10 Preventing Burnout and Dealing with Disappointment with Jake Zammit




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Summary: For this episode I have a great conversation with Jake Zammit, the Director of Coaching for Legends FC in Brighton, MI. As a youth soccer player, Jake was a member of several Michigan State Championship Teams. In high school, Jake was a 4-time Varsity player at the University of Detroit Jesuit; winning a State Championship in 2001 and receiving All State honors. After High School, he accepted a full ride athletic scholarship to attend Quincy University in Illinois. US Soccer honored Jake as the 2018 Girls National Competitive Coach of the Year.    Questions to Consider: What is your child’s goal for their current season? What is their end goal for their youth sport? Is to play varsity in high school? Is it to play in college?   Jake says, “Parents and athletes have to be honest with each other about what they want to get out of the game.” Are you having honest conversations to make sure you’re on the same page?   If you haven’t already done so, sit down with your child to plot a course to get to the end game he or she really wants.   Jake says, “If you push your player too hard, you’ll eventually end up losing them.” How are you tempted to push your young athlete in ways that might not ultimately be helpful?   What aspect of your character or spiritual development do you want to focus on this season? Jake suggests “patience” or “conflict management” as a place to begin.   Follow BSD on Facebook today!  Message me there with your questions, episode ideas, or prayer requests.