://betterscreentime.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">BetterScreenTime.com</a>, born from a need to find a better way to lead their five children around the topic of using technology. She has a B.A. in secondary education, and her experience ranges from teaching preschool swimming lessons to college-level Spanish. She has served in the Church as a Young Women president. Andrea now works from home as an admin for a motherhood website, a health coach, and a podcast copywriter. In this interview, she and Kurt discuss how to approach parenting as leading in the home.<br> <br> <a href="https://leadingsaints.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Andrea-Davis-headshotcropped.jpg"></a><br> Highlights<br> 4:10 What it means to be a parent and what it means to be a leader: establishing a culture<br> 6:30 Leading instead of parenting<br> 8:40 1. A good leader works in a partnership with God, seeking and looking for personal revelation<br> <br> <br> * Hearing Him in the scriptures<br> * Finding your own quiet time<br> * Filling your home with what is important to you: part of creating a culture<br> * 19:30 Partnership with your spouse (and their strengths) in your vision and goals<br> <br> 22:15 2. Modeling the culture you want to have<br> 30:00 3. Good leaders gather the people they love: family councils and personal interviews<br> <br> <br> * "Rumbling" with your family members: have difficult conversations, listen, and take that into account when making decisions<br> <br> 37:30 4. A good leader serves but also sets boundaries<br> <br> <br> * The balance of supporting and fostering independence<br> <br> 44:02 5. A good leader crafts a vision by listening to the Spirit<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> * What is important to you?<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> * Roadblocks happen and strategies may need to change: modeling resilience<br> * Why are we here? What defines us as a family?<br> * Look to family history/ancestors for vision and what has been important in your family culture<br> <br> Links<br> <a href="https://betterscreentime.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">Better Screen Time</a><br> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/betterscreentime/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">@betterscreentime</a><br> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/betterscreentime/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer">Better Screen Time</a><br> <a href="https://amzn.to/35kKBBE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting</a>, by Brene Brown<br> <a href="https://amzn.to/2Wcj3dA" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Your Best Year Ever,</a> by Michael Hyatt<br> <a href="https://amzn.to/2N7LTqr" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Dare to Lead</a>, by Brene Brown<br> <a href="https://amzn.to/2VXuAPf" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Start with Why</a>, by Simon Sinek<br> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Vision-Driven-Leader-Questions-Energize-ebook/dp/B07VNHC41J/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Vision Driven Leader</a>, by Michael Hyatt