Summary: How to Make Your Shy Kid More Comfortable - - Arrive early. Showing up to a new situation or environment early allows a shy child to get acclimated, as well as feel as if the newcomers are joining them. -Arrange for your shy child to engage in a new activity before signing them up for planned lessons. For example, allowing a kid to play in the pool before swimming lessons will raise their comfort level. -Encourage your shy child to speak first, and with a planned statement, when in public.
