Summary: I constantly hear people talking about how important it is to “be okay with” their experience.<br> <br> They want to accept what is. Be okay with. Feel a certain way about [fill in the blank].<br> <br> That looks like the ticket to freedom, the key to satisfaction, the way we experience peace.<br> <br> Except it’s not. Not really.<br> <br> What if there’s something better than being okay with your experience?<br> <br> What if how you feel about your experience isn’t up to you, and doesn’t actually matter at all?<br> <br> Perhaps you don’t have to be okay with your experience after all…
