Summary: This episode focuses on communication. Kim starts with the familiar love language framing popularly used to facilitate communication about love between partners, but moves beyond that framing to reflect that love, itself, is not a single-dimensional feeling. Kim discusses getting in touch with our own desires, then asks two series of reflective questions to facilitate a conversation about how we communicate about those desires in our relationships. Question set one: How do you feel love physically? How do you feel love emotionally/spiritually? How do you feel love intellectually? Share these answers out loud with your partner. Question set two: How do you express love physically? How do you express love emotionally/spiritually? How do you express love intellectually? Share these answers out loud with your partner. You can use these questions to communicate about love, desire, and affection in all our relationships. These questions are especially interesting for parents to ask their children. Conversation starters: What was surprising about the answers to those questions? How do you think answers to those questions change over the course of a relationship? Thanks for listening. If you like the podcast, support the podcast. Rate and review on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts, share it with friends, and become a Patron to get a private coaching session with me.
